Why Are Pretty Girls Single?

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DWornock · Accepted Answer

Like other women, some are single and many other are not. The reasons are mostly for the same reasons that other women are single. The primary reason is men date down for sex but the don't marry down so the girls want the hottest guys that will fuck them and reject less desirable guys that would marry them.

Another reason is from 18 to 23 they think they have all the time in the world to get married and it is a lot of fun to go out every weekend and to meet and get fucked by a hot guy. Then in their upper 20s and low 30, when they have completed their education and have obtained high incomes, they want and believe they deserve a guy with similar educations with equal or higher incomes and the refuse to settle for less. Their problem is that although they find educated high income guy most desirable, the men they are interested are not motivated by the women's education and income. Instead of some 30 year old hide with a high income such as a lawyer, they are seeking the young juicy 22 clerk that works in her office that still has her bloom.

coachTanthony · Accepted Answer

------------Many pretty girls don't get approached because men are too intimidated to say hello and or figure they already have a boyfriend or a partner.

"If you love someone set them free. If they come back with coffee then they are the one."
~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG

Xoxocutekitty · Accepted Answer

Because pretty girls want the same treatment as any other woman.

They want to be liked for who they are, not for the attainment value they bring to men.

Immature guys want to prove they can get an attractive girl, but they have no intention of keeping her, getting to know her/her friends, or actually changing their behavior or lifestyle to accommodate a healthy relationship. They get one girl and think, wow I'm the shit, I bet i can do better.

Now there are plenty of decent gents out there who also frown upon this behavior. But once treated like a carnival prize, it's very easy to be wary. So women will just live their own life being single.

hannahjo022 · Accepted Answer

Pretty girls are picky and don't like guys using them just for their looks. I know guys can be imitated by pretty girls and some guys like to degrade pretty girls by being an ass, telling them they aren't good enough, manipulating them, and telling the pretty girls they're not that attractive. I have single female friends who are gorgeous and guys will degrade them by telling them that they're ugly when those guys aren't that attractive themselves. They also don't like to play mind games, get string along, and get used for sex. Dating in general sucks and its hard to find a good person who actually wants to be in a committed relationship

Novacane · Answer

I would say a lot has to do with standards, women naturally already have high standards toward men in general so a girl on the prettier side of things will have much higher standards, and sometimes those standards will close the door for most guys. The types of guy those girls want only make up a small percentage of men, and many times those men also have options and won't really settle for just any girl. As we know women only date up not down therefore you find yourself with a lot of single people.

RingOfFire · Answer

It is very difficult being a pretty girl. No where near as great as people imagine. Can be extremely lonely. Men hit on you constantly and other men are too intimidated to say hello. Women are constantly jealous. So it isn't easy getting close to either sex. And it is hard to be recognized for anything but your looks. A lot of super beautiful women are depressed... especially since they tend not to develop social skills and later in life when their looks fade they find themselves completely alone.

VanillaSalt · Answer

Many reasons.
•Because their bad personalities counter their god looks
•because men are afraid of the consequences of asking in case she’s taken or claims harassment
•many men today don’t even see value in women anymore. Marriages just a word and dont bring anything special and will almost definitely end badly for men
•women are told to focus on their careers giving less time to the man and his offspring

Overall the blame ide say is 1 part men’s weakness 3 parts women’s fault one way or another. Men are definitely not men by last generations standards but women aren’t anything special anymore either. Their dangerous to interact with and a waste of time for most that want anything real.

wolfcat87 · Answer

Having more options might exhaust us more having to deal with so many more potential partners. Sometimes I log on to dating apps and then just feel overwhelmed after 5 minutes and log right back off for weeks or months.

Higher standards, because we know our worth and are not desperate.

Trying to figure out whether men want us for looks, sex, or for who we are as people.

Being objectified more is obnoxious. Not everyone wants that kind of attention.

Some just want to be single and are happier that way.

