Would you help and support him?
E. g. pay for his food, fuel, etc..


Stop. Stop stop I can see you doing it one time but after that bulshit has he ever paid you back that is your money you've worked hard for it he's supposed to be supporting you he's the one that supposed to be Mister Macho if you keep doing it he will keep taking it if he was the person that he says that he is he would not be asking you for money come on think about this look deeper you're being taken for a ride and I think you know you are that's the reason why you're asking this question you need to stop because you're never going to get it back and he's going to walk away one day especially if you were to tell him right now you cut him off say no no no no no every time he ask he will walk away watch
I been doing this for many years already, If a woman wouldn't do the same for her guy she defiantly can't love him. Shouldn't even be a question really. Life is hard, if you care you care.
That's very probable as long as I can see that he's trying to get his life together and has real chances of succeeding at it. Also, it'd have to be someone I could see future with and we'd have had to be in a long term relationship before he gets into trouble. I wouldn't engage with a guy who's broke because I want family in the future and I believe that a man should only seek out relationships when he's financially secure.
Yes of course, when I was with my ex boyfriend, he always asked me for money and I didn't hesitate or ask questions why or asked for it back. I just gave it to him. Even went grocery shopping and bought all the food. Sometimes I paid when we went out to eat. Never really bothered me.
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Unless we are at least engaged, I would probably not even let her know I'm struggling. Any time a girlfriend found out I was struggling, it was never because I came to her first. However, I have learned that if I am struggling I will not be able to hide it for long. When a woman actually cares about you she is extremely observant and notices clues us guys overlook.
Uhhhhh this is tricky. I want to say no but in reality if this were a person i was serious about; maybe... for like a MONTH the MOST. and that is it. You dont want to be used and then discarded. I've seen it before
I would be okay with that, but I don't want him to become a parasite, unless he stays home!
If I were in that situation, I would at the very least, take care of all the household cleaning and some cooking while I look for a job
yes I would, if we're in a serious relationship then we would be there for each other no matter what
seriously that guy need to get his shit together first , then after that he may try to get a girlfriend
Unless you really trust him to pay you back, than you are a fool to do that.
I’d support my partner if she was broke. Though she the bread winner.
Nope. His finances are his problem.
Why isn't the bum working?
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