So recently I became friends with a married woman (I’m a male). We’ve been friends since late August and we eventually developed feelings for each other. Started out as friends flirted, sexted, and we talked about a a future.
She then told me her marriage is at the making/breaking point. They’ve been together 12 years, married 10. Basically he resents her because she was raped by his cousin, before they got together and when she met his family she saw the cousin and ruined his relationship with his family. She said he’s said it multiple times, and when he is drunk. He doesn’t pay any attention to her. She told me she’s giving him one more chance and she’s getting finances settled so she can leave him at a drop of a hat if he doesn’t change.
So we continued talking for about another month and we got hot and heavy, then she told me he read our messages and we have to stop talking last week and was absolutely crushed. I asked her to call me she wouldn’t because she said it’s to hard, I sent her a video of me crying and telling her my feelings about her she said she can’t watch them. She said it’s not the last she’ll hear from me. And if the marriage doesn’t work she said she’ll come back. She said she’s never connected with someone like me, like we’ve known each other for years.
So that night while I was drunk I wrote her a long email beared my heart and soul to her and sent her flowers at work to show I really cared for her. And got nothing back, assuming he gave her an ultimatum on if she contacts me he’ll take the kids from her. Anyways I’m heartbroken and today it’s really hitting me hard, I put her out of my mind, I deleted all her pictures today, the videos, etc.
I know I have to move on, but what are the odds she ever comes back? Does she think about me? Or is she just heartless and doesn’t give a f*ck. I know nobody knows her, but just what you think.
Yes it’s on me too because I gained feelings, wasn’t my plan just happened. She lives in a dif. State.
