🤦🏻‍♂️Dating is pointless isn’t it?

[Anonymous]

I used tinder. Got matches, no one really wanted to talk to me.

My friend has tinder, (very attractive guy).

He gets matches by the second. 50% of the girls started the conversation. Like 100sss of matches. 😢

The key to finding a pretty nice girl is to be very very attractive and a good guy 😭 (girls only will talk to these guys).

DATING IS POINTLESS. LOVE IS A LIE 💔
It’s okay I’ll find something more interesting.
But I won’t bother ever even looking in the direction of a girl.

I agree

I disagree

[SueShe]

Dating in your age group (16-30) is indeed pointless because those dating attempts are actually nothing more that pick-up attempts for the sole purpose of fornicating and copulating but certainly not for the purpose to have an in-depth relation that would last a life-long.

You simply don't go on dating sites if you are serious about a relation. Everyone knows that those dating sites are solely platform to get laid and nothing more.

Therefore, if your aim is to date through a dating site, we also know what your intentions are.

Get out and meet people in flesh and blood and not those in binary codes made of 1s and 0s.

Also, I am quite sure that your opinion about never looking towards a girl will be something of the past in a few weeks.

[Anonymous]

Do you know how many ugly, married guys there are out there? A lot. You just need a good personality. It sucks that we live in a world where getting unlucky in the looks department makes dating harder, but it's by no means impossible. On the bright side, if you really are ugly and not just insecure, then when you do find a woman, you'll know she's not just there for your looks, that she won't fall out of love or lose attraction for you as grow older, or if you ever get into a disfiguring accident. You may find a truer, more all encompassing love once you do find it.

[slatyb]

Online dating on a photo-driven site like Tinder is obviously going to favor the most photogenic people. If you are focusing on the most attractive 10% of women on the site, and you are not equally attractive, you won't have much success. Look a bit deeper -- there are often plenty of women who are not the most attractive but are attractive enough. They would love some attention.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Dating is dating & as for me I prefer offline dating & in the past I have tried online dating & what you see & what you read isn’t always what you get so beware.

I compared online dating to a to a freak show at a circus & Halloween & a zoo & to be honest that was some freaky shit.

[Squaresquirrel]

Online dating is absolutely pointless and a waste of your time.
That friend of yours, how many dates does he go on? Is he in a relationship now?
Or just collecting matches?
"But I won’t bother ever even looking in the direction of a girl."
Sorry to be harsh here, but if you use online dating, you haven't looked in the direction of a girl, you were just being lazy and "cowardly" in a way.
Stop bother with tinder.

[SimpleGuy95]

No it´s not but sometimes people just use the wrong tactics in the wrong field. Like a diving suit won´t help preparing for a ice hockey match it´s similar with dating because I felt the same when starting to date.
Dating needs discipline and preparation because not everybody finds true love at first hand.
There are people that make dating look but it´s not.
But that doesn´t mean that it´s not worth it alltogether.

[LazerBean]

Well of course that happened, do you expect from an app that is notoriously known as a hookup app? Something meaningful? Lmao

[Asker]

Not where I’m from

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say it's pointless. I'd say setting goals to that end is pointless.
I just go out and have fun. If I get approached by a woman and something comes of it, cool. If nothing comes of it, or she flakes halfway, cool. I expect women to to flake 🤣. My best advice to you is relax, go out and have fun, and try to treat every woman with a grain of salt. Trust me man you'll be happier.
I get it man I was serious when I was your age as well.

[scott04sa22]

I’m 36 and still single I still can’t get any dates. I stopped looking because I just can’t find anybody. Plus I don’t drive and it’s dealbreakers to most women.

[charlietom]

Tinder sucks, you are witnessing the Pareto distribution in action.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Dating is difficult and its easy to get discouraged. But in the end you only need to find ONE GIRL in a planet of 3.5 billion

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Yes it is. It’s pretty much a fake friendship that hasn’t even begun

[Sour-rose]

If you think like a loser, it might be.

[Asker]

Why are you trying to insult me. It’s the truth. The girls only wanted to know the extremely attractive guys. I’ve seen it with my own eyes

[Sour-rose]

Ey, if you wanna take it like that, so be it. But no hate or high position attitude, love <3

[Guy13]

It’s all about money-making. They’re useless

[Asker]

True

[Guy13]

It’s just another layer of red tape. Meetup. com, whether ⚽️, book, or general fellowship, is the way to get around the Apps. I have a lady friend who would go to single Dad functions “accidentally”. She just wanted a steady snd angry fwck twice a week.

Point is there are other options

[elizamichale1]

No not really darling

[jahaims]

Nope.