Do girls like the presence of a guy?

[cyclingkmi]

For men the mere presence of a woman around them makes the place pleasant and makes them feel good...

Does this happens to women too? Presence of a man around her makes the place pleasant and makes them feel good too?

Yes , the presence of a man/men around a woman makes it pleasant and feel good

Not so much. Maybe it's because women aren't attracted to men to that extent as men are towards women

Not so much. Maybe because men aren't aesthetic and pleasant looking as women are

[Hawkes_Lady]

Okay, I think for "most" women, yes the presence of a man or men in a room makes them feel good.

For me, while I appreciate a man who looks good, his presence will most likely make me feel uncomfortable because of my past. While I may be attracted to him and want to get to know him, I am usually fearful of his size and strength and because of that I will be afraid to put myself in that position so won't talk to him. I will stay on the other side of the room and admire him from afar.

[cyclingkmi]

What if the guy isn't really big and tall?

[Hawkes_Lady]

@cyclingkmi My response to men is the same no matter their actual size because it was a man that hurt me. I am sure that if it had been a woman who had hurt me, I would fear all women whether they fit the description of who hurt me. It is an instinctual fear. Sometimes I can override the fear, but the fear is always there. I have had to fight with myself and push the fear down on many occasions.

My fear is triggered by men the same way for example someone smelling chocolate chip cookies is reminded of coming home from school to find mom or grandma in the kitchen with a plate of just-out-of-the-oven cookies and a glass of milk for you. Although, that is probably a good memory. Same as some people are triggered by the specific smell of perfume or cologne. Or literally a million different smells or scenarios.

Mine is triggered by men in general. However I am learning to push the fear down and control the fear because I realize not all men are going to hurt me, but it has taken me a long time to get there. Once I trust you as a man, I trust you, but if you hurt me it's over... I will never trust you again. I have learned the hard way that cheetahs never change their spots, if you hurt me once, you'll hurt me again.

[Hawkes_Lady]

Thanks for the MHO!

[inhua]

depends on how attractive they find him to be

hot guys don't have to say or do anything to make girls feel good

ugly guys are automatically seen as creeps and predators for existing

[cyclingkmi]

How about an average man?

[cyclingkmi]

I guess the same goes for beautiful women and ugly women too...

[inhua]

an average man will be a hit and miss depending on the girl though I believe it's more of a miss because similar groupthink is quite strong amongst them

[cyclingkmi]

So basically a general man doesn't do much to a woman, the way a woman is able to do to a man?

[SolitarySolace]

The presence of a woman doesn’t make me feel good at all. I’ve been avoiding women sense a false accusation made against me in college 4 years ago.

[cyclingkmi]

Oh. Ok.
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