Why is it that pretty girls are almost always single?
I used to have a lot of guy friends when I was a teen and in my 20s and almost always they would tell me that they felt intimidated by beautiful girl. Even if the guy had a lot to offer he would feel as though she's already out of his league, so instead of risking the rejection, they just don't even ask the girl out. So in this case, they got snubbed all because of silly assumptions.
There's a second theory I have that might seem really bad - but there are also a lot of seemingly lesser-attractive women willing to dole out sex to compensate for what they consider is lacking. Just an example, I used to work with this awful girl who was a combination of a poor personality and looks. We worked with hundreds of men and women. When she noticed a guy checking out any other female employee, she would zero in and say the most ridiculous things about herself regarding her love for anal sex, deep throating, you name it. The said-guy would sometimes revert his attention from the pretty girl to the ditch-pig because it was an easy fuck. This isn't the only time I've heard or seen this happen. Pig-chicks everywhere who don't have any dignity think that offering sex makes up for something else and in a lot of cases it works if they just pick up guys looking for the same thing.
Third reason: the pretty girl could just be selective and is turning down many men, not just guys who accuse her of being too good for. A lot of women who are gorgeous might feel they have to protect themselves from the men who simply want to date because of her looks and don't want to be treated like objects instead of people. Having her looks fussed over might seem flattering, but in the end, she's a person who may just want to be valued for a lot more, thus making her leery of just dating anyone who asks.
Ask the men what they do to these girls. Truth is men do not want the things they fantasize about. Many pretty girls who do indeed have long term relationships become damaged and almost always stop being attractive.
Men abuse them and destroy them in hopes that they will never leave. The smart ones do not take men seriously because they realize that they are not valued and respected, they run away at the first sign of foul.
I know two beautiful girls who ended up in psych ward because of how men treated them, one is till there and asked her friend to take her beautiful daughter because she was gonna kill her so she doesn't turn out the same, the other is now in politics and was Miss Jamaica.
Most beautiful girls have to make sure she is fat and unattractive after marriage in order to have a normal relationship, then he can complain and go out searching for the old her in every other woman.
The life of a pretty girl consist of men wanting them to be whores, and making them out to be whores. Having the best qualities and still being rumored to just be about her looks. Being great women still no man trusts them.
I honestly think they should just model, act and have casual encounters, since the beginning of time, people have always felt more comfortable if beautiful people were just that, so it won't change.
all of what you typed if feminist nonsense
@yourmad101338 Ok 19 year old public hair.
Ha. I'm normally the one complaining about girls I've been interested in being insecure and then playing games - apparently I'm quite good looking ya know *shrugging shoulders*. But like I replied to someone else on this q, it would seem good looking guys and girls deal with the same shit. You know, if the majority of males and females cannot muster up enough sense of self worth in their lives, and wish to live in mediocrity, or worse, outright degeneracy, then let them. These are the same people that accuse us good looking ones, with good personalities and so on, for being"picky" and "mean" when we reject their sorry backsides, moaning that things aren't"equal". They're the ones who perpetuate this!
@FreshOutaIdeas Truth, this is why I tell good looking people to date one another and stop ruing their lives while killing out their genes, to please people with problems.
It's really not worth the hassle of good looking people because you enter a relationship with someone who sees you as the enemy and a piece of meat.
That is why they will try to make you feel worthless, drive you mad, and turn others against you.
@azzntittiz
Yes! Exactly!! When we have to deal with someone who feels that they aren't worth the same as you, they become possessive, maybe try and tear you down, "bring us down to their level" so to speak. I'm really sorry about your friend too, the lesser men and women in this world can be evil motherfu**as!
@FreshOutaIdeas The girls aren't exactly my friends, I know of them. One is very famous and was made a mockery of, after her man sent her to ward 21. The second was a friend of my friend who told us about her struggle of being beautiful. And yes plain looking people are evil, I deal with them everyday.
My sister is not attractive and is jealous of me, she turned my life upside down and then tried to fight me when I spoke of it, they act like we take from them or cause them pain.
She's the one that robbed me of my peace of mind, took my belongings and my money that I worked for, then turn around acted bitter, brought scandal into my neighborhood, made me look bad, spread rumors and said she's sick of me, when I've done nothing but feed and help her.
Just stay out of their way because they get more sympathy and rights, everybody wants to be, or be with a good looking person but no one likes them :)
"the strugle of beint beautiful " ๐๐
@yourmad101338
You know, more often than not I'll normally somewhat stick up for the little emasculated betas on this site who winge and whine all day about misandry, hypergamy and the cultural effects of feminism... I too hate it. But lets not forget that sites like these are riddled with ugly, dickless, emasculated little boys (and feminazi girls), you seem like one of them. This girl above raises some valid points (that I can sympathise/empathise with greatly) and stark truths, now unless you've got something constructive to say, please stfu.
