What should I do if I like a girl but she has a boyfriend but she also likes me but doesn't want to end her current relationship?

[Anonymous]

This girl I like is with this guy. Theyve been together for a couple years. I don't know what she sees in him. he's always drunk and has a dui. she's always getting upset with him. But she's also super codependent. Everytime I see her she gives me puppy dog eyes. Ik she's attracted to me but i dont think she wants to risk her current relationship. I really like her too. We can talk for along time and we click. But I cannot hang out in our friend group if she's still with this dude. Its painful to watch someone I like be in a relationship with someone else. Please recommend me advice. What should I do? Im thinking about just leaving my friend group so that I dont see her anymore. I've already blocked her on snap.

[SueShe]

What you don't want to be is a homewrecker. Never mind if she likes you too. You simply pull away and leave her alone with her relationship. You do not make a move, you do not flirt, you do not give any signs that could be misunderstood.

You only like that girl. You don't love her and therefore, it is only infatuation and nothing more.

Yes, you are right. Cut all ties with her and let her handle her relationship. Best is to remove all kind of contact with her, be it on social media or in real life. She has to sort out her life without being helped or motivated by you.

[Daniela1982]

Guess you are going to have to wait. But not too long. You could be missing out on a lot of good girls while waiting for one. Plus, any girl who would even consider ending a relationship for another would probably do the same thing to you when a better offer comes in to play. You would be better off playing in traffic.

[Vegasrunner]

She doesn't like you. Women will always trade up for a better option it sounds like she doesn't consider you one. You need to stick w/ your gut and move on from her blocking her on Snap was a good start.

[WonderBell99]

You don’t have to do anything. Don’t be a homewrecker. She sounds like she would cheat on you at some point if you ever get together with her

[In_Trance]

Move along