What do men find attractive in a girl?

[Anonymous]

I’m on dating apps, and can’t find anyone. The last one I had chat with: His pictures? He looked kind and caring. I said on my profile that I’m looking for someone decent, he asked me what do I mean by decent, and he approved with the points I made (he was actually the first person who asked me what I mean). He said he’s interested in me. But after 3days chat, 2 days ago I asked him if he liked video games (because he just didn’t say much and kept asking for photos, because I had few on my profile and when I sent him he asked for more, so I said I’m not gonna send you anymore photos) And he hasn’t answered since then. He’s seen the message but he hasn’t answered.
So I look at myself and ask is it me?
I haven’t dated in 6years because I was too busy and involved with my own life and decisions and decided not to bother anyone when I had conflicting situations and emotions. So, am I out of practice?
I have put on my profile what are my interests. I’m an artist, I read lots of fiction books, I watch movies and series a lot, I’m a gamer, I love camping and build fire and cook outdoors. I’m also an f1 fan. I sing, don’t smoke. English isn’t my first language, and I also speak Italian (I’m looking for guys in my own country). And I don’t want kids and marriage (not ready for it and don’t believe in it either). So what’s wrong? I want to find a guy with close tastes and have fun and enjoy. Please let me know what you think and thanks in advance.

[Anonymous]

Well, in your situation, have you thought of giving guys from different backgrounds a try. Like I know you only want to date within your nationality, but you’re limiting yourself. I like girls from any background, because I know I can find the girl of my dreams. I just love all women. But anyways, I like girls who are kind and sweet. Personality is everything to me. I like girls who are spontaneous. Like randomly go hangout without plans. To me that’s attractive because you’re not scared to have fun. And overall, go out of their to let you know they like you.

[Asker]

Well all the guys I’m chatting are either horny, or they have eyes all over and are chatting with multiple girls. I don’t think they’re looking for nice or sweet. If they are, we’ll I think they need glasses😂 but I need to date some one I can go out with. So I have to choose someone close to my location.

[karieskhalid1]

Awww.. I have read your post.. you seems like someone who deserves love.. you can date me.. ✨❤️

[Asker]

Thanks and thanks for the offer

[Asker]

I guess what I meant is that he’s not looking at the camera like😏😎🤤 or wasn’t in a pool or at gym showing abs. Just standing with a soft smile😊 to my eyes that looked more genuine and kind. I’m not saying I’m right, but I have chatted with😏😎🤤 and they have proved that I’m right.

[karieskhalid1]

Great..✨❤️

[LightOfTruth]

you can tell if a guy is caring in a photo?

[Asker]

I can tell when he’s not.

[LightOfTruth]

Does my photo say I am caring?

[Asker]

You could be.

[LightOfTruth]

Wait I thought you knew? Since my photo is of jek porkins how can you tell anything?

[Asker]

😂😂I thought it’s weird😅 then why’d you ask? (I’m not a Star Wars fan, think Alien and Star Trek are more fun🤔though I can’t remember the characters from those movies either😬)

[LightOfTruth]

I ask because I don’t think you can tell anything but a moment in time from a photo. Have you ever done anything wrong in your life? If I took a picture of you doing it does that mean your always that person? Can I not take a photo of a broken clock and it still be right two times a day?

If you trust photos as a rule of thumb, then you are bound to be let down.

[LightOfTruth]

Dm or add me, I would like to learn more about you. You have a very interesting way of looking at things.

[Asker]

I see your point. But you can choose between a picture and use one that is not flirting or sending a kind of secret message😂 in my experience I am browsing between pictures of people who are in front of mirror showing abs, in pool and drinking beer like 😏😎 or a selfie with a naughty smirk. ALL of them. In this kind of setting, you can become judgmental easily. You put these people one side and those who look different than them on the other🤷🏻‍♀️

What’s there to learn🤔. Sorry😅but I have encountered this sentence many times, and oh how many times I’ve been “learned”. It cloud’s some’s judgment. I guess I’m compromised by all this dating apps🤦🏻‍♀️

[LightOfTruth]

Lol dating apps will make a happy person depressed. Tried that and it seems to be more a scam then an opportunity. At this point loved is going to have to find me, I am done walking around aimlessly. That’s why I say DM me because talking in private takes social pressure off most times.

[Asker]

I just joined, Apparently I can’t DM you because we’re not the same level😂

[PeterSmith1983]

Hard to tell without your picture

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[PeterSmith1983]

To see what would or would not be attractive in you

[Asker]

I’m not ugly. I’m pretty, As Chris Pine said in Wonder Woman, I’m above average😂.

[PeterSmith1983]

As said hard to verify without pictures