What is the best approach to dealing with your friend’s wife coming onto you and directly offering sexual favors?

[Recooter]

A real good friend of mine was away on business, when I met his wife at the soccer field with our kids. The two of us and our kids went to lunch afterwards, and in the bathroom of this tiny restaurant, she approached me me and started kissing me and much more. This was extremely exciting for me, but on the other hand, I knew it wouldn't end well. How would you deal with this?

[Guy13]

Look, this is not difficult and don't make it a big Drama as you have been targeted. Sometimes it is an act of jealousy especially if they feel that you two guys are closer than Couple is emotionally. You are an official Target.

The first thing is to CALMLY run in the opposite direction and do NOT act shell-shocked, acknowledge rattled, and definitely talk to an dissociated party to process it... Someone that know no one involved.

I assume you refused the offers and made it clear your allegiance and stance on extramarital affairs. And, that yo are maintaining your time with friend and the shared time among you three has increased.-This is how the spouse discovers or gives credence to any possible Claims if it comes down to it. He needs to be able to see her in action as do you. This is when one discovers what type of Behavior and Personality one is dealing with.

Let your Friend come to you about it. Darts are good for that alone time...

[Rockstarrrrr]

Never do that to your buddy... Just put yourself in his place... Yeah... it's bad.. You can just ignore the whole thing and if he's a really close friend you can tell him about the incident so that he could have an idea of what his wife is doing behind his back...

[shyonehere]

If you want to do it, then do it. I've known a few people that like the whole hotwifing thing or the fantasy of fooling around. Many couple do have these secret kinks and they are not going to expose it even to a friend. Your friend may be into her hitting on you, so please don't "out her" of anything embarrassing. If you don't want to play, then don't take part.

[chrissykerdock]

Ask her for a blowjob since your wife doesn't give them

[EricJonesAB]

You may have to avoid her if you can because it's easy to get pulled into those situations. Like you said it won't end well and she's not concerned about hurting him or causing trouble for you.

[LazerBean]

Let her know how much of a nasty skank you think she is, then disassociate yourself from her.

[Recooter]

I agree with you, but her husband is one of my best friends.. How do I disassociate from him?

[LazerBean]

You can just tell him the truth. That would end things pretty easily.

[Anonymous]

Don't play with fire.

[Recooter]

That was the decision I made, but it is weird between us because I never told him what happened. I thought I would lose either way!