For you, a woman is considered old after what age?

[jasmine426]

I am forty six years old

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[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am thinking about age from a broader point,

everybody who’s alive now, will be dead 100 years later. Some a bit earlier, some a bit later, but all of us will be dead.

The world is so old, the universe is so old, compared to it we are all just children, when I look at 82 years old people they get happy with tiny things, people at their 40-50s, they like to think they are mature but in truth, they are just big kids as well.

Our bodies keep growing, while our soul stays young, so if you ask me when a woman is old, I’d say, she’s old when she’s dead, because there’s no such thing for a woman to feel old as long as she’s alive.

They all strive flirt, attention…

There’s nothing worse for a pretty woman than to feel old… She might die of it…

Because when you are used to all the men being around you and being vulnerable to your beauty, and suddenly it’s taken away from you just because you are a bit older than before, there’s nothing worse than this. So, no matter how old you become, men’s attention doesn’t define your youthfulness.

Feel young, feel alive.

46 years old is same age as my mother and she’s young, younger in heart than me.

[zeitgeist057]

It's similar for men, for everyone. As we get older, especially if we got a lot of romantic attention from those when we were younger, as it starts to fall off with age it can be a blow to the ego.

I'm dealing with this and realizing you have to find some other ways of getting your self worth, which is a bit easier to say than do, as we are very social animals and get a lot of our emotions and fulfillment out of interactions with others. I see it as being spoiled a bit when I was younger, now I have to struggle a bit but I welcome it. I know many people haven't had even the momentary blessings of the adoration of many strangers.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@zeitgeist057 Yep. I believe once a woman realizes what it feels like to be the only woman in the room, all men gather around, it is hard to realize you’re aging and the charms that worked 5-10 years ago doesn’t work that easily anymore.

In the past it took you just one smile to make any man do anything you wanted them to do, that’s such a big power, I’ve solved so many problems by just smiling and being flirty. All that was because I was/am an attractive young female.

My mom is and used to be much more attractive than me, she was Sharon Stone lookalike in her youth, now that she’s in her 40s, she sometimes feels depressed because she’s still that flirty, charming, youthful, charismatic woman that she used to be, but if in the past 100 out if 100 men turned their heads to look at her, the numbers decreased a bit…

I can imagine how painful it can be for a woman who used to be the brightest woman everywhere she went.

As for you, aren’t you too young to feel the way you do?

But yes, I understand what you say…

Actually, my boyfriend of 3 years, (who I am in a long distance relationship for 2 years due to strict lockdown in China and inability to meet each other) told me the other day that I am getting older and maybe I need to think about my future instead of waiting for him because we don’t know when we’ll meet and he wants me to use my youth years to my benefit.

It hurt me, he’s just 27 and he already thinks 25 is maybe too old to keep waiting to meet each other again… I know it’s been 2 years and I feel proud he’s been loyal to me for these 2 years but I feel sad he is ready to let me go even though we have waited for so long to meet each other again.

[zeitgeist057]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 I'm actually 44, but even at 34, I was starting a little bit to lose the full "100 turned heads" that I seemed to have in my late teens and 20s. Now, depending on the scene, I have sometimes felt invisible. But other times like the other night, I went to a pub, and it was such a refreshing feeling to have so many strangers talking to me and being interested, I felt very fulfilled with the experience.

Sorry to hear about the pain of that conversation with your boyfriend. I don't know him or his heart, but it may be that he just wants what is best for you, and if that is the case, then it just means he truly loves and cares for you, more than he cares for his own selfish desire to be with you. Of course, it could also be the opposite, and he is thinking of his own youth wasting away in waiting as well? Either way, it's unfortunate you are locked away from each other, I hope you get a satisfying resolution.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@zeitgeist057 Oops, seems like I forgot to reply.

I know that feeling it can truly be refreshing to be in the center of attention.

I feel sad to imagine I will age and will have less and less attention year by year, but what gives me a hope is that, when I was 18, my 40 years old mom turned more heads than I did haha

Anyway, isn’t 44 still considered quite sexy age for a man, at least that’s what I’ve heard from girls who like older men.

by the way, I like your username, I’ve seen very interesting documentaries with the same title.

[zeitgeist057]

@LaFemmeFatale_1 Thanks, I heard about a documentary that came out with this name, but I haven't seen it yet. I first heard the word in my Psychology class, it must have been 25 years ago, and I liked the romanticism of it.

I agree, 44 isn't really that old and I thought people were just being nice, but I have seen genuine surprise on people's faces when I tell them my age and they say they thought I was 10-15 years younger. I'm blessed with a wasian heritage lol. In fact, the other night at the pub I mentioned, there was a woman I'm going to guess she was between 25-28, and she kept coming to me and telling me how much she loved me. Obviously drunk, but still sincere haha.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yup you are definitely a 90s kid 😆

[DocHS]

I’m the age where a lot of you think I’m too old but the shirt bottom says it all

[Bobbyfarris123]

Hello there nice to meet you

[IsoUser]

Hey their as long as I don't see a quote " Tramp Stamp " I'm there 😉😍

[FunkyMonkee]

Except for the age (she's a year older) and the tits (she's practically an A cup) you look a lot like my ex-sister!

