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Why is it that pretty girls are almost always single? (Page 2)
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Too many guys think pretty women can't be intelligent and so they attract men who don't respect them. When they were younger they probably dated the pretty boys who are lacking in personality or substance. So they've invariably been let down or cheated on. In my experience the most beautiful women often have a rich sugar daddy. But there are plenty of women with brains and beauty who do find good partners.
usually with girls like that, guys don't approach them because they feel they're out if their leauge. Or at least that what I've been told :)
I don't think i'm that pretty but people say I am and I get some attention, but im picky... you only accept the love you think you deserve.. and most people have low standards.. not all pretty girls are sluts!
Take it from a fella who deals with the same thing with you gals - I'm very sociable, have been told I look "intimidating" (been told I'm "handsome" but with tatts and a beard lol!) and so on. A lot of girls show interest and when I approach most of them become awkward and resort to immature games due to their own insecurities... 😑 I know pretty girls suffer the same with insecure men. So as far as pretty girls being accused of being "picky", take it from me, continue being picky! Even if your not looking for a "hard" relationship, you still want to be around a quality man.
I dont necesarrily think i'm pretty, but I get more attention than the average girl I guess. I wanna say that the guys that are straightforward/check me out and all that are most usually guys that take it as a game and are players or something. And the good guys are always too insecure to come up and chat. I don't know though I haven't been in the dating game for that long.
date.. reject... date... reject... date.. reject...
This viscous cycle keeps on going untill they are in their mid 30s and that's when they realise and they look for a serious relationship because beauty doesn't last long.
Everyone always assumes we're taken, high maintenance or we're single by choice and we want to be left alone.
Are these assumptions wrong?
Ya lo
What should we assume then or how should we act?
Talk to us LOL
why do girls talk to different guys like every single second , then you recommend this?
Because we're scared you already have someone. We don't want to look stupid. So we just don't even bother to ask.
True. Even pretty girls. I have been told I am considered as pretty and cute and beautiful but boys and even older boys just stare. Nothing more simply. Then I stare back.
I don't usually approach them or any women because I'm not really in the mood for love sometimes.
But yeah, relatable, if you're prettier at least then it's easier but not always easy.
If a girl is physically that pretty... either guys are intimidated to approach her... or they think she's already taken (since you claim her great looks). Also the way a girl carries herself.. might lead you to believe she's stuck up and not worth the time and effort! I've seen a lot of beautiful girls who are always single... that would be the reason!
I don't know guys think she is unapproachable or she may be involved with someone lots of reasons I guess. easier to approach someone they don't feel threatened by or someone they think they have a better chance with
I would say chances are pretty and independent means you have other priorities and sometimes those men just don't fall into place with your life. And sadly with the age it seems the options of quality men are more narrow.
What you're doing is taking a few anecdotal experiences and conflating them to the rest of the women you deem pretty in the world. It's nowhere near a truism.
Maybe ask a question like "why would a beautiful woman still choose to be single?"
Cause they feel they deserve a real prince with a castle and one that looks like a ck model
So they wait wait wait wait cause they feel they're too good lol
I think because guys avarage guys know they're not enough for those girls, and the good looking guys often are dumb asses that want just to play so they Don t aim to try for long time with girls that are they're same level aka difficult to achieve so they aim to avarage girls.
I guess
Often times it's through choice; many pretty girls love stringing along a retinue of different men because they're addicted to the attention. One boyfriend can't compete with a dozen guys all vying for her affections.
Not trying to sound vain, but I've been called pretty or cute all my life, so maybe I qualify! I've also been taken since I was sixteen by the same guy I married two years ago!! No singleness here.
Why are the kind and caring guys single and all the guys who just want sex the ones in the relationship it makes no god damn sense
I feel u m8
cause the ones that want sex are fun and they are flirting with girls like crazy to get sex, that fun personality, flirting combination makes girls fall for them and not just offer sex but even a relationship sometimes, they make girls feel good about themselves, try it, flirt with girls and you will see dont give a single shit what girls think, if she finds it inappropriate... well fuck her she can stop talking to you
by making sex your goal you will score two kinds of girls : the ones after sex, and the ones after something more, i you're only looking to date you will be dissapointed greatly
Because the kind caring guy could be putting up a front to get the same thing as the assholes. Don't think some guys out there don't play the " white knight" or "I'm so nice" card just to score girls.