Eelephant · Answer

Statistically, more intelligent and attractive women stay single longer. I'm not sure why exactly but I feel like it could be men being intimidated. So in that case it's not us... It's THEM 😂

ODC2112 · Answer

Rarely is a Pretty Girl single. Pretty Girls are single when they make a point of being beautiful. Now let me explain better. An attractive woman gets a lot more attention than a normal woman therefore she inflates her ego. This means that anyone who approaches her tends to reject them if they do not fall within certain canons of her, putting themselves on a different segment from the others. Since she puts herself on a different segment from the others, many men do not approach her because she is considered unreachable. She remains single because she put other in condition to not interact with her.

Jerry39451 · Answer

From my perspective, and this goes for any and all women due to my history, but I honestly feel like every woman is too good for me and that no woman will ever fall for a guy like me. Maybe its the almost 34 years of rejection and humiliation... but I feel like its a waste of both their time and mine, so why bother?

Anonymous · Answer

I dont know but they can easily find handsome nice guys. Why do they wait to get approached? I also think ugly girls tend to be confident, not passive, etc. which make them find very good looking guys. I swear i have seen so many ugly girls getting married to very handsome tall men like my cousine. I mean i am happy for them but it is interesting. Some people call this "ugly' girl luck". I also feel bad for beautiful girls. Beautiful girls get approached by every kind of men including bad manipulating guys. So this can be the reason why some pretty girls are manipulated to date bad boys. If you are young and pretty, you are easy prey for such manipulative narcists since young women tend to be naive, passive, shy and tend to have no real adult life experience. These bad guys dont accept rejection/No. So if you have a daughter teach her to be strong, confident and not passive etc.

Saph765 · Answer

Attractive women typically have confidence and don’t see themselves as needing validation from men. However the meaning of “attractive” varies as each person has their own perception of what they find attractive. Women that find themselves attractive don’t need to seek out validation from others and can be happy with themselves and don’t necessarily need a partner to be happy. Women can be happy single fulfilling their dreams and what they want to do that makes them happy.

DevylasArsaukas76 · Answer

because a lot of guys will see her, and think they're not good enough for her, and that's she's only seeking out a certain type of male, mostly it's due to lack of confidence, or maybe feelings of inequality, maybe they don't think they're attractive themselves, and would see it as a negative if they tried to approach someone good looking

TheorionMage · Answer

They haven't defined to themselves what their 'price' is for their fidelity~

Comes a time you realize that you CAN'T BE the 'belle-of-the-ball' flavor-du-jour
at every party on a given weekend.

You've gone 'wrong' when you've lost track
of the names of many past Paramours ~

JosyJosy · Answer

they don't make a move, or guys get intimidated, or she is just down on her luck, or something's off with her, or she's super picky, or maybe she's just happy being single

HawkPerception · Answer

Could be any of the following:

-Their standards are unrealistic

-They have shitty personalities

-They don't want a relationship; only want hookups/flings

-They could be intimidating for the people around them to ask out (highly unlikely as they're likely to get attention from most guys)

TheRealAG · Answer

It really can come down to dating standards honestly, I've seen pretty girls date the horrible bad boy type of guy and some others can settle for a regular guy where the feeling was there, but most of the time the dating standards on most of these "pretty girls" can get so ridiculously high that most men just won't bother put in so much effort for a reward that doesn't seem to be worth it. On the opposite hand with higher standards some of these guys are "dating down" and not many are interested in it, and that's how you end up with pretty girls being single for so long.

blank_expression · Answer

They are pretty on the outside and rotten on the inside. How can any human develop normally when they are constantly bombarded by dopamine saturating attention? These pretty girls become addicted to attention and the attitude that develops from that is intolerable. The other thing is there are horrible in bed. Princess goes all the way to wreck that too.

I-C3_ME · Answer

If being pretty is all there is to them then I'd say because they don't make me feel loved and i don't find them interesting or funny.

