I used to have a lot of guy friends when I was a teen and in my 20s and almost always they would tell me that they felt intimidated by beautiful girl. Even if the guy had a lot to offer he would feel as though she's already out of his league, so instead of risking the rejection, they just don't even ask the girl out. So in this case, they got snubbed all because of silly assumptions.
There's a second theory I have that might seem really bad - but there are also a lot of seemingly lesser-attractive women willing to dole out sex to compensate for what they consider is lacking. Just an example, I used to work with this awful girl who was a combination of a poor personality and looks. We worked with hundreds of men and women. When she noticed a guy checking out any other female employee, she would zero in and say the most ridiculous things about herself regarding her love for anal sex, deep throating, you name it. The said-guy would sometimes revert his attention from the pretty girl to the ditch-pig because it was an easy fuck. This isn't the only time I've heard or seen this happen. Pig-chicks everywhere who don't have any dignity think that offering sex makes up for something else and in a lot of cases it works if they just pick up guys looking for the same thing.
Third reason: the pretty girl could just be selective and is turning down many men, not just guys who accuse her of being too good for. A lot of women who are gorgeous might feel they have to protect themselves from the men who simply want to date because of her looks and don't want to be treated like objects instead of people. Having her looks fussed over might seem flattering, but in the end, she's a person who may just want to be valued for a lot more, thus making her leery of just dating anyone who asks.
Ask the men what they do to these girls. Truth is men do not want the things they fantasize about. Many pretty girls who do indeed have long term relationships become damaged and almost always stop being attractive.
Men abuse them and destroy them in hopes that they will never leave. The smart ones do not take men seriously because they realize that they are not valued and respected, they run away at the first sign of foul.
I know two beautiful girls who ended up in psych ward because of how men treated them, one is till there and asked her friend to take her beautiful daughter because she was gonna kill her so she doesn't turn out the same, the other is now in politics and was Miss Jamaica.
Most beautiful girls have to make sure she is fat and unattractive after marriage in order to have a normal relationship, then he can complain and go out searching for the old her in every other woman.
The life of a pretty girl consist of men wanting them to be whores, and making them out to be whores. Having the best qualities and still being rumored to just be about her looks. Being great women still no man trusts them.
I honestly think they should just model, act and have casual encounters, since the beginning of time, people have always felt more comfortable if beautiful people were just that, so it won't change.
I think that what you're saying is not completely true. A lot of conventionally pretty girls gave relationships and also a lot don't. Also, a lot less conventionally pretty girls do have relationships and again, some don't. I have also seen a lot of comments here that I disagree on, the ones that say that pretty girls can't stay single because they can date easily. In order to be in a relationship there needs to be a chemistry, an attraction and romantic feelings, no matter how pretty a girl is or isn't she needs to feel something for someone in order to date him, she won't just date anyone. I am conventionally pretty and I have made moves on some guys that I have liked and those moves have gotten rejected because that is how life is. We can't have everything we want but sometimes it works out. Not all pretty people are up their own ass and cocky, they have a personality. A pretty face and a pretty personality does not mean that someone is going to fall for you, most of the times it is chemistry and luck
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You tell me. There are a lot of reasons why.
A lot of guys auto-reject themselves; they believe these pretty girls would never be interested in them so they don't bother with them and shoot lower.
More attractive women have a lot of options so their standards are higher. Why would she be interested in a 5'4" average looking guy when they are taller and better looking guys also interested in her? Obviously, a short guy may have a chance with a hot girl but he is at a disadvantage.
So...
The attractive guys she shoots for also has tons of options as well so why would he commit to one girl when they have a harem of women to fuck without any commitment?
So if these pretty girls really want a relationship, they better approach guys themselves because there are too many vain pretty girls for men to not even bother with them.
Like it or not, most "pretty" girls will date the "pretty" boys. They date off of hierarchy because again like it or not the "pretty" ones, are the popular ones. However those guys are still guys, meaning just how a pretty woman has tons of options so does a popular man. Except the gender thought changes a little and the man wants all while the female attempts to ignore all. In conclusion, pretty females date the players and jerks. They're not always single, they just have insanely short relationships.
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Plain girls have to try harder, prettier girls expect more and are likely to give less. Now, this isn't EVERY case, but seeing as the question is general I'm being general.
u My girlfriend is very pretty and she is not single any more!
No. Either they are taken or if they say they are "single" they are playing the field trying to see which hot guy has the most M$NEY.
Maybe they are more intimidating to men? I've always been afraid to talk to guys that I found attractive, so it probably goes both ways. Maybe they think there is less chance of rejection from average looking girls.
