In general do guys like when a girl is nonchalant or is it Off-putting?

[Anonymous]

*Talks in a somewhat monotone manner

[kylee2437]

Being non Chalant is off putting. Shows that you have a fear of speaking up via emotions

[Asker]

Really? I think that’s a matter of perspective. A lot of people really just don’t care sometimes lol

[kylee2437]

I guess it’s in a matter of perspective depending on the subject. Dating wise, it’s very off putting

[Asker]

I could see that

[boggboss]

Its a turn off for me but then again I think how most in the is talk is off-putting

[Asker]

Most in the talk?

[boggboss]

Sorry most in the US talk

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[TheMajesticKing777]

Depends if she's always like that or not

[Asker]

Often lol

[TheMajesticKing777]

Well too much of it I feel can be taken as a cold vibe and I wouldn't be surprised if it can be off putting if not unmotivating to want to put in any form of effort, it depends how the specific person takes it I'd say

[Asker]

Good point

[Anonymous]

There's a fine line being low key and just being an a**hole.

[Asker]

That is true.

[Methis]

Off putting. Makes me feel like their aren't interested

[Th3ft]

It depends on if she ever isn’t nonchalant…

[Anonymous]

That can be very off putting.