For sure. My first toxic ex made me develop jealousy issues which has been an issue in my relationships but I've managed to work on them a lot. By the way, if when telling you about her he called her beautiful and stuff I would say that crosses the line. But if he was respectful about it, remember he chose you. He wants to be with you for a reason, and he ended the relationship with her for a reason. As long as he isn't hung up on her, the past is in the past. I went to a therapy session to work on jealousy, and have had many open conversations with my boyfriend. I'd recommend the same for you, you'll get there :)
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A lot of people date their holly wood like fantasy person in their first connection and than after getting dumped, date less attractive people to guard themselves from getting hurt. I’ve seen this many times and I would assume these people learn to be content with their new partners.
And this is why I don't talk much about my ex's other than they were great partners during the time and place and I'm ready to start a new. And leave it at that. >w< I keep the details to myself just to avoid exactly what OP is explaining. XD.
Stop being a downer be happy he is with you no reason to be jealous of her he picked you to be you're the winner she is the loser if you don't stop the over thinking you will be the next loser
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my only boyfriend we are each others first after that i don't have a boyfriend so i really cannot relate. i'm still looking for q boyfriend maybe somedat
Yeah I’ve felt that way. But he’s with me not her I see no evidence that he’s still crushing on her so I don’t really let it get to me.
Yes simple, when those thoughts begin creeping up. Remind yourself he chose to be with you and not her.
I hope so... guys don't mention them to make you feel secure or better about things...
Not ex girlfriend but ex best Friend bc she is like different
Yeah. Like she's gorgeous and my ex constantly pointed that out.
No. But if i did, id break up with him.
He doesn't really have an ex, so no.
No, and I don't think I ever will.
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not once
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oh, god no.
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