He said hurtful things while dumping me. Did he really mean it or he just wanted to hurt me?

[Anonymous]

He said that he’s looking for his soulmate and a good wife and that he doesn’t want to waste time. He said we are on different wavelenghts and don’t understand each other. He also said that wheb we started to talk he was looking for a wife and wanted to ”try” me wether I’m the right person.

he could’ve just said he’s not interested anymore. Why say all that….

[Guy13]

He meant to hurt you for certain...

[Asker]

Why?

[Asker]

by the way we come from culture we’re opposite gender start talking usually for the purpose of marriage…

[Guy13]

I do not know why... Maybe so that you will believe it is over. I do not know the details of your relationship, therefore, I can not know Why. It is clear that he was intentionally trying to hurt you deeply... at least to me

[Asker]

Still we were just talking and we didn’t discuss marriage at all

[Guy13]

okay.

[Asker]

They say hurt people hurt others…

[Guy13]

Yes BUT that doesn't give one the right to intentionally inflict pain.-that is psychotic behavior.

[Asker]

Do you think he was hurt himself?