Is it rare to be a woman that can't ever feel remorse?

[Anonymous]

I've learned to live with my difference for as long as I can remember. I've never experienced extreme agony/sadness on funerals either. However, I never broke the law and tend to be gentle with many animals. I'm not that extreme. I'm just indifference to people's sufferings or if I were to hurt someone feelings, I just don't feel bad nor happy; I feel nothing.

This is a brief example:
Lets say a family goes on vacation for a couple days and the house is unoccupied. If I were to throw rocks, break their windows and vandalize the house, instead of being worried about the damage or if I got caught (like most people), I quickly forget about it, say ''whatever'' and throw a party.

So yeah I pretty never felt true guilt, regret nor remorse. Is this rare for a woman? I'm wondering because I feel as if I was the only woman in my area. I hear this happens more in men than women.

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I have cheated on a boyfriend in HS and like the example about the vandalism, I didn't feel bad nor guilt at all... none. Ironically I have no issues with animals. I'm gentle with them. I'm ok with them.

[OmegaSTC]

Approximately 1% of the population has an anti social disorder, which would include either psychopathy or sociopathy. A lot of them are functioning and fairly comfortable in their life. Do your best to try and understand how people feel and just keep on trucking

[Asker]

I'm assuming that just like autism (mild but functional with a normal life to fully mentally challenged), psychopathy or sociopathy has levels too. I consider myself a mild one because like stated, I never broke the law and tend to be gentle with animals. It's only me being indifferent on funerals or with people's sufferings. I just don't care.

[OmegaSTC]

I wouldn’t assume a diagnosis unless you see a psychiatrist. Do breakups upset you? Have these funerals been a parent or sibling?

[Asker]

Nope, I've never felt sad nor stressed out over breakups. In my mind, it's like a relationship comes and goes. It's like a ''so what if it didn't work out, whatever'' type of reaction. I've been in 3 funerals; my paternal grandma, a relative's uncle and my mother's best friend who died last year. I didn't feel sadness for any of them.

[OmegaSTC]

I’d wait until it’s someone that’s a huge part of your life to really judge

[TheMajesticKing777]

It's not a good thing, rare sure why not

[Asker]

I've always wonder what does remorse feels like.