Why do women hit on me more openly than men?

Question

No joke. I am a straight, feminine woman, yet the lesbians and bi girls hit on me more than men.

CelticCrusader · Accepted Answer

Now a days most men aren't even interested in dating. Between how common fake rape calls are and how most people are just looking for a quick smash and dash everyone just swipes on tinder. Why risk getting called a creeper or a rapist by hitting on a woman in public when a smash and dash is lower risk. I've looked into it and more men in this country have no desire to date and wed than do to the point america is looking at a population decline and one of the biggest reasons was fear of abuse based on past experiences and fear of legal action in a biased justice system.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

You have to be aware of whom has a chance to suffer some really bad consequences. That's why most dudes sit around asking a bunch of questions first to see if it's safe. I, for instance, will state "I'd hook up with a girl like you" and then it's up to them after that. Because I know anything I say can be used against me in a very bad way for myself.

Females on the other hand, currently seem to have a free pass on so many social interactions that a dude could get hemmed up for.

globetrotter22 · Answer

Because they can get away with it. It’s that simple.

Men have been knocked down very hard in the last few years when it comes to approaching women. However bisexual and lesbian get a lot more leeway and wiggle room when it comes to “flirting”. Many women are naturally touchy feely with each other but it’s considered more innocuous. In fact women can compliment each other on their looks and never worry about getting their sexuality questioned.

Anyway about men getting knocked down. The real insidious side effect of metoo is that thoughtful men have now become more gun shy. And most women still prefer to be approached.

Guy13 · Answer

You must have a noticeable emotional and nurturing type demeanor. Most of the Lesbian thing is emotional in Nature. Especially given, Purpose, Form, and Function in same-sex relationship is violated. Even the squirrels and dog get that same-sex sexual relationships are a crime against nature...

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I'm gonna let you in on a little secret that only people who have had women actively express wanting to fuck them will know; women are really bad with boundaries. Everything, EVERY SINGLE THING, that women like to say men do all the time is something women do and even more so.

Intothevoid666 · Answer

Because they get away with it. Girls can openly hit on girls and find a date but if guys do that it won’t work. But dating isn’t harder for men I already know

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

Because there is no stigma behind it as a man we are automatically marked as sex crazed perverts who only talk to women to get in their pants im asexual but women still automatically assume Im a creep solely because I’m male

JDavid25 · Answer

Like another user said, because they can get away with it.

Anonymous · Answer

Because more people are gay these days and guys tend to be hesitant to approach women/girls because of how society, the media, comments online and etc. shape these weird ideological narratives.

Anonymous · Answer

Because men no longer have any interest in playing a rigged game.

Still-alive · Answer

Shrug 🤷‍♂️  maybe its your hair?

IsoUser · Answer

I just don't even know how to answer your question, obviously your attractive

enocheli · Answer

cause there is no punishment for women hitting on someone

Anonymous · Answer

You probably are more butch than you're giving yourself credit for.

Anonymous · Answer

because men have had enough of womens bullshit. cat is out of the bag we know what you really are

AviatorTom · Answer

You're an attractive woman...

stargazeraug1989 · Answer

Are you COMPLETELY straight through?

Mijopapi2000 · Answer

Because you are a lesbian.

EaterPeter · Answer

You seem to be very desirable woman

Anonymous · Answer

Because woman attract to you not mens...

Anonymous · Answer

Go sleep with them

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