@azzntittiz
Wow, that is awful girl! It sickens me to think that even our own blood relatives can turn against us, out of jealousy, spite and malice!!! It's funny, I'm sure you've probably tried telling others, and you, like me, probably get shot down for being "arrogant", when in reality we speak truth about the nature of some/many insecure little people!
I always live by a philosophical quote from someone I knew; "cowards are the most dangerous kind in this world, and cowardice comes in many forms". Just keep your chin up, live your life to your best ability, and even in this sorry world, I'm sure you'll find a strong, decent man too.
Same here for me, though I've never had anyone who's close to me act as destructive as your sister - thankfully! But on my way through life, have met many people in many places, many a man (or rather "boy") has been jealous of one/many of my traits. Have made many enemies (as well as friends) along the way, to say the least!!
@FreshOutaIdeas I am 8 years older than her but I've always sensed she resented me. What's funny is she is super slutty, and begs for attention from any man no matter who. I bet you I am still the whore cause I'm the pretty sister. Her man and she stole from me and then came to my neighborhood with my childhood friend screaming and seeking a war because they are trying to cover their tracks. I asked why involved my friend who knew nothing of what happened?, they just kept screaming obscenities and scandalous outbursts. I laugh because this happens all the time, there's more of their kind that ours, so we will continue be labelled evil and whatever disparaging words people can find. My brother is here because if the ordeal, he is her full brother and told me she treated him the same and spread rumors that he tried to rape her, then tried to have sex with a man to kill him. He wants to see her but I told him no.
@azzntittiz
Wow... I'm sorry such a destructive person, who is (or rather, was) so close to you, has managed to create such chaos! Jealousy and other negative emotional states of mind, certainly do create varying degrees of psychosis in the weak minds of lesser men and women! Like I say girl, just keep moving onwards and upwards as they say, decent people who are "on the level" are hard to find, since we're all sandwiched between the hordes of shit that many people are ๐, but nevertheless when you do find yourself surrounded by likeminded people you'll feel it was all worth it!!!
Closest story I've got to relate to that atm is this girl, seemed. cool, confident and ironically very sweet looking, decent etc... She approached me ffs! But in the end, like an insecure weak type, resorted to mind games tryna make me jealous. She needed constant validation, she even took another guy out, then followed me round with him clinging on like a desperate little monkey!!
@azzntittiz
Needless to say I kept away! But she still had the audacity to ask me "probing" questions as if we were dating!! She knew I was something of a fighter (boxing), and then, whilst trying to evoke a reaction out me by dragging around this puny, sorry state for a man with her, asked me if I was prone to getting into fights outside the ring? Haha she was crazy, wanting me to validate her, when she was increasingly acting like a whore! Its gross!!
@FreshOutaIdeas I know what you mean, I stay away from those too, that is why I only loved two men because they acted different.
@azzntittiz
Indeed! Haha 2 men? Well your doing better than me! Plenty of good looking girls but none that have ever seemed worth it!!! Meh, I've got things to do to improve my own life atm, keeping busy with that!
@FreshOutaIdeas Same with me, that's why I am in no rush. I have been single for 4 years mainly because I am cleaning up some plans for my future.
I find working on my life more worth it than love. And yes the two guys weren't perfect but I did experience love and that makes me happy, it makes disappointing relationships not so bad because they can't erase my past experience with love.
@azzntittiz
They do say it is all a numbers game! You seem like someone that's got their game together though, and most things in life generally just... Happen.. Ya know?
As you say at least you experienced love, thats another misconception people have about people like us, we dont expect perfection, but we just need people that are "on our level"!
@FreshOutaIdeas Yes, but it's rare for many to find love.
@azzntittiz
Maybe ๐, doesn't mean we should give up though ๐! Like I say, things just happen, when where and how, is all for a reason!
I agree with what you said. What you said about making girls crazy, I've seen that as well, and have experienced it myself with guys making me feel like I'm the one thats not good enough. Men should really start having confidence in themselves. This society unfortunately is all driven by ego, and not by the soul. We've gotten so used to having partners that fulfill our egos, meaning guys going for girls they think less of because it makes them feel more of a man, and girls going for guys that have money, and have titles. Thats not how love works, and people will never understand that. Until they do, relationships are going to continue being a mess.
Well darling I think it's always been that way since the beginning of time. We just didn't have internet and movies revealing it. Beautiful people of other people of similar qualities should just find each other and call it a day.
Diversity has made way for several disasters, beauty/beast dating lmao, I am making terms up, is one. One time we wouldn't know what abuse lied in a relationship with a shrek before movies like those guilted us into dropping our standards, actually many people's faces reflect their inner. It's not that complicated. My most trauma came from men who should be grateful to lie down with me. I'd done nothing but made them live a dream but they tried to break me.
