Am I facetious getting revenge on a woman who rudely rejected me 9 years ago by standing her up and making her waste money on a hotel and train fare?

[Anonymous]

She did not at all recognise me as I was 17 at the time, shaven head and face, overweight and a metal head... but I certainly recognised her as I never forget a face that has been rude to me. I've changed massively in appearance now due to no longer dressing alternatively, loosing 80lbs, growing a beard and having hair on my head (I'm quite attractive if I do say so myself) and I was scrolling through tinder to get laid (as one does) and I happened to come across her profile and thought to myself..."well fuck me... look who it is" I swiped right out of curiosity and went to bed forgetting about the whole ordeal. I woke up and was flicking through my matches and to my surprise she had pretty much spam messaged me (well three paragraphs in a row at different times throughout the night) I was complete and utterly gobsmacked at how stupid this bitch was and how deficient she was in memory, I responded and we got chatting and long story short we're meeting next Friday, will I feel better if I show the bitch who's boss by doing what I planned?

[WonderBell99]

Although, I do understand your point of view, it would be rather petty and immature of you to be vindictive and take revenge on someone for something hurtful they did nearly a decade ago. She was probably a high schooler as well. Let me tell you this, MOST people outgrow their shitty phase. Kids are all sorts of terrible; mostly high schoolers. She is an adult now and so are you. Act like one.

By standing her up, you are doing exactly what she did all those years ago. Do you really want to stoop down to the level of a teenage girl? That is certainly not a good look on a 26 year old man.

What exactly are you planning to get out of this frivolous farce of yours? If I were you, I would have either swiped left or went on a date with her, and at the end, let her know how awful she was. I would give her a chance to see if she has changed. If she hasn’t, her reply would probably be snarky and condescending. Almost like she isn’t remorseful for what she did. But if she was even the slightest bit of guilty for what she did, she would be regretful and apologize for it.

By standing her up, you clearly do show that you care enough to make time for her and chat with her.

[WonderBell99]

how awful she was when she rejected you*

[TrueConfection]

Wow! You've been holding a grudge for NINE YEARS because your feelings got hurt? 👀

[Anonymous]

Frankly I think you are pathetic.

Someone rejected 10 years ago and you not only still remember that but you want revenge?

Wtf is wrong with you?

She isn't the same person you know, that person who hurt you is gone, just like you aren't the same person anymore.

All you are doing is proving to the world and most importantly yourself that for all the gains you might have made you are a nasty spiteful pathetic lying faggot.

Nice job, maybe put that on your profile or wear a bell around your neck so people know not to have anything to do with you.

[Anonymous]

You’re only hurting yourself of the opportunity to see how she has changed, she won’t know why you stood her up, I’ve seen movies like this and it’s really immature after it’s been so many years, you might actually work out, then maybe tell her later on and she will be surprised and sorry if anything

[PantyBuyer4Life]

Yes, you should grow up. You're not the same person you were 9 years ago, it's odd to think that she's the same person. You wouldn't want to be punished for something 9 years ago, give her the same courtesy.

[Guy13]

WRONG…. The first time you meet her dreams as sex machine. Second time, you do all that. Days do much more this way 😎

[Anonymous]

What a shitty and immature thing to do. You guys were teenagers then and it’s been years now, so grow up and let that hurt go. It looks terrible on you.

[Anonymous]

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[Iron_Man]

You should have let it go