I haven't had any interaction to any girl in 3 years. How do I start over again?

[Anonymous]

I was dumped before and healed from it but now i am realising that I haven't talked to girl in around 3 years and mostly guys are my friend. I have become weirdly anti social and so much self conscious around people specially girls. and i feel like i don't understand people. Any help/advice will be appreciated.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Hey!

(You see! I’m having interaction with you 🤪)

Try to get some online friends first, you’ll notice girls are not that scary, then slowly start getting used to going out and being around girls, befriend them, flirt with them. It’s okay if you fail a bit, you can laugh about it as well.

Don’t worry about rejection, I’ve rejected so many hot guys (at that time I was scared of falling in love and rejected everyone) it’s not about whether you are hot or not, even the best get rejected.

Don’t give up trying, stay positive and never pity yourself. ☀️

[Asker]

Thanks 😃 I am surely going to try even I don't know how. Any suggestions on not go off as a creep?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Message me, I am a bit lazy about texting but I’ll help you out a bit to feel more confident with girls. Try to message me so that you don’t sound like a creep (Just for practice haha)

[Asker]

I have requested you.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Accepted 😝

[Asker]

I am new to this app and this is not allowing me to text you.
Apparantly my xper level is very low😅

[rachel776]

most people were not dating during the virus anyway

[SeekingVirginWife]

You will understand people once you have finished reading the Mein Kampf translated by Thomas Dalton, the only accurate translation in English.

[Asker]

I don't believe in reading a book will help but i will surely going to give it a try.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Don't think so hard about it. Girls won't bite you.. Just don't turn the conversation creepy. That's really the only rule.

[Asker]

U r right

[Loth2770]

As others have already said, practice is the most important thing. Pay attention to how people react to your speech, and practice conversation with people you are comfortable around before expanding to strangers.

[Avicenna]

Just take the opportunity when it presents itself. Just friendly convos and see how it goes

[PatriceONeal]

They've gotten worse in the last 3 yes bro. You've missed out on heartache, Gaslighting and dinner bills.

[Guy13]

Go to meet up

[Asker]

Thanks but There is no meet-up culture in my place.