I'm looking for helpful advice not male bashing or argument, those will be coming down.
I'm looking for helpful advice not male bashing or argument, those will be coming down.
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I'm 5'5 110lbs.
I don't quite fit an A cup.
I got a small booty.
I'm 21 and built like a 14 year old.
I don't fit a victoria secret body either. But it never worried me.
Never felt intimidated by the booty girls with the big breast.
Never intimidated by the models online. Or the hate thrown on the internet about how unattractive black women are.
Why?
Almost daily I was reminded how beautiful i am by both my parents.
The positive affirmations of how i was their beautiful smart child that could do anything began at such an early age, i never felt the need to be validated.
I got hateful side of life early to from people in my community to try to bring me down, but again my parents made our conversations feel so honest and safe for me to express anything to them that i could talk to them about it and always knew they meant it.
The words of parents really needs to be chosen wisely and the tone of how you say it and express it as well.
One thing that helped to make what they said to me so believable was never once did they try to force their beliefs on me.
They gave me guidance and got on me for acting up.
But the beliefs were for me to figure out and if i came to them for advice on it they would explain to me how they saw it, only if i seeked it out.
But they always said this is how we see it, but we want you to figure out your own path.
Online content isn't where the self doubt starts. The self doubt begins when there is nobody telling them how beautiful they are but see people tell these models how beautiful they are. They begin saying why doesn't anyone think I'm beautiful?
Thank you for being the only person on GAG to tackle a difficult issue and respond to a serious question. Your input has been very helpful to a father who did not have this experience growing up. I wish I could give you more than one MHO.
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