My ex and I are friends but?

[Nicowillemse2002]

So about 2 years ago me and my ex broke up.

She had left me for her at the time ex boyfriend and then proceeded to date him until February of this year. So about 4 months back I received a text from her out of the blue she had ask me how I had been and if I wanted to get together and just hang out. So like the dumbass I am I went to go visit her to my surprise I arrived to see my ex in a drunken state. We sat and talked for hours and eventually she started crying saying that she never forgot about me and she started playing a song I used to sing to her Rascal Flatts bless the broken road she then hugged me and wanted to kiss me I broke away not wanting to go down that road again. A couple months have passed and we would still speak frequently like everyday and then last Saturday night she and her friend came over to visit I never really had a liking in her friend. Her friend got drunk and they had to leave... We had spoken about our love lives and I knew at that time she had met a new guy but they weren't dating and now all of a sudden she just started ignoring me she doesn't talk to me she doesn't react to my social media posts and she just flat out rejects my calls if I call her

I just want closure about it all what did I do wrong what's going on


And we did talk about the hugs and the almost kiss she said she was drunk and wasn't thinking staright?

[Anonymous]

Sometimes the only closure we need isn’t what we get from the people who hurt us but from what we can do for ourselves. To me wanting closure is just an excuse to keep contact w/ that person, and sometimes you don’t even really want that finalizing conversation. You just want them to stop doing whatever is hurting you and be the version of themselves that will make all the bs worth it. But that thought process is only you playing yourself more than they ever could, because no one will disappoint you more than you disappoint yourself by going back to a toxic situation that does nothing for you.