Why aren't any of the girls I've written come back? What's wrong with me?

[Anonymous]

Is my attitude wrong? Am I boring? Or ugly? What could be the problem?

[ZiZi_Bell]

Most likely it's your approach. Could be coming off as aggressive, or desperate. Also, depends on the context of what lead up to you reaching out. If you're reaching out without any prior communication, most likely not going to get a positive response. If there's been prior communication but there was no implicit sign that they wanted you to reach out, probably not going to get a positive response.

There's a lot of factors.

[Bee-Hatch]

We have no information to give you an informed answer.


But it sounds like you just expect it to work. Why would it? If you're putting in minimum effort like this question, then you've no right to expect anything

[MountAverage]

Wait, you expect us to know? Based on what? Are we supposed to telepathically tell?

[Asker]

Yeah. I thought you could do it

[MountAverage]

Okay well, I just telepathically communicated with all the girls that didn't reply to you. They all told me that you're an idiot.

[Asker]

You beat me bro

[ComradeCurze]

Probably because you have an attitude where women owe you something for you putting in some kind of effort for their attention.

[Guy13]

There’s no context or pictures of you.