I think that what you're saying is not completely true. A lot of conventionally pretty girls gave relationships and also a lot don't. Also, a lot less conventionally pretty girls do have relationships and again, some don't. I have also seen a lot of comments here that I disagree on, the ones that say that pretty girls can't stay single because they can date easily. In order to be in a relationship there needs to be a chemistry, an attraction and romantic feelings, no matter how pretty a girl is or isn't she needs to feel something for someone in order to date him, she won't just date anyone. I am conventionally pretty and I have made moves on some guys that I have liked and those moves have gotten rejected because that is how life is. We can't have everything we want but sometimes it works out. Not all pretty people are up their own ass and cocky, they have a personality. A pretty face and a pretty personality does not mean that someone is going to fall for you, most of the times it is chemistry and luck
But I always see the prettiest girls getting cheated on, lied to , and have guys use them. You only see what people want to show you when it comes to relationships.
Pretty girls do get cheated, not pretty girls also get cheated. There are a lot of assholes out there unfortunately. A lot of people that have insecurities about themselves do feel jealous of a pretty person and act badly
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You tell me. There are a lot of reasons why.
A lot of guys auto-reject themselves; they believe these pretty girls would never be interested in them so they don't bother with them and shoot lower.
More attractive women have a lot of options so their standards are higher. Why would she be interested in a 5'4" average looking guy when they are taller and better looking guys also interested in her? Obviously, a short guy may have a chance with a hot girl but he is at a disadvantage.
So...
The attractive guys she shoots for also has tons of options as well so why would he commit to one girl when they have a harem of women to fuck without any commitment?
So if these pretty girls really want a relationship, they better approach guys themselves because there are too many vain pretty girls for men to not even bother with them.
Like it or not, most "pretty" girls will date the "pretty" boys. They date off of hierarchy because again like it or not the "pretty" ones, are the popular ones. However those guys are still guys, meaning just how a pretty woman has tons of options so does a popular man. Except the gender thought changes a little and the man wants all while the female attempts to ignore all. In conclusion, pretty females date the players and jerks. They're not always single, they just have insanely short relationships.
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Plain girls have to try harder, prettier girls expect more and are likely to give less. Now, this isn't EVERY case, but seeing as the question is general I'm being general.
But, I guess I'm assuming you mean quite attractive. But in my experience from having pretty to moderately pretty friends, they are almost always VERY selective and their standards are high, but due to their "status" they are less likely to feel inclined to give the same effort. Since they have a lot of "options" if things go "wrong."
Of course this isn't every pretty girl. This is a theory among many.
yeah like why the fat girl in the company always has the most badass humor. she had to compensate and developed skills.
@RJGraveyTrain is single too but she ain't pretty.
So your logic doesn't work, asker
@pusypower12 that was a bit rude.
@pusypower12
She has a boyfriend and has said so repeatedly on many posts. Lol I also think her response written above is about as truthful of an explanation as it gets. Also your response just goes to show Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Is rj a super model? To some guys, yes, but their will always be a guy who doesn't think so. RJ claims to just be a normal looking girl and I think that's great.
@pusypower12 I'm not single. I've been in a relationship for over a year and we live together. Lmao.
why do you lie? you could be a man pretending to be a girl
@pusypower12 I'll make you a deal: as soon as I get home from work I'll take a picture of myself just for you holding up a sign. Lol.
But seriously if I was gonna pretend to be someone I'd pretend to be someone so much hotter than me. Lmao.
alright take a pic of yourself with 3 fingers crossing next to your mouth. Use this pic for 5 min so I believe you that you're not pretending on here
@pusypower12 If that will bring you peace in your life man. Lmao.
yeah lol
I can't sleep.
how is it going?
where is the pic on your profile?
@pusypower12
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Not the most flattering photo but tadah.
oh nice you look pretty cute
@pusypower12 Thanks. Probably the worst picture I've ever taken of myself lmao.
are you working now?
the troll gets what he wants. ;)
@pusypower12 Yes lol
@Davyjones541 At least no one can say I'm not real anymore. Lol.
wow if you're in the west its supposed to be early morning there.
@pusypower12 It is.
what does the text on your t shirt say?
I am at work too I am an engineer
@pusypower12 It was a gift from some group that works with my step father's union called CUPE Ontario.
@RJGraveyTrain well if other trolls like this dude asks you the same, you can link them to this question :P
@Davyjones541 Truth.
I never seen such a cute girl like you.
@pusypower12 Oh lord. Lol. I go from being a fat old woman to a cute girl huh?
I am was just playing with you :) wanted your attention.
Aww how sweet
@Davyjones541 Only on G@G.
I am going to go home since my shift at work is done.
your look , your personality
I think i am in love
Oh god
haha rj you did it. now he's in love with you. stalking you for eternity
@red324 Simple excitability. A lot of couples get so infatuated that they can delude themselves into believing that it's the right move and right time.
I mean my man and I moved in after five months due to circumstances. I was going to eventually move out into my own single apartment but we got on so well and he asked me to stay. For some people, it works.
Omg just stumbled upon this thread. GAG gold lmao
@dangerDoge I have a gift, what can I say?
My girlfriend is very pretty and she is not single any more!
you should be married
@Hassaniscool I met her 6 weeks ago. Being married at this point would be rushing things just a bit, don't you think?
