He said hurtful things while dumping me. Did he really mean it or he really intended to hurt me?

[Anonymous]

He said that he’s looking for his soulmate and a good wife and that he doesn’t want to waste time. I feel like that was uncalled for. He also said we are on different wavelenghts and don’t understand each other. He also said that when we started to talk he was looking for a wife and wanted to ”try” me wether I’m the right person.

he could’ve just said he’s not interested anymore. Why say all that….

[Anonymous]

I remember you posting about this several months ago, so unless you’re sharing this story again out of boredom and wanting to hear new perspectives on it, I’d tell you what I told you back then, and that’s to let it go and move on. If you weren’t the right person then you’re just not, he could’ve just ghosted but he gave you closure. I really hope I don’t see this again in another few months.

[Wise4myage]

People often say things in the heat of the moment, so chances are he didn't mean what he said.

[Asker]

But it was two days after break up when he said those things. Was still in the heat of the moment?