Girls, In the age of tinder how can of u be single. I just can’t wrap my head around it. Anyone care to explain?

[Gangactivities911]

So women please explain. How can u not find a boyfriend with apps like tinder? U get literally hundreds of matches. Just go on the app find some guys that seem like your type go on some dates and pick one is it not that simple? I really just can’t wrap my head around how in the age of tinder any woman is still single.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Eh, I'm happy on my own for now and working on making my own life into what I want it to be.

And I'm still exploring a lot about myself.

Having someone around would be a distraction, and I have my sexual needs fulfilled with friends with benefits. My companionships with friends keep me happy and fulfilled, too.

There's no need for me to date right now. I want to make myself happier on my own, get more goals done and build more of my life.

Then I'll find a partner (girlfriend or enby, trans is great too). But no straight white cis men. If it's a guy, they gotta be transmasc, AMAB enby, or at the least bi and NOT white.

I've dated enough cis straight white men to know they're not a fit for me. I'm not wasting any more time on 'em.

[Gangactivities911]

lol wtf did I just read

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Apparently something too out of your experience for you to understand, lol.

Hey, it's okay. Not everyone is literate. You do you, bruh.

[mermaidcancermoon]

Wish it were that simple. A good 90% are just looking for sex on Tinder. I dont even use that app. I typically use okcupid or Match. But even still the rate of sexual interest is still in the 50 percentage. Then you have to weed through to see who has good conversation and you're left with maybe a couple viable dates.

I dont match with blank profiles. Oh and can't forget the profiles whove been on the app so long that they aren't active so dont even reply.

[Gangactivities911]

I feel like women dramatically overestimate the amount of men looking for sex plus how can u possibly expect most men to want to date u? Like why would most men want to date u. Think about that for a second. How can most men possibly be compatible with u. Like 1% of men are going to want to date u unless ur like a lot more attractive than them or something. Guys want a close personal connection just like women do.

[Daniela1982]

You really want to be saddled with some Ho from Tinder? How is that working for you?

What Ever!

[Gangactivities911]

That’s not the question and Idc where I met them as long as I like them I mean why should I care if we meet on tinder or not

[Daniela1982]

Well your question sure sounds like you were meaning Tinder (the hook up site), and you even used the name twice.

[Gangactivities911]

It’s a dating or hookup site. It’s actually advertised as a dating site and plenty of people find relationships on there. U can go on there and match with hundreds of men a week and can’t find a single one to date? Idgi

[Daniela1982]

And like I said, if you are wanting someone to marry why go to a site for sex? What decent woman wants to marry a one night stand?

[Gangactivities911]

Cuz it’s a dating site. People go on there for sex AND to find dates. Just like guys out in the real world when they approach women.

[Gangactivities911]

And regardless there are other dating sites that are more specifically to find a date than a hookup so why not use those?

[Daniela1982]

And that's why you never find decent girls. *rolls eyes*

[Gangactivities911]

I have a high sex drive I want a girl with a high sex drive kill me

[luxxoxo]

Can’t just trust anyone. Some people have good intentions and others just want to get in your pants. It’s not genuine and sometimes it is. It takes time to find a good one if a girl wants a real one.

[Gangactivities911]

So why not just go for it til u find one that’s genuine?

[luxxoxo]

If you wanna rush. Then yeah. Still not that simple

[Gangactivities911]

Why is it not that simple? And I mean how is this rushing? Women are the ones that should be rushing not men I don’t face nearly the same biological clock as u guys do ya know?

[luxxoxo]

Maybe I’m caught up on finding the right one vs. just finding one

[Gangactivities911]

There’s 1000s of guys on tinder not one of those is the right one?

[luxxoxo]

You could find the right one still isn’t that simple takes time. Unless you just wanna get with one. My opinion will just go on forever. This has been an interesting one !

[Gangactivities911]

So ur solution is to not try? That makes 0 sense. It’ll take too long so I might aswell not even try. What?

[luxxoxo]

didn’t say that was my solution. There was ever an issue.

[Gangactivities911]

Ur just waiting for the perfect guy to fall in ur lap and expect to put no effort into it no? Cuz that’s what ur sounds like. Otherwise you’d be willing to siphon through guys online

[luxxoxo]

I put my effort and time into someone I really like even without using an app.

[Gangactivities911]

R u still single? How long have u been looking for a relationship if not

[luxxoxo]

Last relationship was in February.

[LazerBean]

Because tinder is just a hoe app, most people on it are either not looking for a real relationship, or not worth being in a real relationship with.

[Gangactivities911]

Everyone is a hoe compared to u tho.

[LazerBean]

Oh yeah, how so?

[Gangactivities911]

There’s other dating apps too by the way. U have access to thousands of men at the touch of a button and u can’t find a boyfriend? Something is wrong

[Daniela1982]

@LazerBean He apparently only wants to date Ho's.

[LazerBean]

Apparently, even though he called me a hoe but now cannot seem to define what a hoe is. Weird.

[NotTacocaT6969]

Apps like tinder are not for finding a boyfriend or girlfriend.


They are for fucking strangers and then never talking to them again.

[Gangactivities911]

I was on the app for years looking for a serious relationship so that’s not always true I def know other guys who were too. Most guys are simultaneously looking for a relationship and casual sex just depends on who they match with

[NotTacocaT6969]

And did you find a serious relationship on that site?

[Gangactivities911]

No cuz like hardly anyone swiped right on me let alone replied to my messages or wanted to set up a date.

[rachel776]

easier to be single sometimes

[Gangactivities911]

That’s fair but as a guy ur most attractive when ur younger and if ur not looking for a serious thing when ur most attractive to me it’s a slap in the face and we’re not compatible. Why aren’t u looking for a relationship I might ask? Ur odds of getting a quality guy only go down with age im just saying. It’s gonna sneak up quicker than u think too.

[rachel776]

well i'm only 19 i probably have 10 or 20 years to settle down when i want

[Gangactivities911]

Personally I wouldn’t start a serious relationship with a girl over 20 and most my guy friends actually all my guy friends who are in their late 20s are focusing on girls in their early 20s. It sneaks up waaaay faster than u think just saying. And a lot if not most of the older guys on here are exclusively interested in women a good bit younger than them. Men of ALL ages are most attracted to women who are 18-21. So use ur prime to ur advantage I’d say cuz ur options are only gonna get worse and worse from here on out.

[rachel776]

i would like to know what other girls think about this

[Gangactivities911]

I can tell u for a face most women hate this fact but I promise it’s true. My 70 yr old uncle has made jokes about this before. “I may be old but I’m not dead ya know.” When the airline hostess turns around and he got flashes her panties for a second cuz of a wardrobe malfunction. Why do u think porn is ALL younger women. And it’s not just looks either younger women have more attractive personalities to most men aswell.

[Gangactivities911]

And other girls just get mad when u tell them this especially if they are over 25 or so.