Lol nice
@Anonymuos thanks
no offense but shouldn't you have a wife and grandkids by now
@Hassaniscool Why "should" I have a wife and grandkids by now?
your age
@Hassaniscool I have had a wife but she was a bad wife; even so, I did not abandon her but she abandoned me. I married her knowing that she was not capable of having children, so I have no children and, therefore, no grandchildren.
Because I have no children or grandchildren, I volunteer time working with teens in my local Teen Court program, I am an advisor to my undergraduate fraternity's chapter at the local college, and I spend time on G@G giving advice and hope to young people.
sorry to hear that
No. Either they are taken or if they say they are "single" they are playing the field trying to see which hot guy has the most M$NEY.
Maybe they are more intimidating to men? I've always been afraid to talk to guys that I found attractive, so it probably goes both ways. Maybe they think there is less chance of rejection from average looking girls.
Also, are you sure these single girls have "never" been asked out? Is it possible they rejected guys and just don't want a long term relationship?
I'm an average looking girl and never got asked out until I was 20, and he's my boyfriend now. I'm in a long term relationship because I want to get married one day, not just date for fun.
Pretty girls, average looking girls, below average looking girls around me would get asked out all the time and it bummed me out. I never really saw a connection between looks and their likelihood to get asked out. My only hindrance was that I'm shy.
One thing I've thought about is if I was with a modelesque looking guy, I would probably feel very insecure. I would always question why he likes me if he has so many options. I don't know if guys would feel that way too. Also, I would put a lot of pressure on myself to look pretty and thin so that he doesn't lose interest.
Also, I notice that average, or below average, looking people can be extra kind and down to earth. I used to be obese but noticed that people are nicer when I'm thinner. I sorta had to compensate for looks by being extra nice.
Why don't you try asking out guys instead? Use your good looks to your advantage. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who will say yes.
It is because of the attitude. If a guy wants to he goes after a girl with a lot of effort
I agreew with you,
I think boys in here doesn't have any ideas y those girls are single for them,,
Pretty girls are not high maintenance or anything else
But most are picky
Those girls, doesn't want to settle with a guy less fortunate than her
Since her confidence would be really much affected by a guy who just caused trouble, rather so she choose to be single
2nd, She had a great personality
Those pretty girls who are single are mature type of girls.
The reason why, she doesn't settle with long term relationship, its because maybe she want to enjoy her feminism
Meeting a lot of great guys is fun, and if she ever want to settle, of course she want the guy for the best.
Having a chance to choose right and best guys are the best quality of girls.
Compare with simple girls, they could get long term relationship but settle for just less fortunate guys, or more than plain men
As a pretty girl
Being able to choose to marry the best guy for you, cannot be ever compared for a simple guy you can just found anywhere
The best guy doesn't mean he had to have nice background social status, money etc
But best guy just reflects with nice features (good looking, influensive person, hard working etc) , you can't ever found thay with a simple plain guy
You are living in an illusion of your own.
@ReducesToAsh nope, you're just a looser lol
by the way check you grammar please, it is irritating. Best guy? Girls have the ability to choose the best guy? Really? If that would have been the case then there would have been no breakups, no divorces, everybody would be a happy couple... Stop being delusional... and seriously grow up. Your calling me a loser doesn't make me one. Anyways good day to you โบ
@ReducesToAsh , i dont care make your own comment not reflect on mine
Lol
I am not even replying to that LOL
@ReducesToAsh you think being perfect is what makes u great?, lol you're still a loser at all lol๐๐๐
I never said a thing and here you are calling me perfect and great. LOL. by the way can't see what else was written... I wonder if you will start building stuff for me next, because I am great as you said. Please do ask a good picture of me. K?
I really think it mostly has to do with the intimidation factor. It's not just that a guy will be too intimidated by the looks of a very pretty woman. It's also that he will be intimidated by the fact that other guys who are much better looking or richer or (whatever comparative) than him might also be interested, and they don't want to be in competition with those guys.
I also don't think this is a conscious or strategic decision most guys make. It's more of an instinctive tendency not to go for someone that one perceives as being out of one's league. And I think a lot of guys justify this in other ways (e. g., she's a prima donna, or she thinks too much of herself) so that they don't have to admit the intimidation factor to themselves or others.
I'm not saying that this is always the case - surely there are prima donnas out there - but I think that it is the case more often than not.
There's only 2 reasons why beautiful attractive women are single:
1. Cause they want to be. They enjoy being single at the moment and may be focusing on other things in their life at the moment like education or work. Otherwise they could get a man in under a minute if wanted to.
2. Men are around her are too scared of her beauty. Just looking at her makes them sense the possible rejection they think they would face if the approached her for a date. So they keep her as eye candy or fantasy that'll never come true for them, so instead they go for the below average Becky's cause they feel like she's more on their level. Rejection will hurt but not as much it would with the extremely attractive girl.
