Does anyone wish they would stop being such a dump for a girl they have no chance with?

[JohnAdams0000]

Recently my girl best friend asked me if I could gift her something I told her yes but only if she gives me something back she sents me a list of what she wants and told me to pick one thing I chose two that cost me a total of $40 she told me she really liked it and even joked that she was deeply Inlove with me but when I received my present I realized it was a good thought but she spent $8 on a present I didn’t really like and I know she had at least $50 do you think she dosent care about me?

[wheresmrcunnunglis]

No because the last time I allowed myself to be one was during my teenage years and that was only once and I cut that ish off real quick after having a pep talk with myself in the mirror like, " hunny, we are too damn cute to be sidelined like this so move on."

Respect yourself enough to walk away and remind yourself that that person is not the only person in the world nor your vicinity that you can cultivate a deep connection with that will lead to love.

Confess to them how you feel and wait for their reply. If they dont reciprocate, distance yourself so you can heal or cut them off completely for just a short amount of time. I feel like they most likely already know about your feelings and are simply just stringing you along which is a horrible thing to do to someone.

[slatyb]

She’s using you. Why do you allow this? A woman worth knowing wouldn’t make such a request. A man with any self-esteem wouldn’t grant it.

[innerman]

You like her, why should you care how much she spent on the present, maybe she gifted the 42$ to charity