@BrittBratt2416 guys dont even have to play that game, you need a level of niceness and honesty but most guys u know who get laid and get girls do it by being themselves, not caring much and treating girls like they want to treat them... as a girl you will probably say " i avoid these guys, they're asshoels" well no girls dont avoid these guys they love these guys and seek them.
being nice does not get you result, being an asshole with some niceness will get you the results you want... a guy told me once when i asked him how to have sex with girls he said " theyre are not angels, so dont treat them as such theyre horny and want to be fucked hard, treat them like you wanna fuck them and you will get them " the same dude has at least 20 chicks under his belt
@Z-Spark Well I for one don't go for the men you just told me about and that's really not true that we want the jerks. Most of the men that I've like in the past have all been nice men, my current boyfriend in my opinion is very nice and he's actually a geek as well. I have never intentionally gone after men who are jerks and thinks sex is just some sort of game. That's not the type of person I am and that's not the type of man that I want either, there's a difference between nice and being a push over. My boyfriend is nice most of the time, but he can turn the "going to be dick to you" switch if he needs to if he's being disrespecting (He probably do it at his job if he could). Women want balance, they want you to stand up for yourself and not emotional breakdown every 5mins that's our job lol but at the same time we want to see strength, courage and confidence. But in my opinion when some girl says "You're to nice" it doesn't mean she wants an asshole, just an excuse to reject a man
@BrittBratt2416 Some girls go for nice guys but most quality ones dont unless that dude is really rich and high status, i will tell you about my own experience, i believe in being nice, respectful and waiting for girls to give me permission before approaching or doing anything... how did that work out for me? it didn't, what i got was hurt feelings and girls who would leave me for a guy who was so mean and shitty he had asshole written on his forhead.
of course i dont believe in being a full asshole thats wrong, but i changed my approached and my looks changed and style as well girls nowdays think iam very attractive and i just stopped caring about being nice, i will say what i want when i want, i recently told a girl i want sex not a friendship, she said she was sorry she led me on i told her to not talk to me again, i really dont care, i stopped caring about how girls think i should act , i will behave the way i want.
and that got me girls in case you're wondering
@Z-Spark Then you went after the wrong kind of women. I've never rejected a guy cause he was nice nor got with a guy cause he was an asshole. Did it ever occur to you that those women just didn't find you attractive or wasn't interested enough in you to date? I'm let you in on something, I'm a nice girl and very shy, introverted woman. I spoke to anyone who wanted to speak with me or be friends me, so tell me why most of the guys I liked growing up didn't like men? Again nice girl with a cool personality. It wasn't cause I was nice, its just they didn't see me in a romantic light, being rude wouldn't changed their feelings towards me either. It would probably make them even more unattractive to me already, and that's even being a friend or in the same room as me. You also have to remember you can't help who you fall in love with some times and doesn't matter if the person is nice or not.
@BrittBratt2416 i doubt you think about how nice or asshole a guy is it just happens wihtout you even realizing hence why so many women on this site complain about men who hurt them and treated them badly yet they were deeply in love with them... attraction was never an issue for me in fact the only reason girls are responsive to my approaches and show a lot of interest in me is because of how i look, this is the reason i get so much attention, iam quite smart, funny and usually confident, i dont find a need to insult anyone unless they insult me then i become an asshole.
i have approached all kinds of women the nice, the hot, the not so hot , foreign women, local women... etc literally every one of these girls had a different personality but they all shared one trait : they never dated a really nice guy unless he was rich, they had a crush on me when i didn't even care enough to look at them.
@Z-Spark Never dated a nice guy unless he's rich? When I got with my boyfriend he was working at Walmart, when we had our first date his car broke down at a gas station. But guess what? I didn't give a shit cause he was cute, smart, and of course, NICE to me. He's nice person and I swear the day he becomes a huge jerk is the day I will leave. He didn't have to change is appearance either and look like some sort of bad ass with a whole bunch of tats and piercings, or whatever this is what my boyfriend looks like:
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Now does he look like and every day sort of guy or does he look like some sort huge ass hole that you think girls are constantly going for?