Well generally speaking, if you feel like you can have something anytime you want, you want it less. I would guess that pretty girls don't feel the same pressure to always be in a relationship because nobody questions if they could get a guy.
I'm average/decent looking but always had very low self-esteem, and I haven't been without a boyfriend since high school. For a while I would date almost anyone even if I wasn't attracted to them or didn't particularly enjoy their company because I thought I should take what I could get. So I'm guessing the most attractive girls don't feel this way.
Cuz insta type pretty girls are high maintenance drama and normal/awkward girls care more about people than appearance so they actually give the benefit o f the doubt and talk to you. +since they're not so thoroughly consumed by their looks they tend to be more interesting, talking about their personal opinion on Impressionism as a way to depict the struggle of a solipsistic world view living in the confines of a rapidly decaying conservatively based universe as oppose to just say "lol did you see that new Spider-Man movie? I am such a geek I saw xmen twise! Wolverine is SO HAWT!" But she doesn't actually collect comics or know anything about how Marvel completely fucking ripped off D. C.'s Doom Patrol to create X-Men literally four fucking months after Doom Patrol's initial release. Most of them are just so stupid and self involved and lifeless and boring and don't actually know things about anything other than the kardashians and makeup.
1) They reject a lot of guys. My friend is gorgeous and she is single. She gets asked out left and right. Her "problem" is she has high standards in a guy, so she turns down guys that don't meet her criteria.
2) They are unapproachable. Sometimes guys will only approach a girl they assume they have a chance with. If the girl is "too pretty", she's seen as intimidating and the guys just don't approach her at all, because they assume they have NO chance with her.
i know a 38 years old doctor in my city. she is tall like a horse, a pretty face, has a phd, teaches at the university, and has her own office where she goes in the afternoon after morning classes as well. when we asked her why she's still single she said men have outrageous standards. and i wondered, after 38 years how comes men dont line up outside this catch's door? what i realised is what she accused men of doing, was doing herself. she had so ridiculous standards, that from this little pool of men she dated, it was normal she encountered snobs. she ruled out all average normal guys by default. more for us i guess.
@levantine99 #1 plays into #2. Guys aren't intimidated it's more like there's no point to go after some women
@StickStickity13 some get intimidated or feel outside some womens league but this wasn't the case here. not entirely at least. it was her fault mostly. also men are justified to be like this. we knew a christian guy her age who was single, and asked his brother who met her, if we should arrange a date to these two. his bro said, no way. it won't work. he implied with that, that she is out of his league and he will get rejected because he was ugly looking and shy. she was secular, not a christian and had much higher standards so she'd reject him by default.
girls that think a lot of themselves will cut off men more. they will put their standards uncreadibly high and they will act more bitchy to guys who aren't perfect by their define standards which can be everyone. girls that are pretty also tend to cheat more. tend to be more morally questionable. it's more fun to be with a girl that isn't uncreadibly gorgeous, that you don't have to protect and oversee all the time. girls who are uncreadibly pretty usually aren't as wide as not drop dead gorgeous. if they are gorgeous and school genius, they are probably crazy.
I mean you're kinda generalizing on looks here. None of this is very true because looks don't determine traits of character.
I'm confident in myself, and would say I'm attractive, and a fun, unique personality... Yet I don't get asked out often. I'm not really sure why tbh. I think it's because I attract an older age group, which is really hot guys 20-30. But then they would hear my age and get turned off, thus being named jailbait lol. I think the thing is though, most guys want a girl who looks like other normal girls. I have very unique, bold features. To a girl, generally it's easier for her to appreciate it. To a man, not always. Just like in America's next top model, they look for fresh looking people, but the fresh looking ones aren't what guys are used to.
Guys got to be careful with jailbait
I think it's because they're career orientated and they don't want to,'settle down' just yet. They enjoy life and enjoy friendship. Generally, pretty girls look after themselves and the strong work ethic usually transfers onto the way they maintain themselves. I'm a firm believer that most girls can be pretty girls. It just takes a little more work. Hair, healthy diet and the knowledge about good nutrition, exercise, make up, clothes etc. most of us cbf to get up that extra 2 hours early to fit in a trip to the gym, a shower and time to put effort into our appearance.
Girls that do are usually more appealing to the eye, but they're often living life in the fast lane.
I would say women, but us dudes are just like this too... only when one party becomes financially depended on another does this general rule differ.
People don't "waste their time" with being committed to just one permanent partner until they feel that it's time to settle for the best they can get while they still can get it. So a hawt sexy person will more likely play the field until the "attractiveness" declines to a similar point or they happen to find and equal in the "attractiveness" department. in my opinion
The super good looking one have two realities. Shy guys are too shy to ask them out so she needs to take charge. The aggressive guy is often the wrong guy as too often he looks at her as a challenge or short term conquest. Not all aggressive guys are like that mind you. Then she gets burned and pulls out of dating. Creating her negative outlook on the whole scene and hides herself or makes herself unavailable. She should study and men closely and ask them out. They will say yes. Trust me normal guys want a good looking girlfriend. I see too many good looking girls with ugly guys who play in bands etc cause the girls get caught up in all this apparent appearance of the guys self confidence. If guys have girls dropping at there heals stay away from those guys.
