What would you say to a guy you caught looking at your cleavage?

Question

For example, when a guy keeps looking at it Girls, when it happens to you, what do you say? Guys, if you have been told something like that?

Lilith_bumblebee · Accepted Answer

I didn't believe this is a thing - either because the guys were hiding the fact that they are looking or they weren't looking cause my boobies ain't that big. And then, my gosh, went on this date with a normal-looking guy BUT he kept looking at my cleavage. Like he wasn't even hiding it, he would speak to me but look at my boobies. Frankly, I chuckled, that was my only reaction. I found it amusing how obvious he was about it and how intense his stare was:)) he even asked why am I laughing and I simply replied "something funny on my mind".

It was funny, I didn't feel uncomfortable or weird in any way, my only thought was that he didn't see boobies before or something

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

My eyes are up here. If you can't stop staring, go home and jerk off to porn like you always do.

And then I'm escalating. If we're somewhere public, I'm calling attention and calling him out. If we're in an establishment, I'll be asking the staff to move me elsewhere and help keep him away (and warn other women about him).

If I'm somewhere I can easily leave without impacting my experience, I'm outta there.

Don't have time or interest in dealing with pathetic porn pigs who can't respect women in real life.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

If I feel the need to stare at a woman's cleavage she's going to know that I feel that need because I'm going to smile when she looks at me I'm going to open my eyes as wide as possible and I'm just going to stick my neck out and I'm going to look hard just so we can both laugh I mean usually if I look it's a quick glance but if they're wearing shirt it kind of want you to look I think they're proud which I don't blame them but if it's a friend of mine that's doing it I'm going to make a big deal out of it because I want to laugh I want them to laugh and because it's my friend that's why

OlderThanILook · Accepted Answer

I remember getting caught once. She said "why are you looking at my breasts?" loudly so everyone could hear. I'm too scared to look now lmao

mandyfire98 · Answer

I'll let them look because I'm probably wearing something showing cleavage. If they continue to stare beyond just a couple of glances then I'll call attention to it and I'll normally say "ok I'll give you five then we are going back to reality here" I'll tell them to stare for 5 seconds. I'll count those 5 seconds and then I'll ask them if they got a good look and can we have a normal conversation and have some self control.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i don't think it ever hapoen to me 😂😂😂 but my ex before it's pur constant fight and called me a slut. my blood would boul because he is ruininh my good mood our "date" over an issue which i think is nonsense. i am angry because his reaction is intense and would ask me to but new top right there and then. i only wore v-neck. i am a beauty enthusiast and i just can't practice my passion be it outfit or makeup. even lipstick is issue.

i have no experience with cleavage but i have a suitor before who always look at my neck and collar bone. i gwt distracted so i just leave. because of that incident it took me a while to wear that top again

Urvashimaghi · Answer

Once upon a time, I was traveling by buss. At a moment, I was standing for some relaxation.

After a while, I saw that, a guy beside me, was desperately looking at my breast.

Then I went to him and asked, "what were you looking at so curiously?"

I was really shocked hearing his answer.

He said that, "Madam, in fact, I was looking at your cleavage, and that is really so gorgeous that I can't even imagine to describe the beauty and attractiveness of your cleavage."

Pinay_ako · Answer

I’d be like, hello? My face is up ⬆️ here, Mr! Or just let their eyes feast on them. You can look 👀 No touch

I got small ones so there’s nothing to see unless I really wear a nice push-up bra showing some cleavage, then I seen some eyes 👀 getting lost in them 🤣. or even when I’m not wearing any. Boobs are boobs 🤷‍♀️

ManOnFire · Answer

You're not gonna like this but it actually is really hot to me when women get annoyed by us doing that. I would really love it if a woman with big boobs caught me staring all the time and then one day starts staring at my crotch and then she angrily says, "Now. How do you like it?"

I know, it's messed up😂 Sorry, I can't help it.

RangerBlue22 · Answer

Do women show cleavage just for the hell of it? No matter how much they deny it they do it for attention.

However they expect to get attention from guys they like vs. expecting guys they don’t like to magically read their minds and not look at them.

Now don’t get me wrong. No guy shouldn’t creepily stare at a girls chest for an extended amount of time let alone make a comment about it. But she really has no right to get all pissy if a guy she’s not interested in (and he has no idea about it) giving a glance for a long moment.

Anyway I actually purposely ignore girls who dress provocatively. They are often hypocritically over defensive about guys giving them attention. They are usually more hypocritically more “on guard” and won’t engage in long conversations or hand out phone numbers.

jbasch · Answer

Some girls have been kind of subtle, raise an eyebrow or ask, "Something up?" That's enough to embarrass me and get me to jolt out of it. But other times I've heard the familiar "My eyes are up here" line. The worst (but most effective...) way I've been called out was getting kneed in the nuts.

hellfirec · Answer

If I am wearing something revealing then I don’t mind a person looking at my cleavage. Cos it’s quite inevitable and its human tendency to look at there. But if someone is being too creepy then I mind and make sure he doesn’t look at it. I really have a good boobs so I always face this thing.

