Why do women flake and how to minimize it?

[Deserter]

I'll be talking to a chick for days, everything going smooth, we're about to meet up, then either the day of or day before they block me. Like wtf is that?

[Anonymous]

Never try to understand why a woman does anything. That's women 101. Just concern yourself with being a decent guy, and don't tolerate b. s. That's my best advice to you man. A woman needs to KNOW you have a breaking point and if she goes there she's out the door.. period! If you pick a decent woman this shouldn't be a problem. Because a decent woman generally knows when she's acting ridiculous and will not test your boundries.

[Deserter]

You underestimate how hard it is to find a decent woman

[Opinion Owner]

No dude I really don't lol

[Opinion Owner]

I just know my worth and I'd rather be alone than with a ratchet.

[Juxtapose]

Fuck man I don't know, they have a million different little bullshit reasons and it could be based on her mood that day.

Ditch the women who won't talk to you straight up. Their loss.

[Deserter]

They can't even give you a reason, assholes

[dustybiker]

You can only depend on very few people. You have to go in giving people wiggle room. If you take everything personally you’ll only end up really bitter. Allow people to change their minds.

[Deserter]

I'm sick of it

[dustybiker]

I get it. Such as life I’m afraid.

[Midgetmcwidget]

Planning too far in advance means I always say yes then try to flake on the day.

[Deserter]

Why? And it's usually just a few days, when she's free

[Juxtapose]

Cowardly woman.

[AmeerX]

Happened to me a number of time. The real reason, nothing wrong with us. Just they can't take a stand in front of society. Talking about my own country though

[FilmGuy93]

Sometimes the idea wasn't for her. Other times the interaction just wasn't exciting enough to her.

[Deserter]

We've been flirting and sending nudes for days, she was literally gonna eat my ass

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like she was just enjoying being a tease. Women suck like that sometimes, dude.

[Deserter]

Doubt it, she was saying to come over, but it was 4 am and I was exhausted, so we schedueled for tomorrow, I wake up, blocked

[FilmGuy93]

Yep... she got cold feet. There is literally no reason that a woman would make that kind of talk and then ghost you just because you wer kind of tired.

[Deserter]

She said she's bi and she regularly has 3somes

[FilmGuy93]

Yeah... you were just getting teased, man. It's okay. It happens.

[sheenagwapa]

block you? you must have done something wronh or she hates

[Deserter]

Nah, they do it for literally no logical reason, we left off good

[Jamie05rhs]

Because they hate themselves and they don't believe that they actually deserve good things.

[Maniwishiwashome]

If she flakes on you move on. Flakes = no respect.