Girls, signs you are only being friendly with a male colleague at work?

[Anonymous]

[AddylynnNightingale]

When there's no flirting, no sexual teasing coming from me or anything like that.

[Asker]

Define flirting though?

[Asker]

In your words

[AddylynnNightingale]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. Things you do to get a person to like you sexually or romantically.

[Asker]

Sooo if I said there’s a girl at work who says hi and bye with a big smile on her face is that an indication of liking someone? Although she seems friendly with everyone so I don’t know if it’s just friendliness or is it something more.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Do YOU smile at people only for them to like you sexually or romantically?

[Asker]

No, but i've never pursued girls in the workplace. I found that unprofessional. I'm a guy we communicate differently like give a head nod or fist dab to say hey whats up to other guy friends. In fact my manager tells me to smile more, im not the smiling type.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Same goes here. It's just being nice.

[Asker]

Yeah but I catch her glancing at me from time to time as well. She'll ask little things to do at work that isn't a big deal.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Like a good colleague.

[Asker]

Yeah but you don’t need to be a good colleague. I mentioned I catch her glancing at me from time to time. It’s not like a “good colleague” is required to look at another colleague. I go to work to do my job.

[AddylynnNightingale]

it's just looking, my colleagues look too

[Asker]

Well talking about this won't matter unless I do something about it at the end of the day. I do think she likes me so it's time for me to roll the dice and just do it. End of the day it's not like anyone on GAG will care if she does like me.