Did I just got used and stringed along for 6 months?

[kellytheman]

Me and my girlfriend just broke up and she was more saying she was with me just for fun. She also said that she needs stay focused on her kid which I get but why string me along thinking we was going to have a meaningful relationship?

[Anonymous]

Sorry that happened to you man. But she had a kid. That kid didn't come from nowhere. This is why you avoid single mothers. Dating a single mother is like a woman dating an ex convict. They both have already proven their poor decision making. Don't take it to hard man. She did YOU a favor in the long run.

[kellytheman]

I guess you might be right sometimes it hard to find a woman my age that doesn't have a kid.

[Opinion Owner]

I hear ya man.

[RobT312]

Aww sorry. That’s the worst given the reason. “Just for fun” is what 20 year olds do.
were there any signs or did it happen out of the blue?

[kellytheman]

It kinda came out of blue I thought everything was cool for being together we couldn't keep are hands off each other and her kid like me. I am not sure what made her break but her kid was having some behavior issues and maybe that's why she need to focus on her kid than me which is best.

[DizzyDesii]

Damn i know how happy she made you. im sorry she did you dirty. Dont take her back ever cause she doesn't deserve you

[kellytheman]

Yeah I won't take her back but I not sure that she wants to either. As long it ended on good terms no yelling or regrets.

[DizzyDesii]

Ending on good terms leaves the door open for me to take them back. I have to end on a bad note

[kellytheman]

I usually end on a good note so feeling's and self esteem doesn't take a big hit or hurt as much. I consider breaking up isn't liking the person your just not compatible.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

I hate to break it to you, but I think she's really saying "I gave you a shot and you aren't good enough to be part of my life."

[kellytheman]

I not sure that's it she couldn't keep her hands off me we had sex and spend most of our time together and we had goodbye sex when we broke up.

[IAteTwoFullHams]

Yeah, she obviously likes your body and what you do to her in bed.

... not so sure she really likes anything else

[LazerBean]

Sounds like it