Is my mother lazy?

[Anonymous]

Is my mom lazy she does not work (she’s on welfare) I don't live at home and she except me to take my younger brother to an overnight appointment at the hospital because she does not want to do it and I'm telling her I might have to work and she's pushing me to do it

my bro dad is a deadbeat not in his life

[missmels]

She’s lazy. You’re not the mother. I suggest you cut back on being so “available”. If you don’t live at home then how can she punish you?

[Asker]

I don’t help her I just from time to time call younger siblings (not her) and ask how doing I see mother like once every 4 months and she’s still pushing me to take him telling me the appointment is a month away and that I can’t even doing it

[missmels]

If you can’t do it, don’t do it. She can’t make you. She has to figure it out, not you. Stay strong

[Asker]

Yeah I texted her saying I don’t want to take her child to the doctor it’s her child not my responsibility and that I’m not available to do it

She did not reply back

[XXblack88]

Well it seems inconsiderate of your mother to be asking at the last minute. She wants to be the mom she should be doing the majority of the caretaking.

[Asker]

It’s not at last minute it’s a couple weeks in advance but u told her I will probably be working yet she telling me it’s overnight appointment so she wants me go work 9 hours stay up all night with my bro at hospital then go back to work while she has no job

[XXblack88]

Oh ok yeah that's very lazy.

[Luckycharms12]

Tell her get off her ass and look after her kid