@BrittBratt2416 looks like an ordinary guy to me... but there is a question you're not asking youreself, do you think you can actually score a really hot and confident guy? lets be honest what are you chances with a real catch not an an ordinary guy, i see hot girls with guys that look normal and not even good looking , i've done my research and it seems that women prefer to have the guy who isn't constantly hit on by women, they feel safer this way, plus most women dont think they have what it takes to date a really good looking guy so they settle for less , and iam ot talking sex iam talking about him committing to you, you can get sex from anyone.
@Z-Spark Yeah I did score a really hot and confident guy, its the guy I just show you in the picture lol I don't know about you, but I didn't settle for him, I wanted to be with him and just want to be with him. What you just described is something I see a lot guys actually say they do on this site, they don't feel confident enough in themselves to land the really hot girl so they with below average girl or girl they feel safe with so rejection wouldn't be as hard coming from her sense she's not the hot. I see guy say its okay to jack off to a woman who looks like kate upton but say its not a big deal when their girlfriends look the totally opposite but don't understand how that makes their girlfriend's feel, if thats the kind of woman you want then why not go get her.
thats why women feel like their boyfriends are settling or not satisfied enough in their relationship she's not the woman he trustfully wants, either emotionally or psychically. Cause lets be honest, guys say "o no we just want to do that stuff with you or thinking about you" Well that can't be true cause most men are looking at women who aren't their girlfriends, more than likely their thinking of being the man in video who's doing the girl cause if they weren't they wouldn't be aroused.
no offense but there is noway your boyfriend is hot i can't really imagine women hitting on him he simpy doesn't have the looks for it so when you say that u scored a hot guy you're just lying to yourself... i never had a problem talking to a hot girl mainly cause such girls like me so the attraction isthede iam not going to commit to a woman i dont fid attractive swttling for less doesn't really wor for me
@Z-Spark So I don't go count as a girl who finds him attractive? I don't care if he doesn't get hit on a lot by women, I don't even get hit on that much either yet I found someone who loves me.
@BrittBratt2416 Its good that you find your boyfriend attractive and that he loves you iam not saying its a bad thing or saying you dont find him attractive, what iam saying is that to be considered hot you have be viewed as hot by everyone else not just one person, i know guys who are dating girls and they think theyre hot but the girls are average at best and everyone else agrees on that... so in short you have never actually dated a hot man, no and saying you do is just twisting the truth, he isn't ugly but he isn't hot either he's just average which means you like most girls dont think you can actually get a hot man so you never actually tried getting one, if you ever thought you could score a man with the looks of david beckham you would've never settled for less.
this is what i mean by hot :
https://i.ytimg.com/vi/F977lXF_Zz8/hqdefault.jpg
iam not trying to shame you or say you have a bad taste or anything , all iam saying is that you're going for nice guys because deep down you feel this is what you can get and the average dudes are usually nicer than the hot ones or at least seem nicer, so who would a normal girl choose? the guy in the picture who gets hit on 10 times a day and gets looks like crazy and does not chase girls or... the average guy who had one or two gfs, rarely gets attention from women, is nice and will chase you? the answer is obvious its guy number two, because most women dont think they can get guy number one.
@Z-Spark Everyone else is just the opinions of people you're around you or on the internet, everyone else is not the entire world. You get the women that find you attractive, otherwise if they didn't they probably wouldn't date you. Listen I get looks matter in this society but it's not something to constantly worry about, what other people don't like someone else will.
@Z-Spark no, I don't settle and have never settled.
@BrittBratt2416 iam not saying you should just care how someone looks what iam saying is that you never had any guy who is hot so you dont know the feeling and you're talking like you do.
@Z-Spark And I'm saying to you the men that I like are hot to me.. damn dude why don't you get it? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, right this down at least 100 times a day until it sinks in. Another person's trash is someone's else's treasure, if a guy REALLY likes or loves a girl, he won't give a damn what his friends say or think. He'll hear what they say but will let the words flow in one ear and out the other and that's how it should work.
@BrittBratt2416 sure beauty is in the eye of the beholder but telling me your boyfriend is hot won't cut it when he isn't even close, you dont know what its like to date a hot guy, you dont know what it feels like to be with a guy that girls want, hit on and actively flirt with, such things were never part of your life, you say you find him attractive and maybe you do but you also know he is not attractive to other women and it makes you feel safe, you like the fact that other women dont hit on him because you know deep down he is not a hot guy he is an average dude, nothing is wrong with that but you're just denying it and dancing around the truth thats all...
