Lesbian co-worker likes me?

[Anonymous]

Do you know if body language signs of attraction apply to a lesbian with a girl friend. I ama straight male working with a lesbian coworker. She is always complementing my smile, smiling, staring at me when I am working. When I catch her she either locks eyes and smiles or turns away quickly. She mentioned that I am super easy to talk to, complimented my “intelligence” . She stays longer to talk with me , always facing me, preening, mirroring my behavior etc. She is really open about her childhood. However, she has a girlfriend. I’m a bit confused, I feel like she’s attracted to me, or we have something brewing. She even began saying I am able to listen to her vent, which is one of girlfriend “weakness”. What do you’ll think?

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She gets jealous when I talk to other girls at work. I know a lesbian is attracted to women. I truly do. However, I am co fused. If a heterosexual female did this , it would be signs of attraction. No need to call me delusional. Chill a bit

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She leans in really close every chance she gets. Bumping into me. Keep I mind we have another computer but decides to use mine. She defends me as I was the new one. Like I said I’m just a bit confused

[D_Bone_Steak]

Not only dod female-female relationships have the highest rate of domestic abuse... but can you guess what they usually have infidelity issues for? DICK. Any chick can flick a bean, but she's still going to crave that feeling of being filled up.

What I think is... it is what it is. Socially I'd just let her admire and not think much of it. Shit, the stright chicks be doing it too, I might as well have the carpet munchers doing as well.

Now if you're hard up and want to get in her pants... go jerk off or something, get a girlfriend, or do what I do and fuck a few hookers every night.

[PrettyPriya]

Ok, sexuality lesson. If she is a lesbian, she is NOT into you. Plain and simple by the definition of what a lesbian is. Now, if she is bisexual, she might be. Sounds to me more like she is just friendly with you and trusts you.

Back to the lesbian thing though. They ARE NOT interested in dating men. I know some myself and they have no sexual or relationship feelings towards guys. It is that simple.

Plus, I don't advise workplace relationships anyway, lesbian or not. What happens when a horrible breakup happens and you two are forced to see each other? Are you going to quit? Are you going to find a new job over it? Those things do happen.

[SecretsofKB]

I got this one! Hi there! Gay woman here! Yeah... no... is she is lesbian than this is nothing more than pipe dream for you.

I joke around with my male coworkers all the time. One of my best friends is a guy.

All of that is indicative that I like you... but you don't have the right body parts so I don't like you that way.

[Asker]

Pipe dream …. Yeah no. I never said I like her like that.

[SecretsofKB]

But why are you even worried about her actions then?

[Asker]

Because I was curious. Maybe read the question right

[SecretsofKB]

Lol. I did read the question bud.

[Asker]

She just told me.. without asking before you get all defensive… that she is bi.

[SecretsofKB]

Lol then there's your answer... without getting all defensive...

[Asker]

I knew I wasn't crazy haha. Everyone here is just too quick

[MrCommodore]

It sounds like she is subconsciously attracted to you, Maybe she is Bisexual and thought she was Lesbian and is now starting to get heterosexual feelings. I heard of a couple of girls in Lesbian relationships who cheated with men.

[Asker]

Yeah I totally agree on the subconscious aspect. Everyone seemed to ignore that part. Thanks

[Avicenna]

It's possible that she feels comfortable complimenting you knowing there is no chance of temptation with you. Or she could be bisexual.

[Agape93]

Lesbians aren't into men. Don't be delusional.

[Anonymous]

She sounds like she thinks you're her friend.

[Guy13]

Women are strange.

[Guy13]

They were not Intelligently Design to be in sexual (Eros) relations, however, same-sex are designed to share brotherly/friendship love (Phillo). She’s discovering the lie THAT lesbian relationship is not Natural.

[SecretsofKB]

This is some whacko stuff...

[Guy13]

It’s basic knowledge that my7th graders possess, as well as Logic, some GREEK,, andability to Critically think rather than operate on Feel and emotionality like some impulse driven, instinctually reactive, and without thinking single-celled organism or Dawgs…where do you think “sex like horny and howling dogs running the Neighborhood” and “make babies like a rabbit” originate from —Man behaving obviously unnaturally EVEN TO THE ANIMALS with both the physicality and functionality incompatible. Man-Man and Woman-Woman human behaviors, Even the Animals without Being, instinctually KNOW BETTER than those made in the image of God…Fleshly driven Beings with their Soul, Mind, and Body given over to their rebellion to Absolute Truth and unnatural lust…”crimes against Nature.”

[CloudMassacre]

I’m friends with some lezbeans and they’re rad af