What’s the key to a girls heart?

[enirikiu]

For me, it’s a mixture of a number of things.


1) Respect for me and my opinions and actions
2) Trust in me, and likewise allowing for me to trust them
3) Supporting me in my endeavors, hopes and dreams
4) Listening to me and engaging with me when I speak (I’ve had people talk over me before, or do that thing where they let me say my piece just so they can say theirs)
5) Take a genuine interest in my life and my hobbies
6) Take care of me, and allow me to take care of them too
7) Love me the way that I am, unconditionally
8) Being levelheaded and/or mature in difficult situations


My boyfriend has shown all of these qualities and more. One of the things on this list that is most important to me is loving me the way that I am. I’ve always felt insecure about my appearance and now my own abilities too, but he loves me despite these insecurities. In his eyes, I am perfect and I never need to change. And if I change, he’ll support and love me no matter what. This is all what he said to me.

[PrettyPriya]

For me, personally, it is a great personality. That will win me over every time. Within that a good sense of humour. I love to laugh. However, personality is number one on my list of things that "wow" me.

Without that, I don't much worry about the other things such as looks. You can be the most attractive guy in the world, but if your personality is no good, I won't give you the time of day.

Personality contains many elements too, of course. Not every single trait is going to be there with each person. However, if a lot match with my personality, that is someone worth giving a chance and getting to know.

[Chthou95]

Be athletic, good facial features

Have money and a good paying job (financially stable)

Have your own car

Living on your own

Confidence & good social skills

Be a high value man

This will sound brutal and very incelish to a lot of blue pill normies but this is what it really takes. You have to create value to win a woman's heart

[hafinjun]

Apparently a million dollars in the bank, or that's why my girlfriend for last 12 years is suddenly marrying some other Aho.. um... gentleman.

[WonderBell99]

For me, it is intelligence and a good personality.

Just be a decent human being. Treat everyone with respect. If you are able to have a scintillating conversation with me, you have my heart. I won't chase after anyone, I don’t play mind games, and I would expect my partner to do the same.

I’m my own person. Respect my boundaries and space. I want to be a great psychiatrist. Support my dreams and I’ll support yours. Promise to be my side for better or for worse, I’ll do the same for you. If you get violent, I’ll leave. I hate violence. I hate it when someone raises their tone or cusses me out.

[Anonymous]

Depends from person to person, but for me, equality and fairness are extremely important. I also value respect toward each other. One thing from what I know is that I can't stand people who can't even say “thank you” or “sorry” to others and just cuss them out. That's a huge red flag for me. I do understand if they don't know how to say it or speak much but otherwise, it's meh for me. I also like real people, I don't usually like people who try to be someone they're not to just impress a girl or someone. Otherwise, I'll be fine with anyone who has a similar personality and interest as me😄

[SueShe]

I don't know about others but this one would correspond to the one I am expecting

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I believe every girl has a different type of key. Mine is the old fashioned one; the one that is no longer manufactured and that is why there is no such key to my heart.

I don't complain because I am not the type of person that likes to be exposed to others. I would rather keep my heart closed than open to everyone that wants to misuse it.

I may be from the old school but that is how I work. My heart is securely locked away.

[Anonymous]

Let her go do what she wants; don’t smother her: she isn’t something to own; support her morally, be consistent, show her with time and proof rather than talking about it, include her in your interests, bring her along on your adventures, don’t go to bed upset towards her, make time for her, quit defending yourself when she is venting, lots of things. But guys and women are so different that it’s not clear what they need one another for other than reproduction but that’s covered now to not even been needed.

[Espresso-Grande]

The key to my heart is being honest and an open book with me. The more I get to know a guy on a deeper level, the more likely I'll fall for him

[dustybiker]

Courage to share the parts of you that you refuse to share with anyone. When you start being real you get a woman's attention.

[Anonymous]

I don't know about other girls. The key to my heart is
Be challenging and intelligent,
show that you want me,
be spontaneous, be willing to try new things,
don't be insecure or at least don't show it
oh, and have nice eyes.
It helps if you are French, Spanish, Scottish or Scandinavian.

[Anonymous]

There’s different keys.
My “key” would be
1. Intelligence
2. Caring
3. Sweet
4. Well mannered and Educated
5. Patient
6. Responsable
7. Hardworking
8. Helpful
9. Talented
10. Funny and Charismatic
11. Friendly
12. Trustworthy
13. Loyal
14. Loyal friend
15. Family oriented
16. Amiable
17. Open minded
18. Down to earth
19. Easy to get along with
20. Fun
21. AUTHENIC 💖

[Valso]

The key is paracetamol for women:

[Desconhecida]

Acceptance. Being able to see through our walls and still love us. No makeup, no act, no lies.

[Leshen]

I don't know about other women but for me it's a mixture of lots of wisdom, compassion, respect, ambition, charm, humor, physical attraction, consistency, loyalty, honesty and good sex. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[RandomGuy1030]

PAIN. It is the ONLY way. For men it's submission thats why we like dogs

[Anonymous]

Being physically attractive. Look at how many women get excited and giddy when an attractive guy is around. They aren't getting butterflies with the average guy that buys her flowers 😂😂😂

[Fireguy17]

A sense of humor, make them laugh.
Being a good cook doesn't hurt either.

[MCheetah]

Money, height, and arrogance. 😂

[Carolus]

By being a her puppet and a simp.

[DataOrganizer27]

Make her laugh and feel emotionally safe with you

[LimitedBenefits101]

6ft tall
your wallet
10 inch D
you are feminist lover
abortion lover

[UniquelyBasic]

Make them good food 👍

[Deathraider]

I thought it was obvious.

A Scalpel.