@Z-Spark well then the problem isn't me, it's you. You just don't think my boyfriend is hot lol O well, I'm dating him not you so its all good.
@BrittBratt2416 date him its not affecting me but lying to everyone you meet is not healthy
@Z-Spark Every woman is not lying man, you seriously have a problem from all the times women have rejected you. Now you think all women automatically want rude men who look like David Beckham. Even girls who are attractive, don't always get the guy if she's dumb or just plain bitchy.
Tbh who doesn't want a badass that lookd like David Beckham
@BrittBratt2416 iam neither dumb nor bitchy and iam doing alright with women so you assumed wrong, iam just realistic.
99% of women will date a hot guy if 1- they are confident enough they can attract him and 2- he is loyal and won't cheat... these trwo reasons are why women avoid hot guys sometimes, you're not any special.
you're saying "iam dating a hot guy" thats wrong, you should " the guy iam dating is attractive to me only" because if i am being brutally honest he is not a hot guy no matter how many times you use that word... and as @6AA6 said, who doest want a guy that looks like david beckham? i will tell you who, the women who can't attract him or keep him so they avoid him altogether.
as for bitchy women, yes they will be used by men and thrown away but compared to unattractive women they have a much higher chance of finding a man.
P. S: men and women have different standards dont tell me what men like based on what you like it doesn't work like that
most guys are either too chicken shit and scared to ask, or we assume that a beautiful woman like you could not possibly be single, but your average looking friends, not as heartbreaking if we get shot down by her
you ain't very nice to your friends... and it's not easy when not a single person in your life tells you the truth. I for one don't mind being shot down tho a green light would help
Because the "average" girls might have a better personality? Not saying all of them do, but that is the only answer I can think of for your specific question.
I believe that the beta guys have as their reason to be scared of rejection.
But for sure the men who are confident, fit, succesfull do not want "pretty girls" because no man truly wants to stay with a woman who cares so much about her own looks.
Growing up they only depend on their looks for attention, friends, even in school they get helped sooner by teachers, at work they get hired for their beauty etc etc.
This results in those pretty girls not having developped any empathy, kindness, discipline, or any other skills or charasteristics everyone loves. But on the other hand they have developped arrogance, selfishness, bitchy behaviour, manipulation, expecting a lot and giving little.
This is the reason why they are only seen as a temporary side thing. Because they have nothing more to offer
its easier to seduce the uglier ones obviously. men are smart, why waste their efforts to pretty girls. plus many obviously dont think they are worth them. think them as out of their league.
Most are in relationships with handsome dudes, not single.
haha def not true, the prettiest girls I know among my FB friends have always have boys locked down since like middle school
Probably because nobody assumes they are single.
Feel free to initiate because most girls will gladly accept.
most guys will gladly accept a date*
Simple. These girls know they're pretty and they want a guy who can match up to their standard, but the truth is there's no such guy. They'll become spinsterszzz
Actually, a lot of girls everyone thinks are cute or pretty don't recognize themselves to be pretty. So many are hung up on self perceived faults. Others let beauty go to their head, likely the ones this question refers to.
BRO I'm totally agree with u...👏👏
@SammyGurl doesn't matter what kind, hot girls are never single i haven't met a hot girl without guy and i have been looking for two years , I don't know where you guys live but its not the real world
@ z-Spark that's true... I had a crush on a girl since my school day but she was so pretty that many boy wanted to be her boyfriend wherever she went
@gappu4799 a girl who is hot will always have guys wanting to date her, there is no shortage of confident guys, unattractive ones are easier to find, i have met plenty of single unattractive girls who have shown interest in me the hot ones act the same but they are taken so its pointless.
I get asked out a lot... but most of the times it is for sexual reasons and not because they actually like him/interested to get to know me
Because the hotter they are, they crazier they are.
Just ask Barny Stinson, he's got a chart and everything.
I wrote a mytake about this topic: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a9502-why-guys-don-t-hit-on-pretty-girls
A lot of guys find conventionally attractive women unapproachable because they don't have the personal confidence to talk to them. "Other, better-looking guys will ask her out. She's out of my league."
