I just want to ask this quick question. How attractive do women find skinny looking guys? Is it an immediate no-go or what? Do all women just like guys who go to gyms and have muscles? As a side note, what do you expect when having a first conversation with a guy? (Any guy)
What subtle behavior about guys make you want to ignore them? It feels like girls (and everyone really) just ignore my existence... I can't figure out why.
I like skinny guys, as do lots of women. Skinny guys may not have much muscle, but they're still fit and geberally look good naked. Doubly so for tall/lanky guys. 😋
In a first conversation with a guy, I expect him to be polite and respectful. To stand out, we must connect and ideally laugh at a few points. To REALLY stand out, he does all the above and also tastefully weaves words with a sexual connotation into an otherwise nonsexual conversation. ("Intimate", "dalliance", "caress", "dominant")
Being invisible as a man has more to do with personality than body shape. Sure, muscles can help you stand out, but I argue that for men, it's all about personality.
I work with a bunch of guys that are seemingly invisible. (They're very lovable once I got to know them though!) Aesthetically, they are very middle ground in every way.
1. Their clothing screams practicality & utilitarianism. Guys who stand out either dress flashy or according to a stereotype.
2. At first glance, they don't seem threatening, but they also don't seem trusting of others. Guys who stand out are either friendly or threatening.
3. They follow all rules & adhere to social norms. Not doing this will make an otherwise invisible guy stand out in a bad way.
5. They're always clean shaven. Facial hair will make an otherwise invisible guy seem messy/unkempt.
6. They don't speak unless spoken to, and they don't elaborate on small talk with a stranger unless they're forced to or need something from said stranger. Guys who stand out stick in people's minds because they either talk to them long enough or stand out so much that the people around them associate them with someone or something.
7. They work in the background. If they want to help someone, they'll almost be secretive about it. For instance, one of my coworkers saw a girl struggling in an airport security line. Instead of approaching her to help, he inconspicuously cleared unnecessary obstacles in her way of getting through the line, without her even noticing. Guys who stand out will either make themselves known or loudly clear the way.
8. They move quickly and aren't in one place for too long. If an "invisible" guy sticks around in one place long enough, he will become familiar instead of invisible.
Indifferent. I prefer muscular men, but the last guy I had a "fling" with was more of the skinny athletic runner type. I'm not going to reject someone just for being "skinny" if they're cute and connect with me.
Media or TV isn't to be blamed. Now women actually prefer/like shaved smooth chest and even legs anyway B Maybe for some women it influences their thoughts but i feel i won't ever like or want hairy chest on men C Maybe for some women it influences their thoughts but i feel i am ok or even find hairy chest attractive D Others
I expect gentleness, being polite, being likea daddy to me. I like skinny body. I am skinny myself. Skinny guys are usually the ones who seem most attracted. And i have liked skinny since i was younger too. It looks good and i am skinny so its like we are twins. I love it.
Depends on many things, and each woman will say something different. Most girls I know aren't into skinny guys, but I personally am.
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What do you mean by skinny? I prefer skinny/lean guys, too much muscle is a turn off, just pls don't wear skinny jeans and be a bit taller than me. I'm on the chunkier side, with a short skinny guy I would feel like a grizzly 🤣🐻
