Why am I so in love with this other people but can’t stand myself ?

[Anonymous]

Why am I like this. Like I get so happy and excited for others. Even small things like nails painted a pretty color. But with myself with the same things. ... it’s just like ehhhh whatever could be better... Or i criticize myself and expect perfection. But others I’m such in Awe and admiring loving and accepting: it’s like I give all my love to others. Why?

[ohsheeT]

Well I think you're answer to your own question is your question it's okay to admire but don't admire it become it take the next step you're right there you know what you have to do just do it quit thinking about yourself in that way think of yourself as being that way if that makes sense look we get to choose who we want to be in life by the things that we say and do don't hold yourself back by admiring it's okay to like and learn and experience with other people have or what they're doing but then do it make yourself do it you're the only person that can just imagine if you liked yourself how far you would go I See You Going the Distance I see you being bold and good so allow yourself to succeed it allow yourself to be happy quit holding yourself back because you're right there on that fine line on that edge take that next step

[ElementoP]

Because you're a good person. Love that about yourself

I grew to hate that about myself, which lead to me hating everyone else, which lead to hating myself even more, and so on. It just snowballs.

Now I fucking hate everyone and everything and I'm bitter as fuck. Don't let yourself go down that path. Just be who you are and accept it

[WhitneySnow]

I don't know why but I know a lot of people like that. It’s like you said you give all your love to your friends and your family and your partner but you judge yourself.

[Asker]

Exactly. I wish I could fix that

[WhitneySnow]

Maybe you can. Just try and accept yourself more. Look at yourself the way you look at your friends.

[chilldude33]

look up attachment styles

[jimmy2]

Don't be so hard on yourself