[DocHS]

@Bobbyfarris123 hi!

[DocHS]

@IsoUser no tramp stamp, just one tattoo on my arm for my deceased pup

[FunkyMonkee]

Hi! My ex-sister only has one or two, too. A tiny shamrock on her shoulder because we're Irish and was born on st. Patty's day and IF she has another, it's probably just her name very small and in a "hidden" place.
Anyway,. other than kinda looking like her (with the glasses on), you're not bad looking and I probably wouldn't mind going out with you.

[IsoUser]

I'm just glad to hear no " Tramp Stamp " Tattoo even on Young Girl all it does is Scream Yuck LMFAO

[ahmetakkaya]

The Reality of Getting Older as a Woman

It's no secret that our society places a high value on youth and beauty. Just take a look at the media, and you'll see that the vast majority of images feature young, attractive people. This can be pretty discouraging for those of us who don't fit that mold.

So, it's no surprise that many women feel like they're considered old once they hit a certain age. But just how old is considered old?

Well, that depends on a number of factors. For some, it might be 35. For others, it might be 50. It really varies.

One thing is for sure, though: the older a woman gets, the less valued she feels in our society. This is unfortunate, but it's the reality of the situation.

So, if you're a woman over the age of 35, don't despair. You're not alone. And you're certainly not old. You've just hit an age where our society doesn't value you as much as it used to. But that doesn't mean you're not still beautiful, smart, and worthy of love and respect.

[zeitgeist057]

I definitely agree it depends on the person. I'm in health care and I have seen people my own age that come to hospital and it's like they are practically dead, then others twice my age who act like they have another 50 years to live no problem.

[LiamSawyer]

First off, you don't look anywhere near that age, you still look young and very attractive. I'd say if a woman takes care of herself she won't be considered old until late sixties, late seventies.

[Lliam]

It depends on her genes and how well she takes care of herself. It also depends on an individual guy's pov.

I remember, up to my early 20s, when I thought high school girls had the ideal female form. I thought anyone over 30 was old. LOL I even remember going to a Concourse d'Elegance car show when I was around 21, and looking forward to seeing the Playboy Playmates who were going to be there. I thought Playboy Playmates in the magazine were the epitome of sexy. But when I saw them, they were so... lush. Not quite my thing at the time. It cracks me up to look back and realize that I didn't yet understand or appreciate the fully developed female form, even though I had had girlfriends from the age of 16, and they all had well developed boobs and curves.

But as I grew more mature, I came to appreciate all beautiful women.
Nowdays, some women look amazing well into their 60s. A lot of super hot female celebrities are, surprisingly, well into their 40s or older.

I have read studies indicating that women are at their sexual peak between the ages of 27 and 45 on average. And by then, they know what they are going. So how can someone at their sexual peak be considered old?

Given all that, I don't think there is an answer to your question.

[DaveJord]

Well the older I get the more I change what I perceive to be too old... I am 45 so a women that I would consider to be too old for me to date would be anyone over 52 or so, for me... but I that does not mean I think 52 is old... because there are a lot of very sexy and active people over the age of 52. And 36 or younger is too young for me.

My current girlfriend is 46 and no way will let any one said she's too old to date, because I assure you she is NOT!!!

So man or women I guess once you get to 72 to or so you can say you lived a good and full life and are on the down slope... so 72 would be when i consider a person to be really and truly old.

[Horse-girl]

There is no age that you become old, it depends entirely on you, how you act how you present yourself to others. I know people who act old and they are just in their teens, my grandma is in her seventies and acts younger than many thirty year olds. Don't tell yourself you're old!

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s about how you feel. How you act and interact with others,

there is no real ‘old’ thing these days.

pre Covid I was bumping into women at 60 who were travelling with or without partners and having fun, nearly all of them were in great health and having fun partying etc.

I have worked with guys who are 20 and just need pipe and slippers, they hit 20 and it’s their instant middle age.

Life is about living and having fun, not trying to conform to society and ‘you are too old’ bollox.

[Curtt888]

I’d say 65. I’m 32 and I’ve made love to women in their early 60s and they are energetic and great lovers. Men should realize that as women age they k is what they want and they are more willing to do more things in bed without being hung up on social norms or fear of how it makes them look to others. They are horny. I had one woman who I had as friends with who was 58. She’d come over to my house to use the pool and would always swim nude in front of myself and a few friends. She wasn’t shy at all. It was beautiful and very sexy. We made love very often before she went home. Age is a liberating factor.

