How Receptive Are Women To Being Hit On?

[Anonymous]

When I want to try flirt with a girl I think is attractive I get nervous for a number of reasons. One of those reasons is I don't know if she would want to be hit on in the first place. Like, if you're minding your own business at a supermarket or gym and a guy comes up to you to start a conversation/flirt/ask you out, how many times out of ten are you ok with it? Are there ever times when you think to yourself "Ugh, I'm just here to get milk and this moron is hitting on me. Not in the mood"? Or are you generally open to it?

[jeffiner]

Honestly most of it has the right thing to do with the way that you approach her. If there was eye contact being made smiles being had then approaching her would be a safe bet. If you see a woman and you think she's beautiful but she doesn't even notice you and you walk up to her just to ask her out she's going to be annoyed.
There should always be some kind of chemistry or connection between you and somebody else before you ask them out. That way you know you're less likely to be shot down and if there's some kind of chemistry starting a conversation that leads into you asking her out will come easily.
So in other words I do not advise that you just walk up to a woman tell her she's beautiful and ask her out... Although in some cases I'm sure that that has worked...
When guys go up to random girls and just ask them out we usually think that either you're desperate, you've made a bet with your friends, and usually we also think that it's just about getting laid for you.
Again how you approach her is of the utmost importance and we'll have the biggest impact on her answer

[Aphrodite801]

Exactly correct

[Asker]

Well I guess I'm going to be single for the rest of my life because I've never experienced this "eye contact chemistry" you speak of. It seems like women won't give me the time of day even look at me.

[jeffiner]

Or have you maybe missed seeing it because you think you're non deserving of it?

[Asker]

Maybe. I think it also has to do with the fact I don't have the social skills to pick up on subtle things like being able to tell if someone feels attracted to me just from eye contact.

[A_Blue_wallflower]

I am an introvert and therefore I don't like it. I don't even like random unknown men sending me dms that say "I love you. Be my girlfriend". There are people that probably will not feel uncomfortable in such situations, but, generally that is never meant to work. I would say that if you like someone, just go to them, let them be aware of your presence, try to understand how they are around you and then politely say that you are interested in them. Don't try to be friends expecting something else and don't be cheesy, don't say things that might not be politically correct (eg:- "I have never met someone like you before" / "I think that I am in love").

Women generally don't feel okay being approached by men that know nothing about them.

[watercolor_lions]

I like the idea, but I have ways been afraid of men that hit on me for my looks. Most of them obviously just wanted sex by the way they did it (not getting to know me, at all).

So I always turned them down. If a guy noted something about my personality or character, I'd probably think again and say yes.

[DakotaPops]

It's less about the situation, unless I'm clearly busy and trying to complete a task as quickly as possible I think most people would be open to a casual conversation. The thing it really comes down to it... are they attracted to you?

That's the gamble you take when approaching people in the wild, sometimes you will swing and miss

[mandyfire98]

It's about how you do it. Don't just sneak up on women at the grocery store or pounce on them. Context is everything in these situations.

[neilsmart]

If you are hot, tall, athletic, well dressed with a strong jaw, deep voice and a long cock, then yes.

[rachel776]

haha

[rachel776]

if it's the right guy in the right situation it's nice

[moonpie89]

Lol I'm so extroverted.. I actually enjoy people coming up and talking to me.

[Nikki1989]

I always sense when it is about to happen.