Guys, Just found out that the reason why men aren't that into strawberries is because if a guy gets dumped by us very few of us sweet ones to go?

[Krissi45]

Is this true? That is sad if so. Guys are telling me it has nothing to do with looks or attraction however more of selection and their own self esteem by no fault of my own however just the way it is. Sorry men there ar so few of us out there lol. All I ever wanted was a brother figure or father figure. Quit assuming us girls are always looking for a date lol.

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lol now al those of you who are afraid to date us because of selection will be sending me messages to be a family lol and al ot hose that want a date might disappear lo grass isn't greener on either side lol

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IF your a family to mean youl never regert it though so i gues it is greener on that side lol.

[caring__1]

The color of a person's hair doesn't make that person a better or worse partner, though some find they are drawn to or away from people because of features out of the person's control. When my son was in high school, he started drawing pictures of a redhead. Though he didn't meet her for many years, his fiancee looks very much like the pictures he used to draw.

Especially if you're only looking for a friendship and not a relationship, the color of your hair should be irrelevant. Guys are often reluctant to reach out to women, though, as many women tend to be very insensitive in the manner they reject guys. You get rejected enough, and you'll stop reaching out, also.

[Krissi45]

that doesn't mean being a jerk sorry gusy tellign me there jerks for the reason i said above

[Krissi45]

thats not true in my case ebcasue whe nim looing for a fahter figure and stil get rejected they tel me its becase of the reason i said above because they assume i want adate.

[caring__1]

Unfortunately, you're the recipient of the results of actions of others. It is so common for people to say one thing when they mean another, that it can be hard to determine who is telling the truth and who is telling you what they think you want to hear.

[Krissi45]

yes but there's no ther reason fir a g uy to be completely cruel to a girl wishing her dead for how she looks especially one wh never had adad uncle or brother

[caring__1]

That's true, but people in general tend to be more inconsiderate of others than in the past. People tend to focus on their own sense of entitlement than consider how their choices might impact others. It's not a male-female thing. Any gender is just as likely to be inconsiderate.

[Krissi45]

Ye many females are mean to me to but when a man does it stings because they're the ones that let a girl know she's beautiful to them. I have never ever told men they are not worthy of love or unattractive. If they weren't my type I would still consider their feelings and tell them why.

[Krissi45]

Difference is most men have had a mother figure.

[Krissi45]

probably why redheads extra paranoid them ost girls i always see daddies wit hteir blonde and bruentte daughters loving htem something i never had. instead of ebing bitter though i trust men wi lrespect me and when they give e the least of htat even as adults makes me egve nmroe bitter to them men. so i think my bitterness is jsutified but iwil forgive them and move on al i can do.

[Krissi45]

i may jsut be the next marlyin menore

[Krissi45]

im defiantly the next Marilyn Monroe but she died young and i dont want to die young and most men dont care if i did so i need to fight most men sadly marilyn didn't get htat chance to.

[caring__1]

Not all guys are like that. It may have a lot to do with the type of guys you find yourself attracted to. It's easier for us to see what happens to us than what happens to others. It's easy to complain or lay blame, but we're more likely to appreciate the results when we focus on what is within our control to influence positive change.

Actually, girls tend to be crueler to other girls than guys are to other guys. That starts in the 5th grade, when all the princesses vie to become the queen. One minute you're my best friend, and the next minute you're just a piece of garbage. Compare male physical fights to female physical fights. Guys want to hurt the other guy, while girls want to devastate the other girl. They'll tear off their clothes or scar their faces with their claws.

[Krissi45]

woem nwil be the first tl let men hurt me they are uslally with the gu ywhen he does it.

[Krissi45]

i dont trust most women becasue of htis either

[Krissi45]

so because of this i dont trust most men or women however i have ot get to know both of htem to build up enoug htrust.

[caring__1]

Just take things slowly. Observe their patterns with you and others, and see if you can discover their patterns from the past, also. If there is a discrepancy between how they treat different people, you may want to pass on the opportunity, no matter how nice they treat you. They could eventually treat you or people you care about in less than ideal ways. You may have been too impulsive to trust in the past, and that may have led you to overlook some red flags.

Sometimes our own personal challenges impact how we view things around us. For instance, many dyslexics have difficulty reading social cues. You can always ask those you trust for a second opinion before jumping into a new situation.

If you want a father figure, focus on what that means to you and how it looks to you. If you have a clear picture in your mind, it will be easier to communicate that picture to a potential father figure. You're more likely to get what you want if you clearly communicate it to others. You can practice with someone you trust, so you can raise your likelihood of achieving your objective.

[maximumpower]

Did you read what you wrote before posting?
What the hell are you talking about?
I predict prozac in your future.

[Guy13]

I’m not sure 🤷🏻‍♂️. I like reds but not any kind of blondes 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Krissi45]

well im saying that men like dirty blondes more then red becasue way mroe dirty blondesto go around if get dumped?

[Krissi45]

lol the secret is out

[Bklynbadboy12]

Honestly there running game that's not true I've dated three two redheads before. Dont believe them that's just game

[Anonymous]

I don't date redheads because I never match with them.😢

[Avicenna]

I‘ve never heard that before

[Krissi45]

yep the secret is out

[Krissi45]

men are jerks toward us for the very reason isaid above.

[Krissi45]

They said there's no otehr reason a guy would be that mean or cruel to a random gril otherwise they dont know except for that one.

[Iron_Man]

I like strawberries

[Krissi45]

lol well i know the secret lol that men are more into dirty blondes because of selection lol. The secret is finally out. I think what your saying is your attracted to redheads and maybe most me are however with many men it's about selection not looks lol.

[Krissi45]

Your very attractive to however I think older men don't want to hurt a girls feelings if they think the girl always wants a date lol that's where men need to start getting t oa know a lady before assuming hats the case lol hard to do on the spot in this fast-paced society lol.

[Iron_Man]

I have a beautiful girl from Greece that’s a brunette and I’m very extremely happy with her

[Iron_Man]

Thank you I just got your post

[Krissi45]

true but there's more bruenttes out there so les of a threat to a man lol then a redhead with a mans selfe steem.

[Texaskid1]

You are smoking some really good shit.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Those are one of my favorite fruits