Would this be weird to u ladies?

[Anonymous]

As a shy guy i worked with this coworker that i had a crushed on for the first time. She strike up convos with like a couple questions getting to know me. Would it be weird to u if the next day the guy said "i think ur a cool person and i would like to know u more. Do u have fb or ig?" Do u ladies find it weird for a quiet guy to say that out of nowhere? I have a feeling she likes me too as i saw her looking at me or we walked past eachother and held eye contact for about 3s a few times in 2 months of working there.

Omg 🙊

Weirdo 😤

[Bellona]

If you say "i think ur a cool person and i would like to know u more. Do u have fb or ig?" It is fine, it won't be weird even if you claim that you are a shy guy because a lot of ladies like shy guys, as you suggested that she could like you. You claim that it would be weird for a shy guy to say that out of nowhere but you aren't really saying it out of know where if you have spoken to her previously and asking about getting to know her better is no harm because that's how you make any type of relationship ( co-worker friend, friend, partner...). I think it would only be weird asking her if she showed no interest in talking to you. Therefore, you should not worry about appearing weird because I do not think it is.

[Asker]

Thanks for ur suggestions. All cuz of u guys, i was able to gather enough courage to approach her. can't thank y'all enough but thank you from the very depth of my heart 😭😭😭

[Bellona]

awwww, you're welcome :-). I am so happy for you! Did she give you her fb/ig?

[Asker]

Unfortunately she doesn't do social medias cuz i find her not as talkative as i am so thats understandable so she only text through phone which i dont have one atm but i told her ill get one soon. Ngl tho, i nearly shiz my panties 🤣🤣 i had to go past her a couple times to finally get thw courage to walk up to her. Damn that was scary considering its my real first time approaching a women in 28yrs of my life 😰😰

[Bellona]

congratulations anyway!!!

[Asker]

Yeah that was all the encouragement i needed ♥️

[1GoldTwins]

I would like that! :)
I already wanted to get to know you, and now you returned it so that's good.

[Asker]

Like i dont wanna come off as creepy asking for her social media coming off this way but do u think this will work well on u as well?

[1GoldTwins]

If you're not comfortable with that yet you can just talk to her a bit more first and maybe ask her later?

[Asker]

I can but i just dont wanna seem that way. Thats why i was asking u if thats how u would feel creeped out or some shiz 😂🤣

[1GoldTwins]

I accepted friend requests from colleagues just after a bit of conversation. I just don't want get the impression that you're a 'creep' and I use that word for people who don't act like normal people, ya?
Like a person on the street who stands at kissing distance from you to have a conversation with you, that's weird! That's creepy! That's what I call a creep, a person who doesn't seem to know what normal behavior is.
If you're just a colleague who I talked to and we get along fine, it's totally okay for you to ask me for my social media.

[Asker]

U cute 🤭
Thanks for clarifying it. there's just so many things that doesn't go right with the way shy guys think 😂🤣😂 its just me overthinking stuffs as usual.
But yeah ill try to approach her this way becauze u said so 😌

[1GoldTwins]

You sure you don't want to wait for more opinions? I just answered based on how I would react if I was in her place.

[Asker]

It only take one to make a difference and not everyone gonna be the same. That was all that i ever needed to hear so thanks ♥️

[1GoldTwins]

Cheers! :)

[MarilynMonroe20]

No that’s the norm boy.

[Asker]

Dont make me shy