Girls, Would you support a guy through health issues?

[Anonymous]

Hi Ladies I’m currently going through a health issue the last two weeks from cycling I irritated my urethra/ prostate my doctor has assured me it will get better it just takes time. It’s extremely uncomfortable I. have the feeling of urinating and discomfort 24/7 I’m really worried and praying I recover this is torture. Anyway I was curious are there women who would be supportive and date a guy going through health issues?

[coldmarch]

The issue you have is not permanent, it's an irritation and will fade away in the next weeks, so you can forget about this.
In case you were disabled or have some permanent condition, anyway, yes, women would be supportive, if they like you. But this is simply normal: it doesn't exist a partner without "issues", any time you get in a relationship you (male or female) will have to deal with some pack of potential issues: behavioural problems, personality problems, psychiatric problems (adhd, ocd etc), physical issues or dysfunctions, sexual issues, hormonal issues, self-immunity issues, allergy issues, phobias, paranoia, addictions, eating disorders, genetically inherited vulnerabilities to some organs, and whatnot.
It's just the norm and part of the expectation when getting into the life of someone else. Having a temporary urethritis is really really nothing... Very good for you if you have just that.

[Asker]

Thank you coldmarch I know I’m over reacting I’m just scared in case it is some chronic issue that doesn’t recover I always think the worst 😂😅

[LazerBean]

If I was married or engaged to him, happily. Otherwise not likely.

[Asker]

😔 fair enough so even in my case if I took you on an amazing date and treated you like a princess but I was like I can’t have sex for a few months because of an injury you would get up and leave?

[LazerBean]

Not a big deal at all, we waited till marriage anyway.

[Asker]

Thank you good to know 😊 I’m just worried because I am a really nice guy like I do want a soulmate I know it’s not serious thank God but I always think the worst 😅😂