I think the guys would already have had assumed that such a pretty lady cannot stay single. And even if they know that she is single, its the man's ego problem which makes them not approach with the fear of being rejected. They might not feel confident with about the fact if she will accept his love.
They certainly take her as out of his league.
Some pretty girls sleep around Not all, and we're talking about 'pretty girls' not 'bimbos'... And most pretty girls who are 'Beautiful' know their standards and the guys understands that and ultimately respects her.
And maybe people tend not to buy the highly expensive things?
From what I've personally seen, a lot of guys never look past the looks, and when that happens they are usually only in it for sexual reasons, not really giving them a chance to show themselves or their personality.
Others are intimidated or think the girl must be taken because she's pretty or that he will definitely be rejected because he thinks they are out of their league.
But I've also known ones who have been too selective with really high standards.
Who is anyone to determine what is pretty and what isn't? Your definition of pretty might be vastly different to a man and his definition will be vastly different to what another defines it as.
The majority of "pretty women", that I am aware of, are single because they choose to be. Whether it be personal issues or they flat out don't actively see relationships as a priority. Maybe their standards are too high or some men just aren't confident enough in themselves to approach those women, I don't know.
I recall that there are more women in this world than men so there are bound to be quite a few perpetually single women out there.
hey. I'm a pretty girl. Easy going and artistic, still youthful enough to go out for drinks and dance dance, I can be kinky, I can be romantic, I can be career driven, I can be relax and enjoy nature. In addition to be educated. What happens is that, I ask myself the same question. 😂😢
This is just one theory but: the prettiest feature on a girl is her confidence, the way you see yourself affects the way others see you, therefore the girls you think are pretty might be no prettier than the average girls, they're just a lot more confident. Also confident girls tend to be more picky when it comes to choosing a boyfriend because they know they are fine on their own so if they chose a partner, it's because they actually like them, whereas some insecure girls will get a boyfriend just because they don't wanna feel alone. Probably not true for every girl out there but I think it might be a good explanation to some cases.
False.
Thatโs what my brain return, if evaluate your statement.
If you are pretty girl, you literally donโt have to do anything, and you still can choose between guys. And if you go to dating site, itโs yours.
Your statement is justโฆfalse. Pretty girls have it easier in this regard, so being single is whatโs hard. Why would they, when they meet so many guys and among them is someone, who they like?
When you're in a long term relationship, you kinda stop caring so much, you stop investing so much in your appearance. So at some level, its a self fulfilling prophecy.
The flip side is confidence. A lot of guys don't really know how attractive they are, so some assume they're merely average, and what beautiful girl would want them? Personally, I don't give super hot girls the time of day because its like, why even try? I know I can get the undivided attention of a 6-7, and 8-10's get so much attention they'd probably never notice me.
Because everywhere they go guys go after them and it's pretty exhausting. Random strangers constantly trying to convince you to give them your number. So when they are young and dumb they fall for those advances and get used. Feeling betrayed enough times, they clam up to anyone. Have a "hot" girlfriend and she has to put up with men undressing her with their eyes, catcalls, and advances every time she goes out in public.
So I could understand why someone that's treated like that can just completely shut out anyone.
I don't know what where you live, but here, the stereotypically pretty girls are only single if they choose to be and most don't.
The girls you're talking about may be picky or don't socialize with guys enough.
And I can't speak for us "average" girls, but in the case of my friends and I, we only date those who are already close to. We don't go out looking to date anyone. We just make friends. We become friends with a guy we have a lot in common with and it just progresses.
There are many possibilities why pretty girls are not taken:
- Men are too afraid to approach them as they feel they are 'out of their league'
- They know they are pretty hence they act very high maintenance and demand to be treated like a princess when in reality no one really digs that shit
- They are Asexual or lesbian
- They only into FWBs or one night stands
- They for people in their 'own league' but some of the dudes in that 'league' prefer a normal plain girls
1) Mostly prettry girls are not single.. but pretty and shy girls are single as shy girls are more genuine as compare to talkative one so they can't communicate with opposite sex as from nervous.
2) Pretty girls remains single may be she had into relation her in past but did not happend so better they think to be stay single untill finds the one can she make a new step.
3) Mostly guys nervous to face pretty girls or think she mite be having a boyfriend so they approach an average looking girl easily.
Some like the idea of having someone who would be worth and not just the superficial aspect.
It is either, to be with someone ideal and sensible, or rather none if it will be senseless.
Being picky does not have to center with the Physical aspects, but more on the worthy side that centers practicality.