Also, are you sure these single girls have "never" been asked out? Is it possible they rejected guys and just don't want a long term relationship?
I'm an average looking girl and never got asked out until I was 20, and he's my boyfriend now. I'm in a long term relationship because I want to get married one day, not just date for fun.
Pretty girls, average looking girls, below average looking girls around me would get asked out all the time and it bummed me out. I never really saw a connection between looks and their likelihood to get asked out. My only hindrance was that I'm shy.
One thing I've thought about is if I was with a modelesque looking guy, I would probably feel very insecure. I would always question why he likes me if he has so many options. I don't know if guys would feel that way too. Also, I would put a lot of pressure on myself to look pretty and thin so that he doesn't lose interest.
Also, I notice that average, or below average, looking people can be extra kind and down to earth. I used to be obese but noticed that people are nicer when I'm thinner. I sorta had to compensate for looks by being extra nice.
Why don't you try asking out guys instead? Use your good looks to your advantage. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who will say yes.
I agreew with you,
I think boys in here doesn't have any ideas y those girls are single for them,,
Pretty girls are not high maintenance or anything else
But most are picky
Those girls, doesn't want to settle with a guy less fortunate than her
Since her confidence would be really much affected by a guy who just caused trouble, rather so she choose to be single
2nd, She had a great personality
Those pretty girls who are single are mature type of girls.
The reason why, she doesn't settle with long term relationship, its because maybe she want to enjoy her feminism
Meeting a lot of great guys is fun, and if she ever want to settle, of course she want the guy for the best.
Having a chance to choose right and best guys are the best quality of girls.
Compare with simple girls, they could get long term relationship but settle for just less fortunate guys, or more than plain men
As a pretty girl
Being able to choose to marry the best guy for you, cannot be ever compared for a simple guy you can just found anywhere
The best guy doesn't mean he had to have nice background social status, money etc
But best guy just reflects with nice features (good looking, influensive person, hard working etc) , you can't ever found thay with a simple plain guy
I really think it mostly has to do with the intimidation factor. It's not just that a guy will be too intimidated by the looks of a very pretty woman. It's also that he will be intimidated by the fact that other guys who are much better looking or richer or (whatever comparative) than him might also be interested, and they don't want to be in competition with those guys.
I also don't think this is a conscious or strategic decision most guys make. It's more of an instinctive tendency not to go for someone that one perceives as being out of one's league. And I think a lot of guys justify this in other ways (e. g., she's a prima donna, or she thinks too much of herself) so that they don't have to admit the intimidation factor to themselves or others.
I'm not saying that this is always the case - surely there are prima donnas out there - but I think that it is the case more often than not.
There's only 2 reasons why beautiful attractive women are single:
1. Cause they want to be. They enjoy being single at the moment and may be focusing on other things in their life at the moment like education or work. Otherwise they could get a man in under a minute if wanted to.
2. Men are around her are too scared of her beauty. Just looking at her makes them sense the possible rejection they think they would face if the approached her for a date. So they keep her as eye candy or fantasy that'll never come true for them, so instead they go for the below average Becky's cause they feel like she's more on their level. Rejection will hurt but not as much it would with the extremely attractive girl.
Well generally speaking, if you feel like you can have something anytime you want, you want it less. I would guess that pretty girls don't feel the same pressure to always be in a relationship because nobody questions if they could get a guy.
I'm average/decent looking but always had very low self-esteem, and I haven't been without a boyfriend since high school. For a while I would date almost anyone even if I wasn't attracted to them or didn't particularly enjoy their company because I thought I should take what I could get. So I'm guessing the most attractive girls don't feel this way.
Cuz insta type pretty girls are high maintenance drama and normal/awkward girls care more about people than appearance so they actually give the benefit o f the doubt and talk to you. +since they're not so thoroughly consumed by their looks they tend to be more interesting, talking about their personal opinion on Impressionism as a way to depict the struggle of a solipsistic world view living in the confines of a rapidly decaying conservatively based universe as oppose to just say "lol did you see that new Spider-Man movie? I am such a geek I saw xmen twise! Wolverine is SO HAWT!" But she doesn't actually collect comics or know anything about how Marvel completely fucking ripped off D. C.'s Doom Patrol to create X-Men literally four fucking months after Doom Patrol's initial release. Most of them are just so stupid and self involved and lifeless and boring and don't actually know things about anything other than the kardashians and makeup.
1) They reject a lot of guys. My friend is gorgeous and she is single. She gets asked out left and right. Her "problem" is she has high standards in a guy, so she turns down guys that don't meet her criteria.
