What to do , I really love this girl, and she wants everything from me except me being her boyfriend what now?

[Anonymous]

I treat her very good , she Just build a wall around the possibility of becoming more than friends and im diying inside because of that. She is the only girl thst talks to me

[sage2021]

I think playing hard to get will open her eyes, and I think if you aren't so available all the time, she may miss the closeness you once had.
She might not want you as a boyfriend right now, but who knows if she will see you in a different light down the road sometime.
I don't believe running out to find a replacement for her is such a good idea. Maybe back in the old days that is what we would do. But things have changed in the dating world.
Sometimes when you least expect it, you may meet someone new. Just when you give up looking for someone, she will meet you when you least expect it.
You'll just have to wait and see how this plays out for you.
Best wishes,
Sage 🌹

[Asker]

I Personally find it bullshit to walk away to get her attention but because of your age i will

[sunflower00]

Sorry to hear that. It might be best to distance yourself to help you move on. She has said she doesn’t want a relationship so it won’t happen, which can feel really heartbreaking but there are plenty of people out there!

[Asker]

No there aren't, im an average dude i will never meet the standards of most Girls. With her i check off every box of her demands. If i have to describe our bond we do everything a couple does except for the loyalty and touching stuff.

[sunflower00]

So you have the relationship of friends, not a couple. Half the population are women, she isn’t your only chance and you can’t force her to like you

[Asker]

Then the only thing i can do is leave wich means hurting her and hurt myself even more. And trust me I've been trying to find another girl. But its impossible to find one that does wanna talk with me , how am i gonna find one that will make it like i don't need her anymore

[Sandeeppingping]

Move on broza, if she's the only girl that talks to you and even she rejected you then you should be pissed off, not at her but at your situation, don't be pathetic, turn full blown villain with redemption on his mind mode and fix this shit, your problem's beyond the girl herself and the love you think you have for her, you're 27 too that's late bruv I'm had that talk with a friend when I was 15

[Asker]

Well i had a girlfriend when i was 18 and had one when i was 23. I Just want someone to wake up next to me. I never had too change my whole Personality for that

[Asker]

To be honest I am pissed off , she literally wants a guy with all my qualities but not me

[Sandeeppingping]

@nickaboy I see my guy, it's just that in my own experience what you're trying usually doesn't work, I would know, so that was my word of advice right there but I understand if you don't want any personality change and can find another woman easily, but yea definitely drop her I'd be pissed off as well, if you look at it from an outside perspective feels like she's using you on most accounts (I bet if she needed a ride you'd help in a second yet wouldn't entertain the idea of a relationship and love for a second) and then will drop you for another guy

[Asker]

Yeah I'd do everything for her and she doesn't even want to try a date. She is using me as an emotional support animal

[Asker]

She does the same things for me tho but where i wanna make something out off it. She puts up a wall

[Asker]

I would have dropped her allready if i had someone else to talk to but i don't

[Sandeeppingping]

The way I see it, you already know this isn't gonna work, try and talk to someone else, it's like you're an unemployed homeless guy, you have nothing to lose and the only way is up, therefore whatever you try is a good thing, distance yourself from her still talk to her for the attention (the same way she does), then go out there and talk to other women, if you see this as not being an option then you got work to do my friend, the same way a lot of us do

[joeldalton]

You take your L and move on.

[In_Trance]

You accept it or you move on. Your call