I wouldn't say this is generally true... but here are some reasons why I think pretty girls are single more then average girls
-They're picky
-Guys assume they are taken
-They rather be single then be stuck with one guy
because most men are intimidated they can't muster the courage to speak to you. that's why I say leagues don't exist, its in the personality, you can have whoever you want just be confident, make her laugh and be real. The girl in the red dress at the club dancing alone usually dances alone, people think oh no out of my league. for me I won't dance or talk to you cause obviously you love attention. Guys are intimidated, smile and wink at them, let them know you see them and they will come to you ladies <3
I am fairly good looking but I am also athletic and train hard. Now I am single because most guys around me are not the same. It is not about their looks or sexy physique at all, it has to do with having a strong will, work ethic, motivation. These are qualities that make men who they are and when I can't see these qualities it is hard for me to find a connection whatsoever
that drive your talking about is intellectually stimulating. most cute girl i meet are orientated like this. where are you all hiding?
They prefer to sleep around and then when they find a suitable life partner he rejects her for her slutty phase and then she continues sleeping around till they get old and aren't attractive anymore and then ghey will find a fat ugly small guy with a big wallet.
damn dude why did you make a pink profile. haha.
gotta give it to you that this mgtowish sexist remark isn't completely ungrounded though. some girls live like that.
Yep this makes sense. They usually have a couple kids by different guys by then too.
Not all pretty girls are single. The ones that are would be due to the fact that no one has the intestinal fortitude to approach them, also people don't know they're single and probably assume they're spoken for.
walk around with a sign that says you're pretty, smart and single and I shall find you one day 😂😂😂.
When you turn me down, that's just called being pernickety 😝
In no way do I want to be prideful but many times I have been told that I have very beautiful skin and hair. I am single and I have never had a relationship or kissed a guy and I am still a virgin. I wish a lot that I had a boyfriend but I find that many guys think I am pretty and compliment me but never make any moves. I have heard guys say that they thought I would already have a boyfriend.
I know exactly what you mean... so often I see these plain Jane / "average" looking girls with really good-looking guys, and I'm thinking WTF is THAT? In the meantime I know all these girls that are pretty and sweet and seem to have no luck finding a boyfriend. I really don't get it!
maybe pretty girls are mostly single because of other reasons. everyone says it's because of the woman but as a guy who sees said pretty girls and had to grow myself one of the reasons is because 1. the men these pretty women have sometimes can't handle the attention she gets and sometimes that starts the path to self sabotage. 2. on the other hand some women know they can get guys easy so they don't work as hard to keep said guys cause they are other fish in the sea.
You must be a cuck.
No self respecting man would share their woman with other guys. A beautifull woman is a woman who is loyal to her husband and puts in effort to grab his attention. Not parading around like a barbie, craving attention from strangers
assuming your assertion is true this is why id say.
attractive people don't feel the need to be affirmed in a relationship bc they get attention anyhow. and they feel confident something good will turn up.
i think it has little to do with guys being intimidated bc an attractive woman can easily approach a guy. at least as easily as a guy could approach her, probably more so.
Pretty girls being single?
WHERE DO I SIGN UP?
I want to be for one of them their boyfriend :) โฅ
But for real now I actually see mostly pretty girls being taken and the plain girls and average girls not as much as the pretty girls!
Give me them girls 😍😍😍
I've been with both.. let me tell you, beauty, and personality scale inversely. every attractive girl I have dated expected the world and gave nothing in return for my effort. every girl I dated that wasn't a 7 - 10, the personality was better, she made more effort, seemed to care more, and didn't make me work as hard.
basically girls that are hot, expect more, give less, have far more shallow personalities, and are far more apt to cheat in my experience.
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I think it's probably because these pretty girls are not being approached a lot by men. The men are either intimidated by them or believe she's already taken because she's pretty.
Because that pretty girls mostlybhave high standards and ask for more to get from thr boy. The average girl will still ask but less. For a pretty girl a guy -must- have muscles , but for other doesn't care. Well there are many examples also it depends the situation. Also if the girl is going eith many guys in the same time and etc
this is only from my experience and the ones i know. the ones i know either know there pretty and set their standard bar is hard to reach and frankly unattractive to most men and the ones that dont thing they're pretty plague themself with eating disoders and cutting, getting high . thats just my experience..
Pretty girls tend to have a complex were they're entitled to a certain amount of standards and it's fine if they feel that way but then they can't complain if they can't keep a guy.
Now this doesn't apply to EVERY single person that is pretty but it's a common issue. I usually try to aim for an attractive girl with some amazing personality than a girl with model like looks and a mediocre personality.
It boils down to preference.
Because pretty girls usually have some bullshit entitlement, crap personality, or diva complex. They are high maintenance and spoiled.
But often they don't even know it because they are used to people bending over backward for them.
So being with one is only fun for a short period then it wears off quick and no matter how "hot" she is, some guy is tired of her shit.
I like how he stole half of this from the other guys comment a hour ago
@Wรผlf_Lรธvรซ? Nope! I don't read other comments.
But the truth is the truth so it would make sense if someone else wrote similar comments.
Two people saying the sky is blue doesn't mean one of them stole the idea from the other.