[DWornock]

It is difficult to say what age I would consider old since that is based on many different factors. However, in many societies and for most of human history women reached their peak desirability at ages 14 to 22 and it was all downhill after that. Unlike 200 years ago or even 100 years ago, in modern USA very few women marry before age 20. Therefore, in modern USA, the peak desirable ages for women are about 20 to 26 and it all downhill after that. Certainly, even in modern USA, let alone much earlier times, there is very little demand for woman age 30 and above except from middle age and older men that cannot attract younger women.

[MTC29]

There is no set age. My SO is age 54 and she looks good. I know that she's no longer really blonde (her hair is colored) and she has a few wrinkles around her eyes, but she doesn't look old at all.

Ladies, weight gain not only adds pounds, but also adds years to your appearance. Twenty pounds overweight is the same as adding five years. Put on fifty pounds and you might as well be collecting Social Security (an old age pension for those who don't live in the USA).

[SamIam96]

The answer to this question has less to do with calendar years and more to do with attitude. A person is old when s/he stops having fun. When it's no longer fun to be around them. I'd love to have a relationship with a woman who shared my passions, had the energy to explore new things.

The ability to have babies may be part of the bigger equation. For me, that wouldn't be a deal breaker.

[MCheetah]

35 and older, to be honest. I think that's old for a woman, as most women age like milk.
For men, I'd say 40 and older.

But if you mean OLD old? Then, maybe 55-60 for both genders. That's like "the common conception" of being "old" though. Personally for me, it's 35 and older for women. (And yes, I do think I'm old and crusty, too!)

[GingerGuy]

When is a guy? lol

Honestly it depends who you ask and what age they are. I still remember a time I was at a friend's house, I believe we were about 24 at the time, and his cousin and friend where there, teenagers, but they "informed" us that we were indeed OLD! lol

[TheMajesticKing777]

Well depends what you mean by old, considering I'm only 20 then I would consider many mid age people old but in reality like 40s and 50s is mid age cause a human life span is in the 70s but people usually live a bit longer so old won't be until maybe 60s

[Gloree]

I agree with you

[TheMajesticKing777]

💯💯

[CaptainOverthink]

It depends i guess.. there's no specific line that you cross. It's all pretty blurry.
- Some pass a certain age and their genes are such that they look 60 when they're 40.
- Some look young when they're far older.
- You can look older but act in a way that makes me see you as younger.

Sometimes people just have that way about them that their energy, aura, outlook and intellect makes their age irrelevant.

[ohshee]

70 .. I have seen some women that are just absolutely beautiful at the age of 65 and 70 70s little bit too old for me vet it's not who you are that makes you old it's just that number and it's just a number at 70 years old it sounds old but reall your 25.550 days alive

[Smoke-n-Growls]

60?

I don't know, depends. Some women are old at 30. Some are still young and spry and 70!

I've sparred with women nearing 70 and if you take good care of your mind and body (and, according to some of my older customers at the dispensary, smoke weed frequently) you can be "young" well into your twilight years.

[IveGotNoName]

I don't understand people saying 30 lol, does that mean people are old for 2/3's of their lives? I hardly think so. Most people don't even look near old at 30. Old is like 70 for both genders tbh. My father and my mother are both almost 60 and I don't consider them old. Just not in their youth. There is a step in between old and young, that people apparently don't quite get.

[Kaamraj]

Nothing absolute can be said because women physically age depending on genetics, diet and exercise, but I'd say from 26-29 (late 20s) is too old for me. And not only me but a majority of the world's population in; South and SE Asia, Middle East, Africa, S. America, etc. A woman's sexual mean value (SMV) is strongly associated with her youth and beauty and the latter depends on the former.

[DavidRaul]

It all depends on what you think. If you are 30 and you think you are old , then you are surely old. If you are 60 and you are full of life like a teenager, you don't have to second guess if you are old or not. Also you are not old. You are beautiful as the way you are.

[CrazyGirl2]

Well first there is a difference between “old” and too old for ME. But my mom is in her late 40’s and I don’t think she is old at all, but I think that right now at 19, any guy older than 25 is way too old for me.

[EnglishEuropean]

Oh you really don't want to know what I think. And I'm older than you!

[jasmine426]

Umm what?

[Anonymous]

After what age men are considered old too. Any man who complain about being single in their 35s and shit on women due to this but also prefere women under 30s or even under 25, should fuck themself. This is like a single women in her 30s whining about being single but also prefere wealthy men. I have no problem with dating preferences but i can't stand it when someone cry and blame the person for not dating him/her

[zeitgeist057]

What can you do? I just let the whiners whine. It certainly doesn't make them any more attractive, does it?

[Opinion Owner]

You are right. Sorry for this post

[zeitgeist057]

you are right, too. I'm just saying we don't have to waste our energy worrying about those who are going to act like this. They provide their own punishment for their actions. It's like I think when someone is acting terrible with me. I can get upset, but I usually don't bother. I think "oh man, that person has it rough, they are going to have to live with themselves for the rest of their lives and it seems like a miserable experience, always being upset and acting like a jerk?"