KrisPW · Answer

If I'm wearing something TO get attention, then I just enjoy it. If an unintended target is enjoying the view, then I might blush a bit and turn away. But if it's something with a really creepy vibe, or I'm wearing something normal and he's still being weird, then I find a way out and leave the situation all together.

Makeushiver · Answer

Is the reason you wore what you chose to wear that day something thhat showcased your cleavage? I don't think you can fault anyone who looks at your tits. f they stay looking at your tits or stare obviously that's rude but aside from that any guy is going to appreciate nice tits displayed well

shesrad · Answer

i have had men and woman caught looking at my chest im 4'11 with dd s so i can't say i blame them being this small they look huge. i never say anything

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

I don't really care, it's quite expected. 🙈🤣

Po1989 · Answer

I've never been accused of doing that before, no. Anyone both men and women "check out" others of course, but I don't understand that small minority of men who blatantly leer or cat call. I can't imagine they get positive responses and they just look ridiculous.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Usually I don't see the point in staring at a Girls Boobs unless She is Naked, I might have a quick look if I find her attractive and her nipples are Sticking through her Shirt but otherwise I don't stare at a Girls Boobs, The main reason being because I can get caught.

I have Stared at Girls I find Attractive like any other Guy, But obviously I usually try to avoid to do it too much in case I get caught.

Alex8736 · Answer

Every person and situation is different. If it's a workplace interview and the applicant is staring at her cleavage while she is talking I doubt the person would get the job but on the other hand a female dressed in a low cut v-neck revealing over 75% of cleavage can put a guy in a lose lose situation where if he states he will get a "I'm up here" response but if he doesn't stare he will get the "you don't think I'm pretty" song and dance 💖😇

Dominique95glee · Answer

Depends on who the guy is if it a stranger I will sweetly say no and walk away some guy I know it hate say something very mean and flip my hair and walk a guy I know and like I would smile and say take a picture it last longer if it’s my boyfriend I won’t say anything just shake it off if it is. Really good friend I act like I don’t know if it’s a crush I will flirt and move closer if it is a kid shake it off it always depends

susie22 · Answer

I've had that happen a lot. I think my favorite is to ask him if he liked what he was looking at, I've only had a couple guys that had a decent comeback for that.

CopperKing · Answer

I have a general rule for life (and I am going to get a lot of flack for this but) if you don't want something to be seen don't put it out in the open for all to see.

Now while I think it is morally reprehensible to do so such a thing I cannot deny that I have not done it myself.

Vanidal · Answer

"Good for you to notice what I intentionally decide to show. How does it look? Great right?"

"Yeah, its kinda small. But it's nice. Thanks for letting my eyes appreciate your beauty."

A dialogue in my dream.

Beatrix7 · Answer

i would turn around nd say why u looking at my tits a take it u must like them am not a shy girl i hit out with it straight everyone loves that am like that a would let him say they where nice nd big but in a way am sick of men saying my tits are hot when they see a profile pic of me and a have clothes on its always the tits first they say but it wouldn't bother ad just say straight why u looking at my tits do u like them but wouldn't do anything sexual iam not a hoe i am not a sleep about

Jooying · Answer

I wouldn’t say anything. If it’s someone I don’t know it I barely know, I would either let them look it just walk away. If it’s someone I know or a good friend, I might give them a look of “are you looking at my cleavage?” and smile to them.

Th3ft · Answer

I try hard to be appropriate but every now and then I see a real cute lady with some pretty titties that I can’t think straight around. Lately I have noticed that a death stare creeps me out enough to pull me out of it.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, when I dress to show cleavage I know what to expect, so I'm not going to get pissed off at someone for doing it. I mean that's the point of it, right? If he's over the top or obnoxious about it then I'll roll my eyes at him or even tell him to piss off, but if he's more subtle then I'll just ignore him or, if he's cute, smile at him.

Dazed0N0Confused · Answer

I worked as a bartender, the more breast I showed the more money I made. It's just part of the job, & I made a LOT of money

dustybiker · Answer

People tend to look at my dog realism tattoos more. Usually intense detail staring. I tease “Hey, my eyes are up here.” Always gets a grin.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I’ve only been caught once. She never smiled at me again, and only spoke to me when she kind of had to. It was no big loss to me, but i still felt a bit of shame and disappointment.

RedStiletto88 · Answer

Sometimes I’ve just ignored them, sometimes I’ve crossed my arms and said ‘excuse you’, and on a few occasions I’ve let them get a better look and asked if they liked what they saw. They did , lol.

