Why did he try to hurt me so much with his words?

[Anonymous]

In June he cut things off with me. We had a argument while texting and he texted that he does’t want to continue to date me. I removed him from my instagram same day. After that I stupidly called him couple days later after I had removed him from instagram. I wanted closure. He brought it up right away in the phone call and said that he had noticed and it was ”drastic”.

He said that he’s looking for his soulmate and a good wife and that he doesn’t want to waste time. He said we are on different wavelenghts and don’t understand each other. He also said that when we started to talk he was looking for a wife and wanted to ”try” me wether I’m the right person. He also said that I’m a good dude…

he could’ve just said he’s not interested anymore. Why say all that….

[Guy13]

He wanted to make certain that you believed and he wanted to make you feel pain... regret what you did. It was a win-win for him and really was unnecessary.

[Asker]

Regret what I did? He decided to dump me..

[Asker]

? :)

[Guy13]

Yes... because of some comment or action that he didn't like. It is best to write this one off and move on. There has to be a better fit for you out there.

[Asker]

Doesn’t seem that he had feelings for him to lash out like that?

[Guy13]

I think that is a fair assessment... that you are right. Try to move on...

[Asker]

I meant don’t you think that he had feelings for me for him to lash out like that?

[d3n0939]

oh, this is you