Why are girls so difficult?

[ra6282]

I've been trying to get with this girl for years. And she does everything to keep attention. but when I ask her to hangout this is her response.

"Hey, sorry i have plans tomorrow to rest. I'm out all day today and running errands so I'll be resting in"

I've tried to stop talking to her numerous times. But she always gets mad and finds a way to start talking to me again.

Not looking for advice. I know this is a lost cause. She wants to keep me around till she's ready. But I don't have time to wait. I need to start my own family.

It's sad how going out to eat with me is too much work. I must not be worth the effort. :(

[GreenLanternI0I]

Truth. Girls are not difficult at all and in your case, your girl is simply not interested in you. If you were Truly physically attractive to her and if mental chemistry would of been somewhat the same, you wouldn't be able to stop her from constantly calling you or her coming to your place for some constant intimate time. The only reason she still talking to you, is because you have been Friend Zoned and she probably getting something from you, car rides, free meals, maybe money etc...

I'm saying all those things not to hurt you feelings, but because somebody has to open your eyes. If you have a lot of cash (girls have A LOT of options when it comes to choosing their B. F/husband or even F buddy) and if you REALLY like something, you wouldn't be postponing the purchase over and over and over again and make up some stupid reasons and excuses. I hope you get my analogy.

[misogynistic_pig]

They play hard to get with beta males so they can get money and resources out of them, and if she was attracted to you, she wouldn't play hard to get.

[ra6282]

Lol. I'm the guy giving free stuff and not getting p*&!@&

[kylee2437]

How is this being super confusing? Lol this is you being confusing to yourself because you don’t know what you actually want even though you claim to want a family and your time not to be wasted - yet you are wasting your own time. People that know what they want don’t put up with things they don’t want.

[NachtjaegerSS]

Why are you wasting time with her? She only wants your attention and validation! Go find a real woman and stop simping.

[MountAverage]

It's clearly you who's the difficult one, not her.