2) They are unapproachable. Sometimes guys will only approach a girl they assume they have a chance with. If the girl is "too pretty", she's seen as intimidating and the guys just don't approach her at all, because they assume they have NO chance with her.
girls that think a lot of themselves will cut off men more. they will put their standards uncreadibly high and they will act more bitchy to guys who aren't perfect by their define standards which can be everyone. girls that are pretty also tend to cheat more. tend to be more morally questionable. it's more fun to be with a girl that isn't uncreadibly gorgeous, that you don't have to protect and oversee all the time. girls who are uncreadibly pretty usually aren't as wide as not drop dead gorgeous. if they are gorgeous and school genius, they are probably crazy.
I'm confident in myself, and would say I'm attractive, and a fun, unique personality... Yet I don't get asked out often. I'm not really sure why tbh. I think it's because I attract an older age group, which is really hot guys 20-30. But then they would hear my age and get turned off, thus being named jailbait lol. I think the thing is though, most guys want a girl who looks like other normal girls. I have very unique, bold features. To a girl, generally it's easier for her to appreciate it. To a man, not always. Just like in America's next top model, they look for fresh looking people, but the fresh looking ones aren't what guys are used to.
I think it's because they're career orientated and they don't want to,'settle down' just yet. They enjoy life and enjoy friendship. Generally, pretty girls look after themselves and the strong work ethic usually transfers onto the way they maintain themselves. I'm a firm believer that most girls can be pretty girls. It just takes a little more work. Hair, healthy diet and the knowledge about good nutrition, exercise, make up, clothes etc. most of us cbf to get up that extra 2 hours early to fit in a trip to the gym, a shower and time to put effort into our appearance.
Girls that do are usually more appealing to the eye, but they're often living life in the fast lane.
I would say women, but us dudes are just like this too... only when one party becomes financially depended on another does this general rule differ.
People don't "waste their time" with being committed to just one permanent partner until they feel that it's time to settle for the best they can get while they still can get it. So a hawt sexy person will more likely play the field until the "attractiveness" declines to a similar point or they happen to find and equal in the "attractiveness" department. in my opinion
The super good looking one have two realities. Shy guys are too shy to ask them out so she needs to take charge. The aggressive guy is often the wrong guy as too often he looks at her as a challenge or short term conquest. Not all aggressive guys are like that mind you. Then she gets burned and pulls out of dating. Creating her negative outlook on the whole scene and hides herself or makes herself unavailable. She should study and men closely and ask them out. They will say yes. Trust me normal guys want a good looking girlfriend. I see too many good looking girls with ugly guys who play in bands etc cause the girls get caught up in all this apparent appearance of the guys self confidence. If guys have girls dropping at there heals stay away from those guys.
I think the guys would already have had assumed that such a pretty lady cannot stay single. And even if they know that she is single, its the man's ego problem which makes them not approach with the fear of being rejected. They might not feel confident with about the fact if she will accept his love.
They certainly take her as out of his league.
Some pretty girls sleep around Not all, and we're talking about 'pretty girls' not 'bimbos'... And most pretty girls who are 'Beautiful' know their standards and the guys understands that and ultimately respects her.
And maybe people tend not to buy the highly expensive things?
From what I've personally seen, a lot of guys never look past the looks, and when that happens they are usually only in it for sexual reasons, not really giving them a chance to show themselves or their personality.
Others are intimidated or think the girl must be taken because she's pretty or that he will definitely be rejected because he thinks they are out of their league.
But I've also known ones who have been too selective with really high standards.
Who is anyone to determine what is pretty and what isn't? Your definition of pretty might be vastly different to a man and his definition will be vastly different to what another defines it as.
The majority of "pretty women", that I am aware of, are single because they choose to be. Whether it be personal issues or they flat out don't actively see relationships as a priority. Maybe their standards are too high or some men just aren't confident enough in themselves to approach those women, I don't know.
I recall that there are more women in this world than men so there are bound to be quite a few perpetually single women out there.
hey. I'm a pretty girl. Easy going and artistic, still youthful enough to go out for drinks and dance dance, I can be kinky, I can be romantic, I can be career driven, I can be relax and enjoy nature. In addition to be educated. What happens is that, I ask myself the same question. 😂😢
This is just one theory but: the prettiest feature on a girl is her confidence, the way you see yourself affects the way others see you, therefore the girls you think are pretty might be no prettier than the average girls, they're just a lot more confident. Also confident girls tend to be more picky when it comes to choosing a boyfriend because they know they are fine on their own so if they chose a partner, it's because they actually like them, whereas some insecure girls will get a boyfriend just because they don't wanna feel alone. Probably not true for every girl out there but I think it might be a good explanation to some cases.
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