Pretty girls are almost always single because they're perceived to be too high-maintenance, for good reason. Most guys do not want to have to put up with guys hitting on their girlfriends all the time and/or constantly getting into fights with other guys over her.
So, average-looking girls get more attention because they appear to be less-maintenance, safer, and just less of an overall hassle to deal with.
No guy wants to be with a girl if he has to constantly fend off other guys, which is what most guys who have hot girls have to put up with. Plus, the fact she's with a man actually encourages other men to interfere because they know that relationships with pretty girls are fragile and can be easily compromised.
I like one of the popular girls at school, but because she's always surrounded by other people, I sorta feel left out. my suggestion is that pretty girls should work on having more diverse opinions, and focus more on individual relations rather than social hierarchy. pick a random stranger, have an intelligent conversation with them, and make sure that "your friends" are actually your friends. it's no use having an army of slaves who all like you if you're isolated. don't have slaves, have friends.
They choose to be.
If a pretty girl asks a single guy out, he will accept.
Especially if they have a great personality like you are saying.
Why wouldn't they?
So, they should just find a guy they like and approach them.
Now, if you mean why do they not have long term relationships, then that's a different issue. The guy can feel insecure in the relationship, for instance, which can cause friction.
While I know what your saying, your statement isn't true. Good looking women are single LONGER than average women. Why? They have higher standards than average women and typically they aren't very good in bed. Many men love the thought of banging hot women but hot women are usually very very hard to get into bed. It's rare enough to see a very good looking girl sleeping around or having casual sex. Most of them take A LOT to get into bed and so many men just leave them off. That's true about the personality thing good looking women often are actually very nice. Anyways they sleep around less and have fewer boyfriends but no way are they "always single"
Most likely the reason is because we'd assume they're taken, "out of my league"/high standards, or the preassumption that they'll just take advantage of us; because she must OBVIOUSLY have a bunch of men willing to do whatever for her.
Or seem unattainable. that too. But mostly because we assume they're taken.
In many cases 'pretty girls' think they're too good for anyone. They think 'prince charming' is going to show up somehow and sweep them off their feet. They've been fed this line of bullshit since they were little girls - the disney dream. It's just not realistic.
To be honest, we're afraid. We think that we're "out of her league" and we need to have "realistic expectations." Ironically enough, the pretty girls I've talked to have usually tended to have boyfriends or husbands, but they did share their disbelief at how many men think they're unattainable.
Because they are too choosey. They don't accept any man unless he is rich or some idol. All jokes aside, don't judge all pretty girls based on the ones you met. They say the best apples are at the top of tree, but not anyone can reach the top of tree, only those who worked hard enough to reach the top of the tree deserve the apples. Figure. this one out
Maybe it gets annoying when she's completely self centered. Maybe is a pain that she sees herself as this perfect being who can never be wrong. Maybe because they are too blind to see that she has a wonderful guy, but still wants more.
You see, what's the point in having smarts, and looks, when she can't appreciate what she already has.
First thing I think about is that guys ask them out less often due to intimidation, or thinking that she is already taken.
The second thing I think about... is the girl have ridiculously high standards.
Well being rejected by a pretty girl is hurtful. Plus usually pretty girls are hmm either taken or mean. So guys don't feel like approaching them
The other day I read how a dude posed as an attractive
girl on tinder to see how is like. Anyways he saw the tons of messages and ways tried to get the attention of the girl. All of them were uninteresting and didn't try hard. All that attention was annoying and so unoriginal and went to say that might be what attractive girls kinda go through
i guess for a sophisticated men like me i wouldn't look just to looks but rather how much warmth and caring she shows in her daily life. and combined with me as a sapiosexual, there is a chance of probably 3 girls/ a year where i am really interested (so far all of them in good hands)!
there are not a lot of really warmth expressive and smart girls that fit my personality...
This holds true in all age brackets. I have dated and been in relationships with a few less then average looking men that I liked. Despite them being successful, they sabotaged the relationship. My doctor friend said it was because I'm too good looking. The men couldn't handle the attention, the responsibility, and didn't know how long before I'd dump or cheat on them for a better guy.
I like how all the low test betas on there try to blame it on men for why "pretty" girls are single.
Women who are single are single by CHOICE. You can easily get a boyfriend, just by going up to a guy and asking him out but WOMEN are too PRIDEFUL.
I think a lot of the times maybe the "pretty girls" fall for the wrong guys sometimes and then therefor they feel they need a break from guys, like most people should think, they don't want to settle for just anyone.
You mean they are stupid. Yes correct.
Girls that focus on wanting to look pretty have never learned to develop their brains, empathy, normal social relation where you give and take to complement each other.
They only learn to manipulate the horde of losers running behind them
they are never single!! but if they are its bc they know they are extremely attractive and use it in their favor and are stuck up about it, guys think they are way to beautiful for them and out of their league, and they are going to most likely be high maintenance girls and girls just think guys have to pay for everything... it ain't cheap haha
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