What does she mean, a bit confused?

[Anonymous]

So I know a girl for 1.5 years we talk almost everyday, we met at work. But are great friends. Recently I’m changing jobs. I’m not gonna lie been a bit needy to her, recently. I thought I’d excuse myself by saying and being honest that, “On a more different note I’m sorry for being a bit weird and anxious around you. Sorry hope it’s not too bad.

Truth be told I’m just gonna miss you as your the person I talk to often, don’t mind me I’m just being emotional/stupid and will not bother you much with that.”

She replied, “ Aww it’ll be fine. You have other friends to talk to. Maybe ones that like talking.

Maybe your just scared with all the change as there’s uncertainty. It’ll be better afterwards”

Is she blowing me off or I’m confused?

FYI I replied, “Lol I’m not close to everyone…only close ones I talk to.

It’s rare to find someone like you.

Just overwhelmed with the fact I will miss you and wondering if our friendship will stay the same. Or even better given we don’t work together. Like work stuff that seems to sometimes make issues.

Plus I understand you so taking time is all good.

Just hope we can be better friends thanks for understanding.

So what’s you feedback on it, you usually have good insights?”

[Guy13]

Have you ever asked this woman out? If not, I woukd think you are day. Are you?

[Asker]

I have earlier she chose to be friends but kept talking and chasing

[Guy13]

Oh, I see. She’s a friend but wish she was more. Maybe, absence will make the heart grow fonder. 90 days after new job call her up and try again…with dating Plan ❓

[Asker]

I might let’s see I won’t approach her if she doesn’t talk…. that’s life.

[Guy13]

I’m with you totally….💪

[Asker]

Thanks