Girls, are only happy when there's something wrong?

[Rod_Iron]

Why is it women only seem to be happy when there's a problem in the relationship? If everything is going great, they always FIND something to be upset about. Just out of left field they will catch and attitude. Why?

[PrettyPriya]

I am certainly not happy when there is something wrong in my relationship. Lucky for us, we have few issues. Those issues are quickly resolved with communication, like adults would do. We have never had a single argument that got out of control and we ended up angry with each other.

I don't know where you get the idea that girls would be happy when things are not going well. That is just absurd. Perhaps you are just not meeting the right girls. Of course, you aren't to blame either, right?

I'm surprised you didn't go anon for this question. This sounds like what an angry blue anon would ask. I have seen it time and time again on this site. Always blaming the girl.

Perhaps they are not finding things to be upset about but you are giving them reasons with your own shortcomings. Just a guess. Anyhow, I don't have this issue. I am perfectly content when things are good and certainly don't look to make things issues.

[SueShe]

Your question is more of a statement than a question in itself.

When you say

"Girls, are only happy when there's something wrong", it is clearly not a question and therefore, your statement is a likely candidate for removal because if you read the GaG FAQs, a moderator can remove this statement as it is not a question.

To answer your statement, it seems that you have had some issues with a girl that did not agree with your overall views and now you think that the 2+ billion adult women are giving their partner a hard time and are only happy when the relationship fails...

[purpledrops]

I think it's because our partners tend to not show any effort or when things get still and you worry that they're getting tired of you... So you pick on something to get any sort of response from them, anything to show that they care about the relationship. It's not a healthy behaviour but this is somewhat the reason.

[Anonymous]

Why are men so quick to shift the blame?

It is never your fault, right?

[ZS007]

fact or crap? I vote for crap