Signs a male coworker is gonna ask you out (and wants to get to know you as friends not as a notch on his belt)?

[Userotif]

[Iron_Man]

You’ll just have to find out on the date the way he talks to you the way he looks at you if he just gives you a kiss or if he’s trying to look for sex

[elizamichale1]

That he is trying to befriendly n yet more than decent... takes interest in things u say to him or others n once he is able to stay around u longer then he will definitely ask u out

[elizamichale1]

Thanks for the mho honey

[Sasquach]

You can usually tell if someone's into you if they go out of their way to talk with you (beyond work duties)

[dustybiker2]

Looming around?

[Userotif]

He’s a busy man

[Julian7312]

Likes talking to you

[Userotif]

We are not in same department so we don’t get to talk much

[Julian7312]

Maybe if he texts you a lot

[Userotif]

He didn’t ask my number

[Julian7312]

How do you run into each other? How did you get to know him?

[Userotif]

Coworker for several years. But never working close enough to where we have time to chat except in passing like elevator or whatever. I mean our departments work together but it’s all in a rush so it’s not like we had time to sit and chat like I could with coworkers on my department basically

[Julian7312]

Maybe strike up a conversation when you get the chance and see what happens

[Userotif]

We have had convos and I’ve stopped striking them up first because he didn’t do it first when he had the chance

[Julian7312]

I'm sorry, that kind of sounds like either he's shy or he's not into you. Could be lots of different things.

[Userotif]

He seems shy

[Julian7312]

Lots of guys are afraid of opening up, letting themselves get emotionally vulnerable

[Userotif]

Oh. That’s weird but ok.

[Julian7312]

Weird but true

[Userotif]

Sucks for them

[Julian7312]

It's not easy for them