I can't speak for all kinds but in a relationship, i wanne feel loved and if you can't do that then eventually we're gonna breakup

Billyscotter · Answer

Most guys are intimidated by beautiful women, and assume beautiful women would never be interested in them, so beautiful women are often avoided.

When women feel like they're only validated for their looks, they may forget what they have to offer, and they often feel isolated.

They tend to fall in love with someone who doesn't validate them only for their looks, but someone who validates their character, as well.

thimmslicc · Answer

Because we want to have fun while we are pretty. The good ones will be patient. (Men)  If they're in a rush, they're doing us a favor by going away.

Alpha09 · Answer

Because a lot of people want us just because we are attractive, not for anything else. That was my ex. Also a lot of attractive people can be lacking in the personality department, or be super stuck up so nobody approaches them.
So it depends.

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

Because many guys are scared of approaching them thinking they must be taken since they are so pretty or that they don't stand a chance since they are so pretty and out of his league. Average and below-average girls get more attention from guys and that's what makes them think they are hot-shit even though they really aren't. guys simply approach them more often because they think they have a better chance at scoring!

ChiTown33 · Answer

One of 2 reasons
1. She may be pretty on the outside but she knows it and is very ugly on the inside. She has impossibly high standards
2. She wears a sign around her neck that says 'go away". Most guys don't approach women unless that women sends them a signal that they're open to be approached. Those women either need to learn the art of signaling guys. Or go on the offensive and start approaching guys.

JSmuve · Answer

Lots of reasons
- they could be sleeping around with a lot of different guys to "have fun"
- they could be focusing on other aspects of their lives and aren't interested in relationships- they could be very pickyOr...- they could never be approached by guys because they don't put themselves in positions to be approached

fatimah01 · Answer

I'm pretty and attractive but been single for a long time. I think men doesn't approach them because they think she's already taken so there's no point🤷‍♀️

Anonymous · Answer

Well I’m pretty and single. It’s because of a fear of intimacy for me anyway. I don’t want to deal with someone knowing me and having to answer invasive questions and deal with all that.

canucker90 · Answer

I think pretty girls love the attention on social media so they don't need 1 guy in her life. She can have fun and not attach herself to one person so she detaches herself from her followers for likes and compliments. But I have a feeling any girl who thinks this way or does this will suffer major/severe depression later on unfortunately because she enjoys the addiction of it.

Anonymous · Answer

Some of us have integrity and won't just settle for any old guy. We're waiting for a quality guy to be with

Babygirlsweetheart1 · Answer

Lots of immature dudes are attracted to me but they have no clue andcin many cases know but forfeit their ability to become a man worthy of a woman. So they act stupid and waste everyones time

Minx7282 · Answer

Personally it's because I haven't found the right guy yet and most of the guys I've come across that I've liked are either gay, married or a man child so I choose to stay single until hopefully I meet a good man. 🤷‍♀️

Alyssa11 · Answer

Because guys think we’re intimidating, obnoxious, high maintenance, hard to please..😔 And then we attract the complete weirdos ah.

fonduegirl · Answer

Dunno. Maybe that's why they're single? Lol.

he-takes-a-part · Answer

stubborn
unnecessary hurdles in his effort to prove his love and affection
too much verification
exploitation by them gets them rejected
their initial confidence is not high as showcased
too choosy and selective over topics
Biggest naggers

Hanrej · Answer

Because they think their looks is gonna get them the man of their Dreams. Do the math, how many "man of your Dreams" exists and how many Girls are pretty?

There's an old saying that 90% of women will be attracted to 10% of men. Well, there you have it. You're single because you're competing for attention from a small nu ber of men.

TwistedTube · Answer

usually because they know they're pretty. So they won't just settle for someone that simply wants to date them

RawIronhide · Answer

This culture is one that profits off of dating. Think about that for a minute. That would mean these corporate dating enterprises need young attractive females to drive traffic to their dating sites. It's rigged, all of it you're being played.