I've also noticed this... it might be because pretty girls have higher standards or are just more intimidating for guys to ask out (?) I don't really know
I think - men are more intimidated when it comes to asking them out, or they're just pickier. I know personally I don't date a guy who randomly asks me out after a 5-10 minute conversation
it can be that as you said.. thinking that you are pretty makes you look for a very pretty guy.. someone that perhaps does't exist or hard to find.. keep it basic love will get you with one who deserves you.. give him a chance when he mans up and walk to talk. even if he is not as pretty as you think you need. hearts are often very pretty
maybe they are kind of negative about themselves when they are being complimented about their looks or appearances. As a guy it does get annoying to tell a really hot girl that she is smoking hot only to listen to her saying that she is actually ugly or not worth. personally for me I think it's a turn off
a lot of guys beleave that they wouldn't have a chance with the more good looking girls, and some think they dont want some guy who think he's better try and steal them away.
Where is this true? Around here it seems like every average or better looking woman over 25 y/o is in a relationship. If they are single it is usually just for a couple months.
They play hard to get/attempt to qualify, are more in their own head, and throw out more shit tests and the like--- often even claiming they are in a relationship when they actually aren't.
id say im pretty damn average, where is my guy to ask me out lol
m here.. lets go out.. ha ha ha
i have noticed it. almost all my friends are single and they are gorgeous
beauty remains in the eye of the beholder...
maybe some guys are more nervous to ask out the most pretty ones or something I don't know that's probably wrong 😂
Thats true! In my case I used to put them on a pedestal
I think it has something to do with attractiveness most nice guys are not as attractive as the "asswhole" and those asswholes don't show thier an asswhole off the bat they try to play the nice guy.
They have higher standards, since they can afford it. Maybe also has to do with they are simply very independent emotionally
no one can be independ emotionaly. it is a lost battle
I don't find that true at all except with really picky "pretty" girls. all my friends, who most would say are pretty, have boyfriends.
guys are too afraid to ask pretty girls out , they beleive they will get rejected , that she s just out of his league
I've been told I was pretty by many people, but I don't feel like it because I've been single. Sooo I don't know lol 🤷🏻♀️
either they reject most men, don't make the effort to meet new guys, or simply have a defect that men dont like at all like being clingy, naggy, etc
Hmmm as a guy who has rediculously high standards, if you know where all the gorgeous single woman with michelle obama's intelligence and jackie kennedy's class are, let me know. At least in my uni, all those gals are in committed relationships.
Cause most "pretty girls" only date "pretty boys" and most pretty boys are assholes.
Then either the guys don't think they are good enough or the guys are assuming that the girls are stuck-up without even meeting them. Or maybe they are gay. It depends on the individual guy in question.
BECAUSE they're often between the previous and the next relationship: if you're pretty it's easy to get guys and there's no reason at all, not to dump a guy who isn't perfect.
This is what I've run into several times now
Exactly. These barbie dolls are not loyal.
Men would only want to use them, not wife them up.
I'm fairly certain there are a lot of attractive girls that get asked out and showered with attention as well while there are a lot of average girls that are single. Its not like all the 8s, 9s, and 10s are single
maybe they don't find their type of guys. I mean some women are picky. I am as well loool
it's not really about beauty
You should try asking out a guy that you like instead of waiting for them to do it.
pretty girls get so much attention that they dont tend to commit they have so many to chose from so guys go for the averade girls well some guys anyway where they can have a steady girlfriend...
so not true imho a lot of pretty girls are not single...
I am very picky and tend for those... it's hard this way...
however, many may tell you (a boy) they are not single to get rid of you)
guys are more comfortable around average looking girls.
with pretty girls guys never act themselves and are nervous and trying to impress her When they could just be chill
cuz most guys put a barrier of she's out of my league and makes it impossible to even gain confidence to ask them out
They usually have worse personalities compared to average girls. Out of all the women I've been with-all of which were average-had actual personalities and were decent people.
Average girls r more bitchy than beautiful ones. They roam in groups nd bitch laugh at beautiful gals without any reason. But infront of guys story is different.
That hasn't been my experience with them.
This is the only right answer
The average pretty girl ( it's really an attiude) has some many insecurities that they block themselves in order to keep up with the status quo.
Princess syndrome. they want to bounce from dick to dick expecting the world to handed to them. Then they expect to be treated like a lady after they're all used up and in their 30s
I've found that most beautiful girls aren't asked a lot. Intimidation is sexy but it makes some guys too nervous.
dude where you live? hot girls are asked out by so many men its unreal
Maybe its just because of the assumptions that pretty girls know they are pretty and are high maintenance? Not completely sure.