This may only apply to me but, I disagree. If I know I'm doing something wrong, I will talk to him about it and tell him I'm sorry. And if he believes that the relationship can still work regardless of each others flaws that is what matters. If you truly love each other, you can work through each other's own interests and even make your love for each other even stronger.
I disagree that men and women can't be equal. If we all set aside our differences, and listen to what each other have to say instead of talking over one another, we can all be equal. You don't have to feel as though it's your fault all the time. Women and men have to understand that at times both sides are wrong, and they have to learn to forgive each other.
"He said, she said" is not the answer! We all have to realize that when we're wrong we're wrong no matter what your opinion is! You have to honor both of your wishes. That is the point of a relationship.
So, no. It is not always the man's fault. We women are wrong at times, too.
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I mean in most of my relationships I was the one to initiate. First meeting, first kiss etc.. and it got to the point where I made all the decisions and I don’t like that. I don’t like thinking for two people. Input is needed and validated. So if I’m the one that has to make all the decisions, lead the relationship and he’s not pulling his weight in that regard then why do I need him. What do I need him for?
I want a partner, I want someone to make decisions with. It shouldn’t be all up to one person (yes there are some decisions that are solely the individuals). And yeah there are differences between men and women, what one is capable of while the other may not be, but I’m not going to be subservient to a man; in my opinion that’s disrespectful to me. So equal partners, equal decisions, everyone’s happy.
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1. We aren't equal. Not just as sexes, but as individuals too.
2. We have equal opportunities under law
3. Your premise is false.
4. But it *can* be true that relatively more women try to escape their responsibilities and hide their role in the failure of their relationships. But again, that depends on many factors like education, mental health, culture, upbringing etc. If all girls around you are like that, you're probably living in a shit place.
I've been the one to lead relationships every time. It's one more reason I refuse to date cishet white men - they're just not able to take initiative. They're too used to everything being done for them.
Men have been the stopping block for my relationships every time. I'm already ready, but they're still dragging their feet, or lying, or cheating.
The men fuck themselves over, and I leave.They are equal in inherent human value. But no matter what society says we are also still inherently and genetically wired for our gender roles, and people who do not embrace their gender roles, at least to some extent, will fail to thrive.
When it comes to opportunities, work, education etc.. we are equal (to a point)
but the problem these days is that Some women say they want to be 100% but then get mad when their male partner treats them as an equal. Which is just confusing.why are women responsible for giving birth and not men?
why are women responsible for giving up their careers to raise kids but not men?
talk about unfair.
Because men and women aren’t equal , but men and women should single handily be allowed to live a life they want to live without the outside world intruding.
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