Miristheiss · Answer

Most probably are not.
Those that are, are probably playing the field, busy with life goals that they aren't looking to date or she is approached by guys she isn't interested in.
Most are dating though, in my opinion.

PBarlow · Answer

It's best to think they already have someone. Then you are not obligated to pursue then on any level, thus not feeling weird or shy just because you did nothing

ThePolishKnight37 · Answer

Most men are too intimated to ask them out. They think they are taken and they also think they could never keep you either, especially if they are not rich. It is just how society has trained the male brain.

NyceGuyFinishingLast · Answer

LOL, yeah because all pretty girls are single. All the ugly girls are just so lucky that they aren't single. I mean come on ugly girls leave some men for the pretty girls.

Anonymous · Answer

Some aren't that pretty but the ones who are pretty are being encouraged to not have a relationship. Feminist leaders promote casual sex, no marriage, no children and the advance the women's career to become more powerful. Feminists want rich powerful women. They don't care if the women is happy. Actually they prefer that she is not happy and then they try to blame everything on men. Most feminists are man hating misandrists

Anonymous · Answer

There all taken where I'm at. One of them I used to see her and her newly marriage MFM husbands 1 and 2 after 3 months of datings are trying for babies. Your number two her and her boyfriend from her teen are adopting childrens. Girl number 5 dating her boss. So yeah their all taken

libsaretards · Answer

In my experience they tend to have more shallow personalities. I have met some amazing pretty girls, but most of the girls I get along with are considered average in appearance.

Anonymous · Answer

1. They are picky and aren’t gonna settle with incels or just any guy.
2. Guys could be intimidated and think they will reject them.
3. She could be focusing on other things.
4. She may not have the time due to school or work.

Anpu23 · Answer

Perhaps that might help.

dudeinohio · Answer

Some guys may think they are in relationships. Also, they may think they are not that woman's type.

Paul09 · Answer

All depends who? Some are shallow, some have a bad personality, are too picky, are looking for a sugar daddy. Don't ask guys out themselves. Too high maintenance or just think they already have someone. Could be anything.

CallmeTheKnight · Answer

It's plain and simple. You can choose to be single while being attractive. It's not so much as she's crazy or just bad with men. She's choosing to stay single because she wants to have a career or she doesn't see relationships as worthy right now.

Miah02 · Answer

I like to think I'm pretty, and single.  But i made the choice to stop dating till I graduated from college.

Leavesbound · Answer

That is one of life's mysteries. Perhaps they have standards that are so high they exclude everyone who finds them attractive.

slatyb · Answer

Not all of them. I know many very attractive married women.

BeenThereLovedIt · Answer

Few if any pretty girls I've known are single, and rarely stay single for long after a relationship ends. I think it's an urban myth

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

Because there is a common misconception that suggests pretty girls are unapproachable.

Shihab91 · Answer

most of the guys assume she has a lot of options and he has no chance with her

jshm2 · Answer

Mainly because they have ugly personalities, or just no charm.

Julielamar2 · Answer

I guess it's because they're intimidated and scared of being rejected or even humiliating

MCheetah · Answer

Are they really, though? Cause I don't think they are.

exitseven · Answer

The urban legend goes that most guys don't bother asking them out because they think they don;t have a shot. She ends up alone on Saturday night.

clampfan101 · Answer

I’m guessing because guys,(myself included I admit), too often assume that they’re already taken. That they’re “out of their league”, and asking them out is certain to lead to rejection.

Rok4bakAR · Answer

They’re not! They’re always seeking to seek their current boyF to Superman.  When and if they get Superman? They’re always seeking to upgrade him too

pizzalovershouse · Answer

Cuz lots of guys asume their taken an dont approach them

AgentRED · Answer

LIES! Pretty girls are never singles. End of story

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