Is it an ok idea to ask a girl I was into if she and I can keep some space because she started seeing someone?

[geonator]

Yes, that's an ok idea

No, that's not ok

[Pegases]

I wouldn't ask her, I would tell her. If you're not ok with talking to a girl in a certain way because she's seeing someone else, then don't. It's really as simple as that. Your values, your morals etc, should never be dictated by a woman. The next time she reaches out and the convo goes a certain way that you're not comfortable with, I'd tell her the convo has gone to far, and that I'm not interested in continuing it. And leave it at that. I wouldn't respond afterwards if she asks either, Id leave it there. You don't owe a girls thats seeing someone else an elaborate explanation as to why you're doing what's best for you. You just do what's best for you.

[Adam1978]

What? If you aren't double dating there is no reason to ask for space. So I don't really understand why you should even discuss who and why you picked to date another girl.

[Anonymous]

If it’s for the sake of your mental well-being, then I would say yes.

[Alwayreckles93]

You have every right.