Is It Okay To Have Performance Anxiety As A Woman?

[fonduegirl]

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People who are advising me to "just lie there"... Damn, no wonder I don't like hetrosexual romances. "Just lie there", I might as well be a tree big enough for a cock to fit.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

I don't see why not.

Performance anxiety, especially before something like a presentation, an interview or an audit is something normal and also expected - after all, we want to make a good impression and portrait ourselves at our very best.

[Ευδεμονια]

It’s normal. We’re human so everyone can be subject to anxiety. Probably these modern times have depicted a role for the woman to be untouchable and gave all insecurities to men, but both men and woman HAVE insecurities and anxiety. Anxiety means also high importance for the moment, and it means a person is emotionally involved in what he’s doing. It’s all perfectly normal, we are human and subject to emotions.

[Light909090]

Just relax chill out we battle ourselves on a daily basis when you Think people are judging you its actually you judging you fighting a war in the mind.
Doesn’t matter if your a dude your a chick we have Both dark and Light
It’s balance of the 2 that brings you Peace what you call evil is really an unbalanced what you call anxiety is you just not having balance between your dark and light halves

[Light909090]

Or a chick

[FilmGuy93]

Performance anxiety? How? I think what bothers me more than the possibility of her performance anxiety is the fact I don't understand how that's even possible. You just literally have to act like you want to be there, keep your teeth off his cock when you're sucking him, and that's all the performance you need.

[exitseven]

I think it is. Why should guys have all the fun

[AimeeKyle]

Anyone can get or have anxiety about their performance. Do the best you can to relax and focus on the positive…..

[genericname85]

Why have performance anxiety if they literally tell you that even not performing at all is still good? XD like as a man you gotta perform. You can't just lie there and make her do everything. That's where performance anxiety makes sense.

[SomewhereElse]

You would think so, and yet there are guys who do precisely this

[genericname85]

@SomewhereElse well if i did that, i'd probably still be a virgin xD

[genericname85]

@SomewhereElse also "perform" can just mean to "stay hard" if you're a man, which can be impossible if you're too nervous, awkard or whatever else. dick hardness is a mind game. and if you're scared that you can't stay hard, that's a self fullfilling prophecy.

[SomewhereElse]

Lol! Well, it might not work on the first try, I'll give you that :D But I've come across this type of man who is a pillow princess for sure. Definitely feel you on the maintaining an erection part. That's definitely a struggle we don't have! Although if you are not wet enough even if you are turned on (common side effect of some medications such as anti-depressants or the pill) I guess we have a similar problem. Then we can always lube up, but still feels like a failure somehow. Like you are horny but you just can't get wet enough anyway if that makes sense.

[genericname85]

@SomewhereElse yeah as you said there's lube xD. you can't artificially inflate your dick without surgery. and viagra is dangerous, cause that was originally a blood pressure medication.

[Stevefiveo]

It is normal but if you are with the right guy. You should be able to talk about it and relieve some of that anxiety.

[Sixgunsound]

I should think that anybody can have performance anxiety.

[Hanrej]

Yes. Practically every woman trying to be dominant for the first time has performance anxiety. It's harder than it seems to be in control during sex.

[AsaKyo]

Yeah, I have general anxiety towards everything

[bananathunder]

I try to take over as much as possible so there isn't much that she would have to do but enjoy herself

[Methis]

Yes and very natural. You just have to find a partner who can help break the shell

[Pinay_ako]

Yes of course. Regardless your gender

[JessJJ]

Just relax darling and let him do the work.

[spartan55]

Yeah, if you want lame ass sex.

[fonduegirl]

@spartan55 😂

[spartan55]

How are you measuring performance?

[Kaneki05]

Of course everyone gets that at some point

[call_me_scar]

Yeah we are all human

[Jamesshinobi]

who the Hell ever said just lie there?

[pizzalovershouse]

Any body can get it

[nawtee_me]

sure it is, you are human too...

[krin_m]

Sure, it is natural.

[Xtendable]

Yeah, for sure

[BarryLiverstone]

In what sense?

[Debbie14217]

sure why not

[EaterPeter]

Absolutely

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!