Why do I dread plans I’ve already made?

[Anonymous]

I literally feel physically sick when I think about have to attend plans I already made. Why?

[MiamiMadness]

Yep happens to me too, makes me cancel all the time like an asshole 😔

[Asker]

Right and I feel like such a bad person for canceling and then I beat myself up and avoid the person

[MiamiMadness]

Thanks for the MVP, and I do the exact same thing, I’ll avoid them and just end up making it as awkward as possible. I need to get a better way to handle it lol

[Wise4myage]

Perhaps that's an omen you should respect.

[MysticDevice]

You're probably just an introvert and don't realize it.

Think of life as an arcade.

Introverts wake up with a full cup of tokens. Every single social interaction cost them at least one token. The second they run out they have to get home. Stat. The only way to get more tokens or "recharge" is solitude.

Extroverst wake up with no tokens. The only way they get some is through social interaction.

[Asker]

Wow 😳 I’ve never thought about it like that but it actually makes so much sense

[MysticDevice]

Haha glad I could provide some insight

[bean2k21]

For me, a plan is committing your free time. What if something better comes along when I have made plans to go to a seaside resort with Danielle? What if Dianne decides she wants to fly in from Europe and give me a blow job? Then I'll be stuck with Danielle.

[exitseven]

Lots of times I make plans to do something and at the time it seems like a good idea but the closer I get to going I start to wonder if I made a mistake. nine times out of ten afterwards I am glad I went.

[DizzyDesii]

Nothing is promised. And even if it is, promises dont actually mean shit. You can always cancel

[Zolly99999]

Are you thinking about all the negative things that could go wrong?

[Asker]

No I just rlly dread going. Like it makes me nauseous thinking about having to go to the plans I don't know why 😂

[Zolly99999]

Did you not what to go when you planned it? Lol

[Asker]

No I was so excited to do this thing and start doing something for once and now I’m just like 🙄🙄🙄

[Zolly99999]

Ahhh like buyers remorse lol

[Bethany22]

I dread editing work that I've already submitted. Not sure if that's the same kind of thing.

[Anonymous]

Look up social anxiety and cognitive behavioral therapy.

[AndrésC64]

I don't know. But when you figure it out let me know.

[Fuentes]

I guess that make you just makes u a big introvert lol

[spartan55]

Then why did you accept the invite?

[Asker]

It was something that I actually signed up for

[spartan55]

Okay, I'll play along. Why did you sign up then?

[Iron_Man]

What are the plans

[Asker]

I signed up for this class to take that runs for 10 weeks. It’s a financial literacy class so I RLLY need to go but every week when it comes up I dread it

[Asker]

The people are so nice but I just can’t

[Iron_Man]

Sorry can you get your money back

[Asker]

Actually it’s free that’s why I rlly should go 😂😂

[Iron_Man]

Yes go

[dustybiker]

I’m spontaneous myself, so I get this. lol

[NathanDavis]

sounds like some sort of anxiety...

[Jamie05rhs]

Sounds like you have social anxiety.

[Smartman5]

maybe you're giving up

[ZS007]

social anxiety or introversion maybe

[Amandapigen]

It could sound as social anxiety

[Anonymous]

bc you dont want to go through with them