Why do women make men think they'll wait for him and immediately get involved with someone else?

[Anonymous]

I was talking to this one girl who found me on a dating app. She had asked me for my context info and deleted the dating app after meeting me. I thought things were finally looking up. But then she got distant. I asked her if there were any other guys she was talking to and she said there was before meeting me but he bolted when she told him he had a kid. She told me that I was very attractive to her and that she wanted to meet me someday and that she loved the idea of her and her 2 year old daughter being my girls... We haven't talked in a while and then I find she changed her Facebook profile pic to her with a guy kissing her... So I blocked her on everything... I also deleted the dating app... She made me think she was interested and all of a sudden she's in a relationship? Why do women do this? Why do they allow a guy to build feelings for her just to destroy his heart? I'm sick of the games... And people wonder why I hate women...

[BarryLiverstone]

You can’t expect her to commit to you and not even meet you

[Asker]

She seemed pretty committed at first...

[BarryLiverstone]

Lesson learned. Next time meet irl

[Asker]

Nah... I'm done with relationships.

[BarryLiverstone]

Then why ask the q?

[Asker]

Because I was hurt and had no way to vent. This was the best way I could think of

[BarryLiverstone]

Vent to friends, no need to vent online

[Asker]

I did. I at the moment of making this didn’t realize I had a friend I could rely on. I’m not used to having good friends.

[Markie-mark]

I stopped right at dating app, that's the worst thing you can use, it doesn't serve its intended purpose

[Asker]

I know...

[Markie-mark]

Not to bully you man, sorry that came out harsh, consider online dating like the lottery; except you can improve your chance a little better with some muscle building, hobbies, general improvement in yourself but otherwise online dating is as exciting as real dating; You'd be hardpressed to meet people as openly assholish in the outside world compared to the in

[Asker]

I don't see a difference between meeting in person or online. They're all assholes...

[Markie-mark]

People aren't as brave to be an asshole for one

[Asker]

Apparently they are in my case

[Markie-mark]

Well I doubt the dating world's ready for you, I'd stick to doing important things, finding love by chance rather than by searching

[Smashingdoozy]

That sucks I'm sorry this happened to you

[JoyGirl]

She was talking to someone else irl. 😂

[Still-alive]

playing the field as some might call it