I do talk about this on GaG from time to time, but I ask this seriously. What is the psychology behind it? Why do so many women find it hard to let go of men who are users or cheaters, even after they find out what the guy is? I have known so many women over the years with this problem. I even know one right now in real life. This woman has found out now what a pathetic piece of shit this guy is she was sleeping with, yet she finds it incredibly hard to give him up and she literally has to remind herself of the reasons why he is clearly garbage, just to stay strong and not text him. At one point she was even in her feelings and drinking because he left her on Read more than once! Which he did on purpose. For me, I don't care what connection I had with some woman or how I thought the world of her before, when I find out what a serpentine piece of shit she is I let go and don't look back. But why is it that so many women become enslaved to obsession with no good guys?

Relationships are hard to get in to, and people mock you more if you're single. At least, that's why I would.

For the same reasons men hold on to women who are not good for them.

That fear of being alone ans being judged by the people makes them to stay in with those guysu

They can could change them. Or not to prove their folk right.

Because of the physical 'injections' they THINK They 'Need.

Because they grown up watching their mom and dad unhappy. They feel like they can change situations which is really not going to happen

Low sf esteem.. little self worth

Because they think they can change them...

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Anonymous
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Relationships are hard to get in to, and people mock you more if you're single. At least, that's why I would.

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- ManOnFire
  
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  Definitely true that people deride singles more, yes. But I think I'd look much more foolish staying with someone who is a cheater, abusive, or just a low life and everybody knows it, than to be by myself.
  
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- zagor
  
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  I don't recall ever being mocked for being single. Envied, yes.
  
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- NatalieKeller95
  
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  what is there to deride about singles though?
  
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- ManOnFire
  
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  @NatalieKeller95 People tend to look down on singles, often times as if they’re unfortunate to even be single. Everybody thinks you're supposed to be out there dating. Single men are derided much more than single women though. Often depicted as lonely loser masturbators who watch porn all day.
  
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For the same reasons men hold on to women who are not good for them.

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TheAfrikan Follow
Yoda Age: 34

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That fear of being alone ans being judged by the people makes them to stay in with those guysu

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MsJackie2001 Follow
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They can could change them. Or not to prove their folk right.

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AJAY2632 Follow
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Because of the physical 'injections' they THINK They 'Need.

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Valso Follow
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Because of their deep pockets.

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Anonymous
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Because they grown up watching their mom and dad unhappy. They feel like they can change situations which is really not going to happen

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Indiepop123 Follow
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Low sf esteem.. little self worth

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Zolly99999 Follow
Yoda Age: 46

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Because they think they can change them...

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Anonymous
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We are masochists I suppose

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landingout2 Follow
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women love evil cause they are evil

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Jenny2004 Follow
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i don’t, pick me uwu 😳😳😳

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jestergent Follow
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Top 10%r. Don't let go. Share.

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Andres77 Follow
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403 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.

And vice versa!

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Anonymous
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because it's easier than finding a new one?

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malwins Follow
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There r hidden benefits there

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- ManOnFire
  
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  Such as?
  
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- malwins
  
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  I just mean there are some benefits there so that’s why u don’t leave i guess
  
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- ManOnFire
  
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  Probably true. But in the sense that for these women, the benefit they perceive is there is not being alone. As others have said.
  
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abhi44444 Follow
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Complicated what do you do earn money easy

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anylolone Follow
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Same reason men do the same.

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cocaine

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Anonymous
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It's crazy.

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- ManOnFire
  
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  Ikr?
  
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Gh
Hhhh

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