NathanDavis · Answer

I've never been caught at it... but I don't stare either might be a quick glance or two and just that, no more... lol and never if the girl would realize that I did

Anonymous · Answer

I had a work calling she was big busted and one time she came in with a very low cut outfit on. She was the only female in the office. Lot of us could not help from staring at her bosoms. She did have a nice wreck. She never wore that outfit again because it was awkward for her as well as everybody else.

Sour-rose · Answer

"You wanna motorboat them, it's $200."

Nikki1989 · Answer

It happens to me all the time. I usually just say something like, "do you like that?"

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Again, posting this classic: 🤡

TDDMS · Answer

I've had women stare at my cock. At which point, I just flex my cock and see their eyes light up. In regards to boobs, boobs are great. If a woman is wearing a low cut blouse or showing cleavage, she's doing it for attention so give it to her. One time I was look at a woman's tits and I said aloud, I wanted to law my head on those nice tits of yours. She complied eagerly.

PeteBy · Answer

Some surprising responses from women. But I guess you are aware of your assets and know men will look if they're on show.

Emilyis · Answer

Glare at him and when he looks up I would say YES they are real and NO you can't touch. only my husband and children can.

Guardian45 · Answer

That Q pic reminds me of how one of my GFs first seduced me. She wore a soft, fuzzy sweater with deep cleavage; cornered me; leaned over me, and pushed me down onto the bed! I swear to God! 😂

Ever since I've had a thing for soft, fuzzy sweaters!😂🤪💜👍

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Depends on my mood. Usually I'll resort to humor. Once I slid my phone over them recording video and got a great slow mo of his face to from ogling to panic

kellytheman · Answer

I have had multiple things happen when I got caught. girls told me my eyes are up here, like what you see/want to see more, and I did got nudge by a teacher when I was caught looking down a girl blouse when she was bending over

TacticalLizard · Answer

Girl In a church I used to attend wasn’t Wearing any Panties I saw her Pussy Kept staring at it She Yelled at me told me to Quit staring at her pussy
Didn’t care I kept staring at it if your going Come to church without panties on best Believe My Dick will get hard.

laurieluvsit · Answer

This works sometimes... I'm not kidding... lol

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I use the cockblocking crossed arms technique

Youryeodongsaeng · Answer

Since I've never had that kind of attention before, I wouldn't mind it.

MementoMori_ · Answer

I don't know which is worse, staring or trying not to stare and REALLY looking like a lunatic.

AsaKyo · Answer

I have never in my life seen men out in public staring at a girl's cleavage, so my assumption would be that they just don't care lmao

EmmaMary · Answer

It would greatly depend whether he was staring or just glancing.

dolemite89 · Answer

“let me know if you find anything down there” was my fave 🤣

sometimes girls catch a glance at a bad moment think you were really staring at which can be shitty. If ur not being a creep and actually staring they usually don’t care. Girls do in fact want guys they’re attracted to glancing at their boobs 🤷‍♂️

BlueScorpio · Answer

Nothing I just awkwardly pretend he's not looking or I walk away.

Curmudgeon · Answer

I have. Sometimes, amazing cleavage is just that.

My response, after averting gaze, "I'm sorry about that...(pause a bit)... you look great." (smile awkwardly)

Because, well, that IS the most honest response!

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Why should she say anything? Why ELSE would she be showing it off if she didn't WANT guys to look at it?

Petedavidsonfan · Answer

Depends on the guy. If it’s a creepy old guy I’ll tell him to shove it.

Kaneki05 · Answer

I pretty confident that I look without causing suspicion.

bigpauly · Answer

I try not to stare. I have been caught guilty before and said “I’m sorry, I can’t help I’m eye level with them”.(only time being a shorty comes in handy)

Emiliamazing · Answer

Doesn’t happen frequently, and honestly I’m at the point in my life where I don’t care. If someone is being obnoxious I will likely try to cover up a little bit more or simply turn away.

AviatorTom · Answer

I dated a woman who was very confident about her very nice breasts. When she caught me looking at them, she would often say, "Nice, aren't they. And you might get to play with them... later."

Emma_Walker · Answer

i have never said anything when i have had that happen i just dont really care

DannyUk2017 · Answer

A simple reply..: What's Beautiful even God Loves!  So... guess what's to be followed after that depends on the "mood" of the person... 🤷‍♂️

77five · Answer

If I a guy is looking at my chest, I know he isn't thinking anything positive because Im an A cup, lmao. And if I wear something lowcut, Im sure my chest acne scars are drawing attention

Kelly6 · Answer

I just like it when they look so I say. do you like them? if they answer honestly then I show them more

sage2021 · Answer

The guy is probably staring at them to figure out if they are real or surgically implanted. I just tell them they are real.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Lol i see mostly postive comments  Love the girls reaction on here lol feels unreal 😆

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