The guy responses here are largely pathetic and a poor excuse. Having been that "nice" guy who was always rejected, I can tell you (good) women look for a man with genuine personality. Someone funny, but mature. isn't afraid to be himself, can take criticism with professionalism tact and not explode into a whiny man child. He is aware of himself, knows what he wants, and knows how to get there. Has ambition, goals and dreams AND actively works towards them. Consistent, even when its inconvenient for him, because he recognizes the needs of others before his own. Someone who projects himself and naturally takes lead, not because he's a dick, but because he knows what needs to be done, he's earned the respect of others and because no one else would do it. Responsible.
Once you achieve this status, your problem becomes keeping women away...
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Notice not one female said anything about physical features or looks. Although they are attracted to that, it's not a priority as with males. However, I have to factor in the formula; they act and say the opposite of what they feel. Hmm...
I think the more productive question here would be; "On the onset of SEEING strangers; various men in public, what physical features do females find attractive?"
Honesty, loyalty, good sense of humour, not addicted to porn, share similar interests/hobbies, close relationships with their family and chooses their friends wisely.
A lot of guys seem to think women only care about money or looks but that just tells me they’re finding the wrong kinds of women, there’s always shitty people in both men and women. I personally don’t give a shit about someone’s income aslong as they’re not homeless/mooching off of me financially and I don’t care about looks as long as they’re not morbidly obese to the point that they can’t get off their butt or keep good hygiene ie shower often.
- Their fresh out of the shower smell 🤤
- funny
- smart
- shyness
- protector mode
- romantic
- hard worker
- shoulder to lean on
- Best friend I can talk to about anything more than girls
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The most attractive thing for me is when the man actually has a common sense.
I also appreciate if the man is altruistic, funny (I like sarcasm and black humor), but isn't afraid to be kind in public.
I always have such a big smile on my face everytime my boyfriend goes for my hand and holds it (in public). It's so simple but I love it and then when he gives me the typical boyish smile and looks at me lovingly.
Yeah I'm a romantic lolI like a guy with good intentions, like if he wants to make you feel important or special, that is super attractive. The guy I used to like would volunteer to edit my papers, buy me things, give me rides, introduce me to his friends, walk me home at night to protect me, listen to my problems etc…
He is intelligent, has a stable job, dresses well (slacks, button-ups, etc.), is hygienic, doesn't take himself too seriously, can hold a good conversation, and is mature. Looks play into it, but if you dress well and have your shit together, you can go from a 5 to a 6.
Money and preselection bias. Will this guy move her up in financial status and will he make her friends jealous and increase her social status.
Women don’t know what they want, all they know is that they want more. Give a women everything under the sun and she’ll be pissed that you didn’t give her the sun too; give her the sun and everything else in the universe and she’ll be pissed at you because there isn’t more.Physically: broad shoulders/wide back, nice lips, pretty eyes, high cheekbones, well groomed hair, good style with well fit clothing.
Personality: Assertive, playful, thoughtful, chivalrous, romantic.I think what tops the list, is superior social skills. Having a wide network signals high status. Women are largely for the most part, status driven.
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DoctorSexIt's more about the emotional attractiveness than the physical - that being said, muscles and hair indicate physical strength, which ties into emotional strength.
Smile, humor, goofiness, seriousness, dog lover, being thoughtful, considerate, playful, great at communicating feelings, being physically affectionate.
Intelligence, maturity and having good manners are some of them.
For me I'm a eyes and butt person.
I like the 5 o'clock shadow. A man that can talk and work on cars with me.The way he smells, his smile, personality, being funny, protective, nice, smart, nice smile, his eyes, confidence, chest hair.. I can go on lol
Height, looks, the appearance of money, an overpriced car, a big dick, and a chest-thumping, strutting ass hole persona, or what they call self-confidence.
His brain. I love smart men. Those who can keep a conversation interesting. I am so into a human wiki.
Confidence, Class, Someone who appears to take care of himself physically
Asymmetry... in global way. Triple A (s) Aesthetics, Achievement, Aprtitude
I love toned legs, broad shoulders, big hands, round butt, a good package, personality, good sense of humor.
Height, full eyebrows, nice teeth, not to low but not to high voice, not being mean but not being to nice, having an accent, good sense in style, smart, nice hair, good hygiene, full pink/red lips, nice ass shape, good skin, nice lookin eyes, etc
looking out for there loved ones and not being a afraid to stand up to help someone that needs some help
Strange, none of the pinks have mentioned small package yet.
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